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Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !

 
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09/20/2023 04:36 PM
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It sounds like the old man needs to be in the R wing himself. I worked in the R Wing at Strong for years in ROC and people were admitted for way less than the behavior he's exhibiting. He is manipulating you and your family to insanity. He isn't right in the head. He's narcissistic and has no sense of guilt or remorse. For God's sake he told you to off yourself!!
I know what your up against but I'd give him an ultimatum. Either get a place of his own or he will be admitted to the R wing because he has a personality disorder.
He has systemically destroyed people's lives and needs to take some accountability.
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They could get some meds for him that will make him nicer to be around. Tell him they are for whatever. Or mash them up and put in food. But get the meds if he is ornery. They are a life saver. Docs will gladly write a script.
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09/20/2023 04:39 PM
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TY for the replies i got good and buzzed today . Even smoked a joint on a federal outpost . Drank the 5th of whiskey about 5 pm . started at 1 pm .
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good fer you. 70 DAYS TIL FREEDOM!~
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09/20/2023 05:04 PM
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Why not take the 3 bedroom trailer, and leave him in the old one? Bring him meals.. You said he has 3k coming in monthly.. Utilize it.
 Quoting: Tangy


HE is Lonely and wants the maid service . Can't walk that good . But like I said he is working over his daughter . He is everything to her and she misses her Mom so bad .

She has forgiven him . I have also . None of his BS impacted me until now . The Son went fucking ballistic on him . Threw him to the curb 3 Mondays ago and told him to DIE a terrible death ! ROFL .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


you have to stop caring so much what he "wants" and focus more on what's for the good of the family. he sounds manipulative and that your wife has bought into it. you can't let that part continue because every decision will be based on if the old man needs or wants this or that. you have to make decisions and stick to them regardless if the people you are taking care of love every aspect of them. when he complains just straight up tell him. this is the best we are going to do and I dont have the energy for arguments, if you continue to complain you will have to find somewhere else to live, and stick to it.
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09/20/2023 05:33 PM
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He still is a sprite old man . Eats 3 meals a day . Gets around and moans about it . He is content to watch TV 18 hours a day and sit in my recliner .

I am pushing the 2 bedroom and we bounce across the grass .

It's that or NOTHING .

I'll call my 45 year old pastor and have him quote the wife on how taking your Father in can ruin your marriage . he will be closely monitored if he lives alon and has a 9-11 bracelet if he falls .

My own father is also living alone in a beautiful ranch home .

he can barely walk to .

Her dad HAD NO OPTIONS and finally agreed to come here . We spent 900 bucks fetching his ass !
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


This sounds very reasonable. Get the pastor involved. According to the Bible you are the head of the household and make the final decisions. Her dad needs his own place and your daughter needs a decent room. He will live right next door. This will save your marriage. If she doesn’t go along with this she is going against you and God’s marriage arrangement. She won’t have God’s backing if she rebels.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83962627


It's not about someone's interpretation of God's marriage arrangement.
Its about you and your wife deciding what is best for your children and your family.
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09/20/2023 06:35 PM
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We are going to ride the lease out and bolt to Hershey PA . The END 70 days to go of this shit .
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It will go fast.
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i HAVE A GOOD JOB WITH WIFE AND SON ON THE usmc BASE . We are banking . I'll deal with it . If we stay for a 6 month lease at 900 $ . I will miss the winter up there and move in April .

Who knows what will happen by then .

War/ Covid redux at insane levels / Internet , grid attack , financial collapse , Terrorist attacks ? it's beyond clown world .

The marine base is not going anywhere . The Elites love US Marines for the NWO , they are compliant and take vaccines that will kill them off about 40 years old . Now they have the memory erase pill also for the trauma they will be seeing .

I see Marines all day . 2/3 of them are HS kids and support .

This will not go well .

Going to PA before Winter may be a big mistake . You know they are going to Jack the heat bills through the roof . i will also have to fit my family for winter clothes , snow attire and tires for the vehicles .

Fuck that . I will wait . To much uncertainty . We worked it out for now . The old man will save 3g a month and we will use it for the move . He agreed .
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09/20/2023 06:39 PM
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100 Grand in 10 years? that aint shit you gimp
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09/20/2023 06:43 PM
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Re: Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !
I think this will be the most crazy Fall of our lives .

I appreciate the input , even the negative stuff .

He is controllable and I am spoiled a bit after living here 10 years with out ANY family members of mine or hers interfering .

We left them in the dust , they are all fucked in NYS .

We never crawled back as a failure and they hate us for it .

Most are dying from the Vaxxx also . SIL just told us that her husband has a failing aorta from the clot shot and could die any minute . It is unable to be fixed in surgery he was told .

His own kid 's wife insisted they were vaxxed or could NOT SEE 1st grandbaby so they took the jab . he will die soon now .

My Dad sounds like mini mouse on the phone . he took all the booster and J&J shot . had clots . Still Loves the Jabs and will die soon .

My BIL from my sister died 4 months after shot after rapid lung cancer nailed him .

The old man here with us . he was talked out of it by my Wife .
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I look at obits everyday from Rottonchester NY and the amt of dead young people are way up . not to mention the 60 to 75 age group . DROPPING LIKE FLIES !
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09/20/2023 06:51 PM
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100 Grand in 10 years? that aint shit you gimp
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 86246615


What are you talking about .

I have lived here 10 years and did fine . We made about $ 40,000 a year and my wife stayed home most of the time .

We'll make 100,000 a year on our own if I can put up with clown world on the base .

I like to work 4 days a week . or we work a month and take of 20 days .

