Bahaha. I'm way older than 35. I've only been with one man I wasn't married to and that was before I married anyone. But I have been single for the past 15 years. And I haven't slept with anyone, mostly because if I said no thank you or not yet, the man became irate and called names and basically threw a tantrum like a 3-year-old. Then they turn around and try to say that it's really your fault because you made them angry by saying no and they're really sorry and can you try again? (Spoiler alert: that'd be a hard NO Jim)

And here you are judging women if they do sleep around.

At this point I don't really give a fuck what anyone else thinks about my " value ", especially from the OP's paradigm.

You're damned if you do and damned if you don't so you might as well do what you want.

I worked hard to get where I'm at. The last thing I want to do is parent an adult man who behaves like a toddler.