After 50 years of making that same tired old absurd argument, why are you not yet convinced it doesn’t end the conversation like you want it to?

Disapproval of something doesn’t make you a closet that thing. It just makes you one who disapproves of it. I criticize veganism, for instance. Yesterday I had ham for dinner, and tonight I’m having steak. I have eaten meat every day for as long as I can remember and think that life without meat is not worth living, but by your logic I’m just a flaming latent vegan dying to dive into a big ole bowl of tofu.