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WHY DO WE HAVE TO TIPTOE AROUND YOU BI-POLAR MANIACS? I'VE HAD ENOUGH!

 
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I never realized there were so many mental health experts on GLP. Explains a lot!!

I don't believe in Bipolar. It's hogwash created to sell lifelong prescriptions.

Whenever someone says they're bipolar I just think 'no you're an idiot'. It doesn't exist.

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I never realized there were so many mental health experts on GLP. Explains a lot!!

I don't believe in Bipolar. It's hogwash created to sell lifelong prescriptions.

Whenever someone says they're bipolar I just think 'no you're an idiot'. It doesn't exist.

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You used coercion on a person and traumatic episodes in life as your access points into the head. Don't pretend like you didn't know that would make me unstable. You're not the victims here, despite what your narcissism tells you. You wanted an unstable personality to reshape, and you got one. That's all you. You made deals with other people that a bit player had to conform to, so you tried to use force to make it that way. Except this is supposedly about God and liberating the oppressed, so it became a sick joke rather quickly with your Nietzschean Ubermensch attitude and love of coercion. I'm probably not going back to services, because it is bullshit. That will at least make me somewhat more stable. But don't complain that your attempts to tinker with who I am and what I see result in me becoming paranoid and unreasonable. Jesus.
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Do you actually believe anyone will read all of your words>>>>>>>
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What you need to do is figure out how to be a bigger victim than they are. Claim you are trans or something retarded like that and when one of them fly off the handle, you can claim they are transphobic and threaten to get them canceled unless they 'fix' their ways.
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Oh this is GENIUS! hf
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Yeah you can get a lot of free shitz benefits, rights and privileges just by saying you are trapped in the wrong body. You don't have to actually believe this shit you just need stupid government agents and if they question it accuse them of hate crime.

You could even get extra time off work, paid trips to over states for abortions despite not having a womb and even get away with murder.
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Misdiagnosis is the first error.
"Bipolar' or "schizophrenia " are nothing more than modern terms for demon possession. Trying to explain spiritual afflictions, without acknowledging the spiritual.

They are POSSESSED. And calling it "mental illness" does not address the issue, nor is psychiatry ever ever able to improve the situation.
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You won't have to eventually we'll all be forced to take a neuralink and we'll sit quietly in the corner...

Then will you be satisfied ?

When all of mankind is cerebrally neutered by this brain chip ?

When any deviation from the 'currently approved norm' results in 'correction' ?

When the 'currently approved norm' is determined in secret and rolled out without any advance notice.

In case you hadn't noticed it the 'currently approved norm' for the last century was married with kids. That got replaced in 2015 with WOKE.

You think they won't switch it out again in a decade when the reset is done ?

Be careful, once you dispense with freedom, and you fight to have freedom removed, the outcome going forward applies to you.

Freedom fighters used to mean something different, now it literally means fighting against people having freedom.

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I have two sisters that have been both diagnosed bipolar back in the 80s and they have ripped this AND their own family apart. Neither one of them are accountable for the damage they've done. The lies, the manipulation, or the relationships they've destroyed. One sister doesn't have children thank God, and the other had two that she abused horribly. One of her sons will never speak to her again as long as he lives, and the other one just barely tolerates her and stays at arms length. We didn't know about the abuse until the boys were in their 20s. They finally talked about it.

I have a goddaughter, and a daughter-in-law who suffer from this problem as well. Their moods come in waves, and their mostly predictable, and everyone prepares for the raging, crying, self-pity, suicide threats etc., and after couple of days it passes. In the meantime, they have ripped the hearts out of the ones they love most, usually their husbands.

My son, the husband of one of them, has gone through living hell, and because of the nine-year-old daughter, stays. He's the only one with a level head when things start happening.

My goddaughter is 40, she just had her first baby and he is the most adorable little fella. He's not even a year old yet, but he is already witnessing his mother's spirals. She puts on a happy face to the world like everything is perfect in her family, but we all know behind the scenes are the raging fights, the suicide threats, and the irrational behavior that goes along with each episode.

Why are we supposed to tiptoe around these people and watch what we say? I've been expected to watch what I say so I don't trigger them. I'm sorry, I speak my truth and if they don't like it they can get over it. I'm not going to lie, or am I going to coddle them. I don't care how much they apologize, we know it's going to happen again, and again and again. It never stops.

Why are these people not held accountable for the damage they do?
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Because you are all enabling them
Cut them the fuck out and call it a day.
Can’t fix BPD or Bipolar. It’s a life sentence for the person with the affliction and everyone who’s lives they destroy.
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I never realized there were so many mental health experts on GLP. Explains a lot!!

