Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !

Sounds awful. You poor guy, i hope he dies soon

you fucking disrespectful bitch. And you wonder why you karma is as it is LMFAO! I hope her black lover gives you AIDS

Nursing home. He sounds like he is lonely and bored and needs other old people around. And you are not that old. That shit could go on for years.

Why not take the 3 bedroom trailer, and leave him in the old one? Bring him meals.. You said he has 3k coming in monthly.. Utilize it.

Suck it up for a bit - he will be gone soon.

Be like Jesus.

Wow, that sucks.

Kicking your daughter out so FIL can have her room and piss her bed?

Sounds like something is going to give. Probably your marriage?

Good luck to you.

Real like King of Queens in a trailer park

My 2 sons live across the way . Oldest sleeps with fiancé .

They don't want him and My daughter volunteered . She is 14 and has no family but us . She missed the old prick . My boys side with me . They are blown away by his subtle fucking with me .

I have not popped a fuse yet ! Last Sunday I almost did . And he said sorry immediately and defused me . I was like Kill myself - nice Christian thing to say to me as I just took you in and we are home from church less than 40 minutes and I am making your fucking lunch and washing dishes , by hand .

i'm ready to fucking split . Get my Driver ID back up and literally go to Vermont to help with the trade work there after all the flooding .

Wrap the whole mattress in plastic. And that’s his bed now. When you get the bigger place your daughter can get a new bed.

Sounds like complete bullshit.

-IF the dude was a NYC bus driver for 25 years he has a Pension + Social Security.
-Going thru 100K in 10 years is spending less than 1,000 / month. It's not really like he did something outrageous there...especially living in NY.

There is no doubt that this old guy has enough money to afford trailer living. get him his own trailer in your park and your wife can take care of his ass and you have no problem.

I think insisting that he live in the 2 bedroom trailer is the right answer . I value my privacy and freedom .

My wife is enabling him . We work all day then she comes home and serves him . She says no big deal .

Well she is exhausted . We were already having issues with US time and intimacy as she is 48 and menopause has been going on for 5 years . Her LABIDO IS zero AND I AM FUMING ALSO ABOUT THAT . I HAVE NO ISSUE WITH intimacy .

One of the main points here is that we had a giant house and were ready to take him . I had an entire room for myself . And a large garage for outside hobbies .

He refused to come move in during this period because her Brother and Sister were telling him lies about me and my wife so he chickened out .

4 years later , the economy is stalled , war looming , housing impossible to find he now shows up . had he come prior we could have got a mortgage and I would not have been forced into 2 trailers to house us .

The economy here locally on the coast is so bad that Covid killed what Florence injured . Tourism is at an all time low here so the $ went to other states or never came at all .

I took a day job and moth balled my service business which supported all of us for the 10 years we have been here. All the house flips are done and they have resurrected even the most abandoned of shit box homes here .

Since the Vaxxx people here are mean . The entire region was all southern friendliness . That ended just about the time Florence destroyed the area here . it sat on us for 6 days and flooded everything .


The rent in the 2 bedroom is 750. With utilities and cable it will rise to maybe 925 .00 a month . This leaves him 2,000 bucks for food and savings .

If he lives with us he will get the larger bedroom and my daughter will be squeezed into a closet . he is fine with that .

My wife can come home to our place and make dinner for him and he can eat over at night . Then go back to his own box and watch damn tv . he ain't gonna die any time soon and will refuse a nursing home .

I have enough on my plate working a 40 hour week with my injuries .

This is not about smoking a damn cigarette in my own home .
This about my autonomy and sanity . He is not my problem . He should be a gracious guest and be respectful .

Instead I get passive aggressive attitude . Weird stares and wait time in the only bathroom we have .

My daughter displaced stresses me out as well . She deserves her own bed room that is not a closet . She is 14 and a smart beauty !

I don't see the economy flipping over night and my base job is temporary . So I have to be wise that we will finish the work orders and be layed off .

We are not on food assistance now and we can afford all of our bills and rent . We are very humble . i want to go out and not have him say we are ignoring him . he had his life .


At 86 he sits all day . Pisses and shits . Eats in front of the TV and does his game books . he has a phone and a emergency alert bracelet .


We just don't have the room . That will be my argument today with the wife .

He is totally working her over . I will even call the oldest sister . She is my age . The wife is 8 years younger than me .


I had nothing but nightmares since going to bed . Wild dream woke me up . They are so damn real . literally !

I don't really post personal stuff like this but i have no friends here and really not even another grown dude to vent with in person over this shit show .

Wife and I 28 years / 23 married /3 great kids . Sold the store and left NYS 13 years ago to escape NY . Mother in law died same year and that allowed us to LEAVE for good for Eastern NC where I had a job waiting .

