Is it possible to have a casual, but monogamous relationship?

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

I don't know what STFU means.

Women secrete a hormone that "bonds" them to a repeated lover. Men do too, I think.
Sooner or later, its "so where are we going with this?"

Women secrete a hormone that "bonds" them to a repeated lover. Men do too, I think.
Sooner or later, its "so where are we going with this?"

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

I don't know what STFU means.

Read this guys lips

The answer to the thread title is yes, for a little while until one of the two finds someone to be more or less serious with.

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?



You want the best of both worlds, and I don't blame ya...I've quarreled with this my whole young adult life..LOL

Well, you can't do what you want to do, due to emotions on both sides. Just ask yourself this: "How can I have a relationship without devotion"...I know it's tough..

On the other hand, having been widowed, it's pretty easy to have what you want, but you're gonna have to settle for older women..

Older women are better in bed BTW...

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

I don't know what STFU means.

Read this guys lips

The answer to the thread title is yes, for a little while until one of the two finds someone to be more or less serious with.

Sounds like I hit a nerve. Are you oKay?

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

I don't know what STFU means.

Read this guys lips

The answer to the thread title is yes, for a little while until one of the two finds someone to be more or less serious with.

Sounds like I hit a nerve. Are you oKay?

I'm fine you said you didn't know what STFU means. I was just trying to help. I guess I failed.

BTW I don't want you to STFU for the record.

Is it possible to have a casual, but monogamous relationship?

Yeah, thy it and then STFU.

I don't know what STFU means.

Read this guys lips

The answer to the thread title is yes, for a little while until one of the two finds someone to be more or less serious with.

Sounds like I hit a nerve. Are you oKay?

I'm fine you said you didn't know what STFU means. I was just trying to help. I guess I failed.

BTW I don't want you to STFU for the record.

No hard feelings.

Well, to answer your question, I'd have to say yes it's possible.

But not easy to find.

Having both people stay emotionally unavailable for a length of time can become unsatisfying.

Is it possible to have a casual, but monogamous relationship?


It's possible to have any kind of relationship you want. Over six billion people is a lot of possibilities. You set the rules in this life.

There is no normal day, there is no average man, go ahead and do what you like.

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?


You sound like the female version of me.

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?


You sound like the female version of me.

Where are you from?

I've come to the conclusion that most people have to have it one way or the other. Either they need to be in a relationship that is going somewhere, or they have to have multiple partners. I finish school in about a year or two and don't want to have to make any serious decisions before then. But I am not the type to sleep with multiple people at once. Is it possible to find someone who wants to be in a relationship but doesn't need to be in one?

I don't like the idea of HAVING to be with someone on Friday night. But I don't like the idea of not being able to either. I just don't know if there is anyone out there who would be willing to live like a single person in all ways (except when it comes to sex).

Anyone care to respond?



yea that is the most natural way!!! That is natures way! That is the only way I will have it! And I have it for over five years now!

Just ask a guy that you have dated or w.e. if he would like a casual monogamous relationship. i would probably say yes.

It's really funny that you started this thread because it is the EXACT reason why my gf and I broke up!

The thing is, we both really want to be together, but we also want to do our own thing and not spend every second with each other. A couple weeks ago she broke up with me because her social life and schoolwork were suffering because we spent all of our time together. She told me it was possible that we can start dating again, but we have to work out a way that we can each have seperate lives but still be together.

If you find a way to have a casual monogamous relationship, please tell me.