I don't believe in Bipolar. It's hogwash created to sell lifelong prescriptions.

Whenever someone says they're bipolar I just think 'no you're an idiot'. It doesn't exist.

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I suggest you spend a day interning at a psych hospital. Your ignorance will be cured very quickly.

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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
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A psychiatrist once told me many of these conditions are GENETIC.

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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
 Quoting: The Real Mi


A psychiatrist once told me many of these conditions are GENETIC.
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Yep. Starts with genes and the environment during the years of critical brain development turns them on. However, research, as well as a shit ton of worldwide case studies, indicate the genetic inheritance is highly gender influenced: mother to daughters and fathers to sons.

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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
 Quoting: The Real Mi


Agree with Borderline

Bi-polars cycle b/w mania( overindulgence in anything, detrimentally) to deep depression. They may be rapid/slow cycling and prone to PDs

I have taken care of several people in my medical career. The one thing most glaring in these cases is completely irrational coping skills to adult life in society, especially self-control and or discipline. They all had traumatic childhoods. Incredible the lengths they would go to in their self destruction

So sad. Sadder still if it’s someone you love. But ya gotta own what ya do, if not here

There
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There are also two types of bipolar

Bipolar 1

And Bipolar 2

People with bipolar 2 are more functional.

Bipolar 1 is more serious and includes episodes of psychosis
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Because they are:

1.Bipolar.

2.Maniacs.


You don't go to the Zoo and hop in the cages.

No you just go there and watch the animals being animals.

Sometimes the Polar Bears go for a swim.

The Penguin House always smells like a turkey farm.

The monkeys do things you have trouble explaining to the kids.

And for some reason the Zebra is so "excited" that the tip is literally dragging on the ground.

Then you go home and leave the animals safely tucked away in their cages.
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Honey...

I worked in the mentally challenged...autism...bipolar...retard industry for many years...

With the exception of a few higher functioning ones that are calm and almost normal...

The rest will be cared for...for the rest of their lives...

I am sorry...but having been around them...I can say only this...

They would be better off dead...and their familys would be better off for it too...

mercy killings...and many need it.

I no longer do that work...You get burned out no matter how much time passes...Its hard on everybody and there comes a time when you just cant no more of the shit...

Its pathetic we think we are doing them a favor by keeping them going and alive...

Pretending they an have quality of life...its a fucking joke...

Many never should have been born...many mother regret it later...because they never ever get to have a life with a childlike that ever...till that child dies.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83819856


I live on my own just fine. The intrusion of my family into my life--and that only when they want something--is responsible for both a decline in my mental health, and also the ability I have to care for myself. Mental illness is an environment. A lot of suicidal youth stop being suicidal when they are taken from their family's custody. But you can't keep them away because their families think they own them. Your treatment modalities fail because of their families too many times to count. Admit it, it's true. People who might have made it, might have even contributed something of value to society, end up in a home, or in jail, or dead because of the selfishness of their families. Stop complaining about how much of a burden someone refusing to be your slave is for you.
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The families mostly...the clients we had were all given up by their families...already...Thats why they end up in group homes...with careaids like me...

4 clients in a home...the cost to the government far exceded 40-50 thousand a month...

Most could not even wipe their own asses..but rather liked to smear the shit everywhere but into the toilet and even ate shit...Banged their heads on the walls and picked at their skin...Bite and kick and scratch and masturbate all over the place daily...constant...none stop...

The medications they were all on...anti this and that only made things worse and take their health in the end...

the clock is ticking on all them...most make it till about 40...average...

Guess we wont have to worry soon as they will all be dead.

Government made sure they all got vaxxed...
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And among those are a number of people whose families used them up. I grew up in the residential treatment center and saw kids who were institutionalized because parents couldn't care for them and wouldn't give them up resulting in them becoming wards of the state who stayed in what was basically an orphanage with a rotating staff for upwards of six years.

They ended up with attachment disorders and were basically fit for nothing other than prison by the time they got out. That's the reality of the system and it is selfish parents as much as faceless bureaucracies that do the damage. Right now I live on my own and can afford it, don't hurt anyone or anything, and have been a solid friend to many people even in hard times. But my family thinks they own me, and they pursue me, and won't stop until they've fucked things up again. They've done it before, and that is their nature.

