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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74493440 ![]() 09/29/2022 08:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have him beat the snot outta that kid one time and take whatever consequences come from it. Problem will probably be solved. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83931835 No. Teach your kid to ignore that little fucker. He is trolling your son for an emotional reaction. Don't make a big deal about it. Stay calm and don't get the school involved that's just playing into manipulation of the bully. But your son has to be able to be emotionally stoic and unfortunately your emotions are making that difficult for him. The bully will go away when he is no longer getting any trace of emotional reaction. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84287063 09/29/2022 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Talk to the parents of the other kid. Tell them what has been going on. Maybe they will help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84286996 I have thought of this too but…. I work and never run into the parents. And I can only imagine where he got his behavior. If it were me, I would call the other parents or go to their house to talk. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77610953 ![]() 09/29/2022 08:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have him beat the snot outta that kid one time and take whatever consequences come from it. Problem will probably be solved. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83931835 No. Teach your kid to ignore that little fucker. He is trolling your son for an emotional reaction. Don't make a big deal about it. Stay calm and don't get the school involved that's just playing into manipulation of the bully. But your son has to be able to be emotionally stoic and unfortunately your emotions are making that difficult for him. The bully will go away when he is no longer getting any trace of emotional reaction. I’d say you are right. But the fact is he has ignored several things. But this time he made up lies trying to get my son in a fight with a big group of kids. This is more serious at this point. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76064730 ![]() 09/29/2022 08:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Talk to the parents of the other kid. Tell them what has been going on. Maybe they will help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84286996 I have thought of this too but…. I work and never run into the parents. And I can only imagine where he got his behavior. .. . Well DAMN! You just proved what a terrible parent you are. Congrats! Fucking up your son’s life is the prize. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76064730 ![]() 09/29/2022 08:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have him beat the snot outta that kid one time and take whatever consequences come from it. Problem will probably be solved. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83931835 No. Teach your kid to ignore that little fucker. He is trolling your son for an emotional reaction. Don't make a big deal about it. Stay calm and don't get the school involved that's just playing into manipulation of the bully. But your son has to be able to be emotionally stoic and unfortunately your emotions are making that difficult for him. The bully will go away when he is no longer getting any trace of emotional reaction. I’d say you are right. But the fact is he has ignored several things. But this time he made up lies trying to get my son in a fight with a big group of kids. This is more serious at this point. Your poor son never had a chance. Have son record constantly. Without showing the mic. Secretly. Get evidence. Go to school board. Duuuuuuuhhh, In this day and age, you should expect to be recorded. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84007815 ![]() 09/29/2022 08:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Talk to the parents of the other kid. Tell them what has been going on. Maybe they will help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84286996 I have thought of this too but…. I work and never run into the parents. And I can only imagine where he got his behavior. .. . Well DAMN! You just proved what a terrible parent you are. Congrats! Fucking up your son’s life is the prize. . Harsh but true... but also not too late. You see short boy is outsmarting your kid. He is relying on big guy not wanting to be seen attacking the small guy for optics. So he is pushing it and taking advantage of that fact. Big guy needs to push back and make small guy feel small with his words. Small guy will flip when he realises game is up and attack big guy ....who batters him and small guys ends up humiliated. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10285897 ![]() 09/29/2022 09:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And the school is sweeping it under the rug. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77610953 He told my son last year to meet him in the bathroom to fight. My son isn’t scared of him but he knows if he fights him he could seriously hurt the little kid. They are the same age but my son is tall like a grown man compared to this kid who is like an average third grader. But this has escalated and my son is pissed. Last time I complained to the principal she told that kid to mind his business and watch his mouth. But she told my son to stop telling your mom every little thing that happens at school. Yes that pissed me off because my kids should come to me when they need guidance! In other words she is sending my son the signal to take care of it himself and fight this kid. Or for him to just deal with the bullying and ignore it??? Which won’t end well. They are on the same sports team and what this kid did this time is pretty damn serious. He lied on my son and tried to get the entire sports team to fight my son. What should he do? I dealt with an older bully when I was in middle school. He would chase me home, punch me, just be mean as fuck.. One day I stopped dead in my tracks and turned on him quick, took him to the ground and proceeded to pummel his face until the neighbor came over and stopped it.. He never fucked w/ me again. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84287553 ![]() 09/29/2022 09:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And the school is sweeping it under the rug. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77610953 He told my son last year to meet him in the bathroom to fight. My son isn’t scared of him but he knows if he fights him he could seriously hurt the little kid. They are the same age but my son is tall like a grown man compared to this kid who is like an average third grader. But this has escalated and my son is pissed. Last time I complained to the principal she told that kid to mind his business and watch his mouth. But she told my son to stop telling your mom every little thing that happens at school. Yes that pissed me off because my kids should come to me when they need guidance! In other words she is sending my son the signal to take care of it himself and fight this kid. Or for him to just deal with the bullying and ignore it??? Which won’t end well. They are on the same sports team and what this kid did this time is pretty damn serious. He lied on my son and tried to get the entire sports team to fight my son. What should he do? I dealt with an older bully when I was in middle school. He would chase me home, punch me, just be mean as fuck.. One day I stopped dead in my tracks and turned on him quick, took him to the ground and proceeded to pummel his face until the neighbor came over and stopped it.. He never fucked w/ me again. ^^^ This is how you handle any bully. Take your kid to learn Krav Maga and tell him to beat the living crap out of the kid. Then if need be beat the living crap out of the principal. There's a lot of people who just need to the crap beat out of them. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80749029 ![]() 09/29/2022 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | THE ONLY OPTION is to let boys duke it out. It's been going on since Moses wore short pants and will continue long after all the barren sterile liberal school marms die out. We can't hold young men to female behavioral standards. The only way this problem ends is a good old fight in the bathroom where dominance is established. It will be the end of bullying. It's the only thing that stops bullying. Let boys be boys. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83507998 ![]() 09/29/2022 09:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have him beat the snot outta that kid one time and take whatever consequences come from it. Problem will probably be solved. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83931835 Sadly that’s probably the only solution at this point. Then I can hide an attorney and show them the emails to the principal. enroll him in Karate school or other self defense classes.. I started them when I was 9 years old..helped me not have fear and I kicked some ass too! I think this is very important...also feed him red meat... no SOY based products!!! he will be a tough kid. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79458414 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Does you son have a phone? If he does…. What’s it take to get you smart enough to listen to the advice to record. Recording has saved a lot of men when wives or gfs did stupid shit then called the cops and lied. Ultimately, your son WILL end up having to deal with this kid head on. Recording will be a highly intelligent thing to do. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79635526 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell your son to make a joke of the little guy. Laugh in his face. "I'm not fighting a dwarf!" He'll get the kid increasing enraged, making it even funnier. sit down with your son to make up little people jokes for when he pulls his shit, not to be used until he does. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71289577 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That being said,you buy a small metal flashlight that fits tight in his hand.then you have your son walk up behind him and punch him in the head hard when hes not looking.when he goes down have your son stomp his skull in until it collapses.you kill the kid then and there.everybody was warned,everybody got notice.you set a permanent groundwork for your kid to never get fucked with again.he gets slap on the wrist and the whole town knows who the boss is. The kids parents sue school and you sue school,both sides get rich of a darwin award. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83899610 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And the school is sweeping it under the rug. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77610953 He told my son last year to meet him in the bathroom to fight. My son isn’t scared of him but he knows if he fights him he could seriously hurt the little kid. They are the same age but my son is tall like a grown man compared to this kid who is like an average third grader. But this has escalated and my son is pissed. Last time I complained to the principal she told that kid to mind his business and watch his mouth. But she told my son to stop telling your mom every little thing that happens at school. Yes that pissed me off because my kids should come to me when they need guidance! In other words she is sending my son the signal to take care of it himself and fight this kid. Or for him to just deal with the bullying and ignore it??? Which won’t end well. They are on the same sports team and what this kid did this time is pretty damn serious. He lied on my son and tried to get the entire sports team to fight my son. What should he do? I was bullied by some drug addict in 6-7th grade. I tried to ignore it so not to feed into the cycle. I was a nice kid who just wanted to get along. I was not a troubled child. Then one day, one of them shoved me up against some lockers in the locker room and I snapped. I beat him so bloody that he spent several days in the hospital. When the gym teacher pulled me off of him, I kicked his head into a cement wall on the way out. He had to wear sunglasses at school to hide the damage to his face for a while. It's weird, but I never was bullied after that. The lesson was to me that 99% of people just want to get along. And I am am as nice as can be and I would give them the shirt off my back if it would help. I actually gave a missionary one of the shirts I was wearing because he was all sweaty running across the airport to make the flight. This is my compassionate side and those in need call my wife and I angels. However, there is about 1% of people who live to cause others pain and they enjoy it and laugh. To them, I am their worst nightmare. I turn absolutely cold when facing them. No mercy, no turning away, focusing on damaging that person as much as possible. Utterly ruthless. This is my justice side. You don't ever want to meet that side. I would like to thank that original bully for showing me my other side. I really did not know much about that side before that. You people who pick fights with people out there. Be careful. You might bully the wrong person and run into someone like me someday. Don't let that person know you are a predator. It doesn't end well. |
Abe Froman User ID: 80055737 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And the school is sweeping it under the rug. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77610953 He told my son last year to meet him in the bathroom to fight. My son isn’t scared of him but he knows if he fights him he could seriously hurt the little kid. They are the same age but my son is tall like a grown man compared to this kid who is like an average third grader. But this has escalated and my son is pissed. Last time I complained to the principal she told that kid to mind his business and watch his mouth. But she told my son to stop telling your mom every little thing that happens at school. Yes that pissed me off because my kids should come to me when they need guidance! In other words she is sending my son the signal to take care of it himself and fight this kid. Or for him to just deal with the bullying and ignore it??? Which won’t end well. They are on the same sports team and what this kid did this time is pretty damn serious. He lied on my son and tried to get the entire sports team to fight my son. What should he do? Im an expert in this situation. I was bullied on every first day of school. I was small. I learned very quickly, in order for it to stop, you have to defend yourself. You HAVE to. Your son is the only one that can stop it. He will wipe the fucking floor with him. Preferably, he needs to do it in front of people. Sure, he will probably get into trouble. BIG FUCKING DEAL. Those bullies will learn too. By the time i got into high scool, it pretty much stopped. They knew i wasnt the one to fuck with. Last Edited by I SUCK STUPID on 09/29/2022 10:30 AM Crap |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 83680410 ![]() 09/29/2022 10:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Real problem here is that this Principal is ignoring a potential Serial Killer. I would make a call to the school district itself and learn exactly what the correct course of policy is. Then, without any insult or anger, document what you believe is going on in a letter to the principal. I would tell the principal that you are concerned about the safety of all children, not just your own. Then I would suggest a course of action for her...without telling her that the course you recommended is actually whatever the School District told you should be happening. At that point you have her. You know the School District policy. She doesn't know you know it. And you have recommended it to her. ..At that point, you will own the bitch. |
Lazy Monk User ID: 77910542 09/29/2022 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sadly, a show of force is the only thing that stops bullying. "Force" doesn't necessarily mean extreme violence though. Pushing up the bully against a wall and verbally hating him to his face worked just fine for me when I was young, there was never a need to go any further than that. Bullies look for people they can bully. They mistake kindness for weakness, so they will think you are prey if you don't correct that wrong impression. Lazy Monk |