I was 46 then . I am now 57 fatter and angrier like most in this nation . I work hard at a trade on the USMC base and wife is with me 24/7 . I do not drive because of a fine in NYS and frankly I could care less about driving . I still drink once or twice a week . Sometimes heavy on a Saturday while i do chores outside or have a hobby to contend with .

The wife and I don't argue and life has been quiet while our kids turned into adults here .


Thats the background .

My Father in Law squandered his Wife's Life insurance on black whores and bad financial decisions and went through
100 Grand in 10 years while living with his daughter for 6 years . The last 4 years with his son . My wife is the youngest of 4 . The other daughter , the oldest doesn't want shit to do with him . None of his grand kids call him . The Daughter he lived with is now in R-wing and has been for months in NYS . The Son had a hissy fit and threw the old man < 86> to the front steps 3 weeks ago and my wife drove up to NYS to get him and bring him here to are 2 bedroom trailer i was forced to rent after our house lease went up $1500.00 on the new lease . We had a 5 bedroom home for 5 years and the old man refused to move in with us then . had he I likely would have a house now with his help with the mortgage . because of housing insanity here in Jacksonville NC I rent 2 trailers to keep my family intact in a trailer park with 4 trailers .



He sits in my living room in a recliner all fucking day with the tv on . I got him head phones because we are not TV people .

My daughter is now displaced and is across the gravel driveway in my Sons trailer , sleeping on the couch because he now has displaced her by taking HER BEDROOM .

He is a passive aggressive man with a 6th grade education and drove a city bus for 25 years . Spent most of his extra $ on lottery tickets and supported his crack head son for 30 years and paid his rent and his own mortgage as they lived in a double up and down in Rochester NY .

The hood came into that area badly and he sold the house , the son moved out with another POS Giant crazy woman and went away . Some time around this time he meets a 30 something black hooker and she takes him for all he is worth . He buys her 2 cars in 10 years and pays the entire shot plus insurance secretly .

He gets caught eventually and plays dumb . Wifes crazy sister and him buy a home together and all is well for 6 years . Again the bl;ack girl comes back and extorts him . Old man and sister move to new house but she has a mental health breakdown and kicks him out for apparently viewing her in bathroom she says . he says he had to piss and she was in there forever . new online husband kicks the oldman out and is collecting the $ of Sister in R wing like a champ .

So now he has to go back to sons house where he was inbetween about a year prior . Son is a 30 year crack head who now drinks JD every night and heavily drinks to black outs on week ends and ignores his father 100 % . The old man now calls my wife to come and get him to live with us .


I smoke , she smokes . We now smoke outside . After 9pm he is in bed and I ventilate trailer and have maybe 2 smokes before 10 . I go to bed .

Wife went out for 1 hour to p/u daughter I had a smoke in the house and he sits literally 6 feet from me . 1` hour later wife is home and he says he's sick . I ask why , was it dinner . he says no , you smoked in the trailer . My trailer that he has taken over .

I smoke bagged pipe tobacco and roll cigs in a loader machine . These are not chemical smokes from the store and they don't stink up the joint unless you have a fuck ton .


Well I lost it on his ass and told him why did you wait 1.5 hours to bitch about it ? That I've tried to accommodate him in our place and that we are in a small trailer due to the fucking brutal economy . I'm debt free btw .

He just makes a passive aggressive face and pouts while my wife scolds me .

So I tried to lay down and call it a night but I'm so pissed off . We all went to church today had a decent day other than being stuck here all day and it rained .

Last Sunday I asked him not to play depressing little house on the prairie because it's so fucking depressing and I said it makes me want to suicide . he yells out Go ahead and Do it . We were home from church less than an hour and I was doing dishes . Wife defends him again . She goes and buys head phones that go in remote . But still he sits here all fucking day . Won't / Can't do dishes or make his own food . Constantly grabs my chair when walking by and i have a bad back .

Throws his piss absorbent underwear pads in the damn bathroom trash can and it stinks to high heaven . he won't tun the air because he is to cold so when I come home from my base jobe in 90 degree heat the trailer is like 80 instead of 70 . Which then I just go lay down in my room and am forced to watch TV and then fall asleep.

My marriage is being impacted really hard right now . i'm ready to fucking split . Get my Driver ID back up and literally go to Vermont to help with the trade work there after all the flooding .

We are attempting to move into the 3 bdroom trailer that recently came up . They want 800 a month for that shit hole .

My father in law squandered all of his outlets to live and $ and used us as his last stop because he knows my wife will not refuse him . She is denying me affection and sex because fucksake she is tired and does everything for all of us and is past menopause .

Her dad is a big dirt bag and has offered to help with the bills . he generates 3g a month . I don't know if I have the fucking patients for all of this . He has changed my life course and is not my problem . He was told and almost moved here when I was riding hi on the hog and he bailed at the last minute due to back biting and negative BS with my asshole BIL .