You can talk of pathology all you want, but restricting it to an individual phenomenon seems to demonize the patient to make the family look good. I guess I'm glad you aren't a caretaker any longer.
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I'm sorry you had to go through what you have. I agree with you, it's not the victims fault. However, focus must be on balance, most of all, and a stable connection to some of the carers is a must. As well as consequences and love. Best you have nothing to do with a family that are that bad. Right therapy and meds are crucial as well as healthy living. And also God. He can help more than anyone ever can. And he sets the captives free. He can restore. Pray to jesus. Yeshua.
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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
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A psychiatrist once told me many of these conditions are GENETIC.
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Not the whole truth, it depends on environmental factors and love, upbringing, abuse, and even someone who have reduced centre for empathy can with the right environment learn right and wrong and management with consequences.
While it's true genetic is a factor it isn't the determining factor.
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Misdiagnosis is the first error.
"Bipolar' or "schizophrenia " are nothing more than modern terms for demon possession. Trying to explain spiritual afflictions, without acknowledging the spiritual.

They are POSSESSED. And calling it "mental illness" does not address the issue, nor is psychiatry ever ever able to improve the situation.
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Not in all cases not possession, or more likely, oppression.
But yes it happen. This is why they need God, too.
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I have two sisters that have been both diagnosed bipolar back in the 80s and they have ripped this AND their own family apart. Neither one of them are accountable for the damage they've done. The lies, the manipulation, or the relationships they've destroyed. One sister doesn't have children thank God, and the other had two that she abused horribly. One of her sons will never speak to her again as long as he lives, and the other one just barely tolerates her and stays at arms length. We didn't know about the abuse until the boys were in their 20s. They finally talked about it.

I have a goddaughter, and a daughter-in-law who suffer from this problem as well. Their moods come in waves, and their mostly predictable, and everyone prepares for the raging, crying, self-pity, suicide threats etc., and after couple of days it passes. In the meantime, they have ripped the hearts out of the ones they love most, usually their husbands.

My son, the husband of one of them, has gone through living hell, and because of the nine-year-old daughter, stays. He's the only one with a level head when things start happening.

My goddaughter is 40, she just had her first baby and he is the most adorable little fella. He's not even a year old yet, but he is already witnessing his mother's spirals. She puts on a happy face to the world like everything is perfect in her family, but we all know behind the scenes are the raging fights, the suicide threats, and the irrational behavior that goes along with each episode.

Why are we supposed to tiptoe around these people and watch what we say? I've been expected to watch what I say so I don't trigger them. I'm sorry, I speak my truth and if they don't like it they can get over it. I'm not going to lie, or am I going to coddle them. I don't care how much they apologize, we know it's going to happen again, and again and again. It never stops.

Why are these people not held accountable for the damage they do?
 Quoting: The Real Mi


Because you are all enabling them
Cut them the fuck out and call it a day.
Can’t fix BPD or Bipolar. It’s a life sentence for the person with the affliction and everyone who’s lives they destroy.
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I know a guy who was a bit involved with a woman with bipolar. He had to be very firm, set boundaries and consequences. She had a bad background but her father cared, they just been through a lot. She didn't take her meds always that's what caused the problem. When she did she was almost normal, and could manage her episodes and they were much calmer. So the correct medication is crucial. If they don't work, it's because it's the wrong ones or more or less. She had a great therapist as well. All these things are crucial
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You won't have to eventually we'll all be forced to take a neuralink and we'll sit quietly in the corner...

Then will you be satisfied ?

When all of mankind is cerebrally neutered by this brain chip ?

When any deviation from the 'currently approved norm' results in 'correction' ?

When the 'currently approved norm' is determined in secret and rolled out without any advance notice.

In case you hadn't noticed it the 'currently approved norm' for the last century was married with kids. That got replaced in 2015 with WOKE.

You think they won't switch it out again in a decade when the reset is done ?

Be careful, once you dispense with freedom, and you fight to have freedom removed, the outcome going forward applies to you.

Freedom fighters used to mean something different, now it literally means fighting against people having freedom.

Clown World 2022.
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Well that's part of the problem too, people who should not have kids get them, because they want to seem normal! If you aren't able, or prepared to have kids, you should not just because to fit in.
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Honey...

I worked in the mentally challenged...autism...bipolar...retard industry for many years...

With the exception of a few higher functioning ones that are calm and almost normal...

The rest will be cared for...for the rest of their lives...

I am sorry...but having been around them...I can say only this...

They would be better off dead...and their familys would be better off for it too...

mercy killings...and many need it.

I no longer do that work...You get burned out no matter how much time passes...Its hard on everybody and there comes a time when you just cant no more of the shit...

Its pathetic we think we are doing them a favor by keeping them going and alive...

