I once dated a Christian man who ended up with a Russian mail order bride, and she ended up taking all his money and divorce him.
He was addicted to looking at models in catalogue, and did not understand he was addicted to lust. He was a 41 year old virgin living in his old parents house and having his business in the basement. No woman wanted him because he was addicted to models, and lived at home and a virgin, plus he wasn't a beauty. I looked pass all that and saw the man. It just didn't work as he had this impossible beauty standard, because of his addiction. He cried a lot about that when the reality was crushed. It didn't help I exposed his addiction in front of God. So he went back home and ordered a mail bride from Russia that looked the way he luated. And it didn't last.