Any one have advice . I can park him in his bedroom in the next place so we have a living room for my daughter who will be squeezed into a closet type room . This is all laughable with clown world going on . Plus he is a democrat for life . We don't talk about grown up discussions because he has a mind of a child literally . My wife's mother was his caretaker ! He just drove a bus , played all his spare $ on Lotto his entire life . My wife's life sucked as a kid because there was never any fucking money for her and clothes . I really do not like this arrangement and Am doing it because I love my wife to pieces . But I just told her , HE IS FUCKING OUR MARRIAGE UP AND WE DON'T NEED HIM FOR BILL MONEY . I will try not to be an asshole to him tomorrow but I can guarantee i will not be talking to him.

She made him apologize last Sunday and I knew is was all an act . he's a bitter old man afraid to die and taking full advantage of my wife after she begged him for years to move here and he pulled back twice after she made all the arrangements . No one talks any more in the family . The siblings all despise each other .

I disowned my Family 10 years ago . I'm also adopted and my family are demon possessed narcissists . Leaving them was liberating to say the least !

I will read the comments in the morning . At least I got to vent . My wife is literally demanding I change MY LIFE STYLE 100 % to accommodate a depraved old man who squandered a whole bunch of good stuff on a black hooker .

I have not thrown any of this shit out at him but I did say my daughter is on a couch due to him in her room pissing in her mattress !

Fucking shoot me !

Who gives a fuck.

This place is not fucking playboys whinge column or womens fucking weekly mag

Take your endless fucking soy poofy fucking whining to a site that DEALS WITH USELESS CRAP.

oh...

My bad...

THATS WHAT GLP IS NOW.

I don't really post personal stuff like this but i have no friends here and really not even another grown dude to vent with in person over this shit show .

Wife and I 28 years / 23 married /3 great kids . Sold the store and left NYS 13 years ago to escape NY . Mother in law died same year and that allowed us to LEAVE for good for Eastern NC where I had a job waiting .

I was 46 then . I am now 57 fatter and angrier like most in this nation . I work hard at a trade on the USMC base and wife is with me 24/7 . I do not drive because of a fine in NYS and frankly I could care less about driving . I still drink once or twice a week . Sometimes heavy on a Saturday while i do chores outside or have a hobby to contend with .

The wife and I don't argue and life has been quiet while our kids turned into adults here .


Thats the background .

My Father in Law squandered his Wife's Life insurance on black whores and bad financial decisions and went through
100 Grand in 10 years while living with his daughter for 6 years . The last 4 years with his son . My wife is the youngest of 4 . The other daughter , the oldest doesn't want shit to do with him . None of his grand kids call him . The Daughter he lived with is now in R-wing and has been for months in NYS . The Son had a hissy fit and threw the old man < 86> to the front steps 3 weeks ago and my wife drove up to NYS to get him and bring him here to are 2 bedroom trailer i was forced to rent after our house lease went up $1500.00 on the new lease . We had a 5 bedroom home for 5 years and the old man refused to move in with us then . had he I likely would have a house now with his help with the mortgage . because of housing insanity here in Jacksonville NC I rent 2 trailers to keep my family intact in a trailer park with 4 trailers .



He sits in my living room in a recliner all fucking day with the tv on . I got him head phones because we are not TV people .

My daughter is now displaced and is across the gravel driveway in my Sons trailer , sleeping on the couch because he now has displaced her by taking HER BEDROOM .

He is a passive aggressive man with a 6th grade education and drove a city bus for 25 years . Spent most of his extra $ on lottery tickets and supported his crack head son for 30 years and paid his rent and his own mortgage as they lived in a double up and down in Rochester NY .

The hood came into that area badly and he sold the house , the son moved out with another POS Giant crazy woman and went away . Some time around this time he meets a 30 something black hooker and she takes him for all he is worth . He buys her 2 cars in 10 years and pays the entire shot plus insurance secretly .

He gets caught eventually and plays dumb . Wifes crazy sister and him buy a home together and all is well for 6 years . Again the bl;ack girl comes back and extorts him . Old man and sister move to new house but she has a mental health breakdown and kicks him out for apparently viewing her in bathroom she says . he says he had to piss and she was in there forever . new online husband kicks the oldman out and is collecting the $ of Sister in R wing like a champ .

So now he has to go back to sons house where he was inbetween about a year prior . Son is a 30 year crack head who now drinks JD every night and heavily drinks to black outs on week ends and ignores his father 100 % . The old man now calls my wife to come and get him to live with us .


I smoke , she smokes . We now smoke outside . After 9pm he is in bed and I ventilate trailer and have maybe 2 smokes before 10 . I go to bed .