Pretending they an have quality of life...its a fucking joke...

Many never should have been born...many mother regret it later...because they never ever get to have a life with a childlike that ever...till that child dies.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83819856


I live on my own just fine. The intrusion of my family into my life--and that only when they want something--is responsible for both a decline in my mental health, and also the ability I have to care for myself. Mental illness is an environment. A lot of suicidal youth stop being suicidal when they are taken from their family's custody. But you can't keep them away because their families think they own them. Your treatment modalities fail because of their families too many times to count. Admit it, it's true. People who might have made it, might have even contributed something of value to society, end up in a home, or in jail, or dead because of the selfishness of their families. Stop complaining about how much of a burden someone refusing to be your slave is for you.
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The families mostly...the clients we had were all given up by their families...already...Thats why they end up in group homes...with careaids like me...

4 clients in a home...the cost to the government far exceded 40-50 thousand a month...

Most could not even wipe their own asses..but rather liked to smear the shit everywhere but into the toilet and even ate shit...Banged their heads on the walls and picked at their skin...Bite and kick and scratch and masturbate all over the place daily...constant...none stop...

The medications they were all on...anti this and that only made things worse and take their health in the end...

the clock is ticking on all them...most make it till about 40...average...

Guess we wont have to worry soon as they will all be dead.

Government made sure they all got vaxxed...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83819856


And among those are a number of people whose families used them up. I grew up in the residential treatment center and saw kids who were institutionalized because parents couldn't care for them and wouldn't give them up resulting in them becoming wards of the state who stayed in what was basically an orphanage with a rotating staff for upwards of six years.

They ended up with attachment disorders and were basically fit for nothing other than prison by the time they got out. That's the reality of the system and it is selfish parents as much as faceless bureaucracies that do the damage. Right now I live on my own and can afford it, don't hurt anyone or anything, and have been a solid friend to many people even in hard times. But my family thinks they own me, and they pursue me, and won't stop until they've fucked things up again. They've done it before, and that is their nature.

You can talk of pathology all you want, but restricting it to an individual phenomenon seems to demonize the patient to make the family look good. I guess I'm glad you aren't a caretaker any longer.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83822636


Another thing that isn't discussed a lot is spoiling the child destroy him her later. With this verse God does not mean abuse, but not just giving them everything, without learning to work for it, or get in right amount, and learn to appreciate. My brothers son was absolutely spoiled rotten from the moment he was born. He got everything, and no consequences. That, combined with his mother's genetic of narcissism made him have no empathy. He started to be mean to his younger sisters and hit them. Started to be absent from school, steal. Later manipulative behaviour, and wrong friends, criminals turned him into a criminal and an abuser who hit a woman so badly she almost died. He's now in prison. He has threatened my brother and his family many times. He's coming out soon and then he will do it again.
All this for genetics combined with spoiling and no consequences.
One of the sisters turned a Narcissist who manipulates and doesn't want to work. All because of genetic and spoiling.
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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
 Quoting: The Real Mi


Agree with Borderline

Bi-polars cycle b/w mania( overindulgence in anything, detrimentally) to deep depression. They may be rapid/slow cycling and prone to PDs

I have taken care of several people in my medical career. The one thing most glaring in these cases is completely irrational coping skills to adult life in society, especially self-control and or discipline. They all had traumatic childhoods. Incredible the lengths they would go to in their self destruction

So sad. Sadder still if it’s someone you love. But ya gotta own what ya do, if not here

There
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There are also two types of bipolar

Bipolar 1

And Bipolar 2

People with bipolar 2 are more functional.

Bipolar 1 is more serious and includes episodes of psychosis
 Quoting: ItsAllGood


The actual care environment isn't that good because they're not allowed to attach. But this is one of the core issues, that they desperately need.
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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63560815


They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
 Quoting: The Real Mi


Agree with Borderline

Bi-polars cycle b/w mania( overindulgence in anything, detrimentally) to deep depression. They may be rapid/slow cycling and prone to PDs

I have taken care of several people in my medical career. The one thing most glaring in these cases is completely irrational coping skills to adult life in society, especially self-control and or discipline. They all had traumatic childhoods. Incredible the lengths they would go to in their self destruction

So sad. Sadder still if it’s someone you love. But ya gotta own what ya do, if not here

There
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There are also two types of bipolar

Bipolar 1

And Bipolar 2

People with bipolar 2 are more functional.

Bipolar 1 is more serious and includes episodes of psychosis
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Oh dear.

