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Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85929001
United States 09/02/2023 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? Ive known this guy for 7 years and here recently a woman got in the way of our friendship. This guy is a major symp for women because he never had it like me where some women throw themselves at me.
Because of my experience with women, I know how to read them and their intentions right from start.
So this older 55 yr old woman starts preying on my ex friend like as if shes a predator. I told him that she doesnt like you, shes only using you. He took that as if I was hating but everytime this woman would use him and kick him to the curb, he would run back crying to me for advice. This happened for 5 freaking years. Yes he allowed this woman to use him as an emotional dump and throughout the 5 years, he would exhaust his money and time on her while she just existed.
Within the 5 years, this pattern would occur where he would go right back in that womans life after a 3 month break up. I told him, shes just using you, she doesnt like you as much as you like her.
You know what this bafooon told me? But she has sex with me from time to time.
Thats how you know a guy is a complete moran when it comes to relationship and have 0 experience with women. When they think sex with a woman is the top pinnacle peak of how a woman shows love and affection.
I told this stupid moran, shes been sleeping around since 11 years old, that means absolutely nothing to her. Its like some street walker thats willing yo do it all but wont liss the guy on the lips because to her, thats much more intimate and has more meaning than the sex itself.
Same with this woman, she will have sex with my moran ex friend but would never sleep in bed with him or hang out to do things he wants to do. It always involves things she wanted to do.
Yes, my moran ex friend couldnt put 2 and 2 together for those 5 years. I kept telling him for 5 freaking years all the moves she was going to make but he was under a love spell. Im not mad that he was under a love spell, Im mad at myself for even giving him my time and energy.
Imagine a friend who keeps touching a hot stove and he keeps crying to you about it being hot and you tell him, when its on, dont touch it its going to burn you again. Then he braggs to you about how great he is and that he can touch the hot stove the 4th time without it hurting him. Then he touches it and it injures him and he comes crying to you again. At this point, youre not my friend, you are my enemy.
Now 3 weeks ago, he comes crying to me but i completely ghosted him. I need help here GLP, i dont know which route to take in regards to kicking a man when hes down.
If i completely ignore him, he will continue to make the same mistakes with women and it will be an endless cycle of mental torment. Also at this point in time hes exteremely depressed about it with no one to talk to.
If I pick up the phone and verbally abuse him and tell him how he f'd up, that will sting bad but he may learn from his mistakes and wont let it happen again.
I dont know what to do. I want to dish out as much emotional pain while preventing him from not learning from this mistake. |
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Michael Martin User ID: 84990899
United States 09/02/2023 08:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? Tell him to eat shit and kick fucking rocks bro |
Michael Martin User ID: 84990899
United States 09/02/2023 08:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? Tell him to eat shit and kick fucking rocks bro |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78866164
United States 09/02/2023 08:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? I ain't reading all that shit |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 86147635
United States 09/02/2023 09:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? .
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Why should YOU decide how he lives his life? F'ing control freak.
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 86147635
United States 09/02/2023 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? .
. Get help.
No decent human kicks another when they are down.
Your karma smells like shit.
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 86260057
United States 09/02/2023 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? I ain't reading all that shit
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78866164 I tried. A short version. Blah blah blah blah |
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LittleMe I don’t want flowers when I die…
User ID: 54222199
United States 09/02/2023 09:15 PM
 Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? I ain't reading all that shit
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78866164 I tried. A short version. Blah blah blah blah Quoting: Anonymous Coward 86260057 Last Edited by LittleMe on 09/03/2023 01:39 AM |
anonymous kiwi
User ID: 85917162
New Zealand 09/02/2023 11:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? help him find a decent woman...they do exist... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 86195814
United States 09/03/2023 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? You sound like an asshole |
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FHL(C)
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China 09/03/2023 01:29 AM
 Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? share the three download books at the bottom of this message with him |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36224241
United States 09/03/2023 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? You sound like an asshole
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 86195814 an arrogant one. that's how we know it's a troll |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 86261614 09/03/2023 01:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it?
I ain't reading all that shit
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78866164 Yep when I hit the hot stove sentence I zoned out. Stay to the point or you lose everybody. |
Wake up men Star fleet is taking enrollments
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Australia 09/03/2023 01:33 AM
 Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? https://imgur.com/JVJqI5I Today was just a day, tomorrow is gonna be better.
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 34759344
United States 09/03/2023 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? But I have no bacon, WUM.   |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84033154
United States 09/03/2023 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 86220917
United States 09/03/2023 09:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Kicking a friend who turned enemy when hes down. I need your help! How should I do it? Ive known this guy for 7 years and here recently a woman got in the way of our friendship. This guy is a major symp for women because he never had it like me where some women throw themselves at me.
Because of my experience with women, I know how to read them and their intentions right from start.
So this older 55 yr old woman starts preying on my ex friend like as if shes a predator. I told him that she doesnt like you, shes only using you. He took that as if I was hating but everytime this woman would use him and kick him to the curb, he would run back crying to me for advice. This happened for 5 freaking years. Yes he allowed this woman to use him as an emotional dump and throughout the 5 years, he would exhaust his money and time on her while she just existed.
Within the 5 years, this pattern would occur where he would go right back in that womans life after a 3 month break up. I told him, shes just using you, she doesnt like you as much as you like her.
You know what this bafooon told me? But she has sex with me from time to time.
Thats how you know a guy is a complete moran when it comes to relationship and have 0 experience with women. When they think sex with a woman is the top pinnacle peak of how a woman shows love and affection.
I told this stupid moran, shes been sleeping around since 11 years old, that means absolutely nothing to her. Its like some street walker thats willing yo do it all but wont liss the guy on the lips because to her, thats much more intimate and has more meaning than the sex itself.
Same with this woman, she will have sex with my moran ex friend but would never sleep in bed with him or hang out to do things he wants to do. It always involves things she wanted to do.
Yes, my moran ex friend couldnt put 2 and 2 together for those 5 years. I kept telling him for 5 freaking years all the moves she was going to make but he was under a love spell. Im not mad that he was under a love spell, Im mad at myself for even giving him my time and energy.
Imagine a friend who keeps touching a hot stove and he keeps crying to you about it being hot and you tell him, when its on, dont touch it its going to burn you again. Then he braggs to you about how great he is and that he can touch the hot stove the 4th time without it hurting him. Then he touches it and it injures him and he comes crying to you again. At this point, youre not my friend, you are my enemy.
Now 3 weeks ago, he comes crying to me but i completely ghosted him. I need help here GLP, i dont know which route to take in regards to kicking a man when hes down.
If i completely ignore him, he will continue to make the same mistakes with women and it will be an endless cycle of mental torment. Also at this point in time hes exteremely depressed about it with no one to talk to.
If I pick up the phone and verbally abuse him and tell him how he f'd up, that will sting bad but he may learn from his mistakes and wont let it happen again.
I dont know what to do. I want to dish out as much emotional pain while preventing him from not learning from this mistake.
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