Wife went out for 1 hour to p/u daughter I had a smoke in the house and he sits literally 6 feet from me . 1` hour later wife is home and he says he's sick . I ask why , was it dinner . he says no , you smoked in the trailer . My trailer that he has taken over .

I smoke bagged pipe tobacco and roll cigs in a loader machine . These are not chemical smokes from the store and they don't stink up the joint unless you have a fuck ton .


Well I lost it on his ass and told him why did you wait 1.5 hours to bitch about it ? That I've tried to accommodate him in our place and that we are in a small trailer due to the fucking brutal economy . I'm debt free btw .

He just makes a passive aggressive face and pouts while my wife scolds me .

So I tried to lay down and call it a night but I'm so pissed off . We all went to church today had a decent day other than being stuck here all day and it rained .

Last Sunday I asked him not to play depressing little house on the prairie because it's so fucking depressing and I said it makes me want to suicide . he yells out Go ahead and Do it . We were home from church less than an hour and I was doing dishes . Wife defends him again . She goes and buys head phones that go in remote . But still he sits here all fucking day . Won't / Can't do dishes or make his own food . Constantly grabs my chair when walking by and i have a bad back .

Throws his piss absorbent underwear pads in the damn bathroom trash can and it stinks to high heaven . he won't tun the air because he is to cold so when I come home from my base jobe in 90 degree heat the trailer is like 80 instead of 70 . Which then I just go lay down in my room and am forced to watch TV and then fall asleep.

My marriage is being impacted really hard right now . i'm ready to fucking split . Get my Driver ID back up and literally go to Vermont to help with the trade work there after all the flooding .

We are attempting to move into the 3 bdroom trailer that recently came up . They want 800 a month for that shit hole .

My father in law squandered all of his outlets to live and $ and used us as his last stop because he knows my wife will not refuse him . She is denying me affection and sex because fucksake she is tired and does everything for all of us and is past menopause .

Her dad is a big dirt bag and has offered to help with the bills . he generates 3g a month . I don't know if I have the fucking patients for all of this . He has changed my life course and is not my problem . He was told and almost moved here when I was riding hi on the hog and he bailed at the last minute due to back biting and negative BS with my asshole BIL .


Any one have advice . I can park him in his bedroom in the next place so we have a living room for my daughter who will be squeezed into a closet type room . This is all laughable with clown world going on . Plus he is a democrat for life . We don't talk about grown up discussions because he has a mind of a child literally . My wife's mother was his caretaker ! He just drove a bus , played all his spare $ on Lotto his entire life . My wife's life sucked as a kid because there was never any fucking money for her and clothes . I really do not like this arrangement and Am doing it because I love my wife to pieces . But I just told her , HE IS FUCKING OUR MARRIAGE UP AND WE DON'T NEED HIM FOR BILL MONEY . I will try not to be an asshole to him tomorrow but I can guarantee i will not be talking to him.

She made him apologize last Sunday and I knew is was all an act . he's a bitter old man afraid to die and taking full advantage of my wife after she begged him for years to move here and he pulled back twice after she made all the arrangements . No one talks any more in the family . The siblings all despise each other .

I disowned my Family 10 years ago . I'm also adopted and my family are demon possessed narcissists . Leaving them was liberating to say the least !

I will read the comments in the morning . At least I got to vent . My wife is literally demanding I change MY LIFE STYLE 100 % to accommodate a depraved old man who squandered a whole bunch of good stuff on a black hooker .

I have not thrown any of this shit out at him but I did say my daughter is on a couch due to him in her room pissing in her mattress !

Fucking shoot me !

We tried that and he refused . We would go into our 3 bedroom and he would get the 2 bedroom . He tells wife then we cant save for a house . TY bro for the scripture I am for sure using that in coffee time AM . She will want that verse . HA HA she is all in her bible !

This comment alone was worth the abusive trolls . TY friend !

Not that I don't feel bad for you, but seriously, you have a problem, and it isn't your father-in-law!

Your problem is that you aren't the head of your household.

A woman will make decisions clouded by her emotions, it's your job as her husband to say "yes dear!" when appropriate, and "NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT!" when needed.

If you ALWAYS let your wife have her way, you'll end up in misery. Whether a father-in-law is involved or not.

The particular mess you're in right now has a very simple solution: throw him out! It's not like you're killing him by not taking care of him, he has 3k a month to live on. How he uses that money to survive is his problem, not yours.

Be honest with yourself. The only reason you haven't thrown him out already, is because you're a slave to your wife's emotions.

Free yourself from this bondage. When you respect yourself and show leadership your wife will start to respect you too, and sex will be forthcoming. Or she will leave, if she is actually a rotten b****. Her choice.

But either is a pure win for you.