Dealing with someone like this is exhausting. Being the parent of one is downright distressing! Imagine being the mother of the bad guy. No matter what you do or how hard you try raising them properly, they wear you down to the point that it makes you sick. And they won't believe you or even care. You cant help but love your child, even when they lie, cheat, manipulate, steal,cause damage to your home, make others believe lies about you just so they can get sympathy.

And yet you still can't live with yourself if they wind up homeless or in jail. Society always blames the parents regardless of how hard you tried. Take them to counseling, and it fails because they manipulate the counselor into working against you rather than helping them.
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Sucks to be the person with BPD. Every now and then your reality is like you just woke up from a huge bender and shit the bed.

And you are the bad guy. And you are the first person to realize it, but don't worry, everyone will agree with you. You know they are right.

That sucks.
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Re: WHY DO WE HAVE TO TIPTOE AROUND YOU BI-POLAR MANIACS? I'VE HAD ENOUGH!
Oh dear.

Dealing with someone like this is exhausting. Being the parent of one is downright distressing! Imagine being the mother of the bad guy. No matter what you do or how hard you try raising them properly, they wear you down to the point that it makes you sick. And they won't believe you or even care. You cant help but love your child, even when they lie, cheat, manipulate, steal,cause damage to your home, make others believe lies about you just so they can get sympathy.

And yet you still can't live with yourself if they wind up homeless or in jail. Society always blames the parents regardless of how hard you tried. Take them to counseling, and it fails because they manipulate the counselor into working against you rather than helping them.
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Good post

People need more compassion for the mentally ill
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Re: WHY DO WE HAVE TO TIPTOE AROUND YOU BI-POLAR MANIACS? I'VE HAD ENOUGH!
Sucks to be the person with BPD. Every now and then your reality is like you just woke up from a huge bender and shit the bed.

And you are the bad guy. And you are the first person to realize it, but don't worry, everyone will agree with you. You know they are right.

That sucks.
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Another good post.

It's a difficult burden to bear
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Re: WHY DO WE HAVE TO TIPTOE AROUND YOU BI-POLAR MANIACS? I'VE HAD ENOUGH!
Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
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A psychiatrist once told me many of these conditions are GENETIC.
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Not the whole truth, it depends on environmental factors and love, upbringing, abuse, and even someone who have reduced centre for empathy can with the right environment learn right and wrong and management with consequences.
While it's true genetic is a factor it isn't the determining factor.
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It's genetic and then structural and function brain deficiencies, miswirings and receptor issues formed during critical brain development years influenced by environment and psychosocial factors.

You will not successfully talk, love or teach a person out of structural or neurowiring brain deficiencies or chemical imbalances. If that were the case, psychotherapy would have been madly effective with Cluster B and other "mental" (medical) disorders for decades. They haven't and they aren't.

DBT is currently demonstrating efficacy reducing BPD symptoms. The reason: the systematic process rewires the brain.

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They all claim to be on medication for bipolar.

What would you say it is?
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A psychiatrist once told me many of these conditions are GENETIC.
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Not the whole truth, it depends on environmental factors and love, upbringing, abuse, and even someone who have reduced centre for empathy can with the right environment learn right and wrong and management with consequences.
While it's true genetic is a factor it isn't the determining factor.
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It's genetic and then structural and function brain deficiencies, miswirings and receptor issues formed during critical brain development years influenced by environment and psychosocial factors.

You will not successfully talk, love or teach a person out of structural or neurowiring brain deficiencies or chemical imbalances. If that were the case, psychotherapy would have been madly effective with Cluster B and other "mental" (medical) disorders for decades. They haven't and they aren't.

DBT is currently demonstrating efficacy reducing BPD symptoms. The reason: the systematic process rewires the brain.

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^^ functional

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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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BPD (Borderline personality disorder) is just a nice way of saying they are a shitty person this should not excuse their shitty behavior and choices.
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Re: WHY DO WE HAVE TO TIPTOE AROUND YOU BI-POLAR MANIACS? I'VE HAD ENOUGH!
Bipolar is a synonym for selfish and self centered. All of it.

They need Jesus and repentance. It isn't a chemical brain problem, it is a sin problem.
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This.

I would say demon problem
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Does not at all sound like Bipolar but Borderline. Misdx.

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BPD (Borderline personality disorder) is just a nice way of saying they are a shitty person this should not excuse their shitty behavior and choices.
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Once an adult, noooooothing excuses the drama, harm, damage and destruction they cause...brain disorder or not. They are fully aware, and it is fully their responsibility to get the treatment they need to stop imposing their pathology onto others, especially children.

They are just as self-focused as narcissists in that regard.

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