Doing service work between larger jobs . All that dried up . no one is spending here . They all KNOW WAR IS COMING !


These marines here have been told they will see combat !

They are saving . many are getting out and going back to their home states to get prepared . They will be re-called for shizzle .
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09/20/2023 06:51 PM
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Nursing home. He sounds like he is lonely and bored and needs other old people around. And you are not that old. That shit could go on for years.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83863029


When you drop him off

DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING!

Our lawyer friend says nursing homes are suing the kids that sign in the patients!!

Take him - but do not sign anything - it’s all a trick - and they will recover from YOU what he doesn’t have - and it’s $10,000 a month !!!

Make her promise not to sign ! Or your kids will have NOTHING !
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09/20/2023 07:12 PM
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bricks

He's Tuff Shed material, they make insulated models now. Course you'd still be stuck with him on your shitter, so maybe that isn't the best advice.

However you can wrangle it, get his sorry old ass OUT and reclaim YOUR own life.

Fucking parasites, 86 or 36, it's all the same NPC game.

I feel for ya man, your life just got flushed and it took a "feelings-driven' woman to do what ten men wouldn't dare.

No good answers, but I bet if you rented yourself a cheap motel suite for a month and lived in it she'd come to her senses right quick as to who gets to stay at home in future...I would hope...

Prayers your way regardless.

flush
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09/20/2023 07:22 PM
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No way at 57 putting up with that shit. Just go out for cigs and not come back guy! If you know a trade there are plenty of affordable housing options further inland.
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09/20/2023 07:23 PM
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We are going to ride the lease out and bolt to Hershey PA . The END 70 days to go of this shit .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


It will go fast.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83962627


i HAVE A GOOD JOB WITH WIFE AND SON ON THE usmc BASE . We are banking . I'll deal with it . If we stay for a 6 month lease at 900 $ . I will miss the winter up there and move in April .

Who knows what will happen by then .

War/ Covid redux at insane levels / Internet , grid attack , financial collapse , Terrorist attacks ? it's beyond clown world .

The marine base is not going anywhere . The Elites love US Marines for the NWO , they are compliant and take vaccines that will kill them off about 40 years old . Now they have the memory erase pill also for the trauma they will be seeing .

I see Marines all day . 2/3 of them are HS kids and support .

This will not go well .

Going to PA before Winter may be a big mistake . You know they are going to Jack the heat bills through the roof . i will also have to fit my family for winter clothes , snow attire and tires for the vehicles .

Fuck that . I will wait . To much uncertainty . We worked it out for now . The old man will save 3g a month and we will use it for the move . He agreed .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


Sounds like a plan. Glad he agreed. And yes winter is expensive.
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09/20/2023 07:27 PM
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Nursing home. He sounds like he is lonely and bored and needs other old people around. And you are not that old. That shit could go on for years.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83863029


When you drop him off

DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING!

Our lawyer friend says nursing homes are suing the kids that sign in the patients!!

Take him - but do not sign anything - it’s all a trick - and they will recover from YOU what he doesn’t have - and it’s $10,000 a month !!!

Make her promise not to sign ! Or your kids will have NOTHING !
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 86297478


Same with hospitals. Sign nothing for him or you are responsible for all bills.
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09/20/2023 11:43 PM

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I appreciate the input , even the negative stuff .

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You're welcome, count your blessings, ffs.
Don't pollute yourself with 'diet'.
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09/20/2023 11:45 PM

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They all KNOW WAR IS COMING !


These marines here have been told they will see combat !

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TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
Don't pollute yourself with 'diet'.
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09/21/2023 12:00 AM
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Can he qualify for VA Nursing Home?
Does he have long term care insurance?
I'd contact a social worker via Senior Center and see what they can do to remove him from the home.
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10/01/2023 12:33 PM

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They all KNOW WAR IS COMING !


These marines here have been told they will see combat !

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
TELL US MORE
 Quoting: pool
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10/15/2023 04:56 PM
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10/15/2023 05:02 PM
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Call La'Queefartia his hooker and have her pick him up. He bought her two cars, and she obviously loves polishing his knob.
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10/15/2023 05:07 PM
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You could also dress him up like Orville Reddenbacher and drop him off at the corner at Walmart. Make a little sign for him that says "I fart in your general direction" and give him a coffee can with a piece of duct tape over the front that says "TIPS".

If the able bodied, 19 year old chick can do it at my Walmart, why can't he?
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10/15/2023 05:10 PM
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Or, you could wait in the parking lot and pay a Walmart worker $10 for their blue vest (park in the far end of the parking lot). Then put that on the old man and lead him to the entrance. All he has to do is say "Welcome to Walmart" and not slap the girls on the ass. It will take Walmart awhile to realize he doesn't actually work there, but by the time they do they'll probably decide to give him a job.
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You sound ridiculous blaming everything on a black prostitute. Sounds like this guy was broke for decades. Him being broke is his fault not his dead wifes, not a black prostitute's fault,not his kids fault, it is his fault.

And spending 100k in 10 years is 10k a year.Not exactly living lavishly. Most of us spend 10k a year on living expenses or even luxury expenses and we arent rich.
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10/15/2023 05:21 PM
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Why not take the 3 bedroom trailer, and leave him in the old one? Bring him meals.. You said he has 3k coming in monthly.. Utilize it.
 Quoting: Tangy


HE is Lonely and wants the maid service . Can't walk that good . But like I said he is working over his daughter . He is everything to her and she misses her Mom so bad .

She has forgiven him . I have also . None of his BS impacted me until now . The Son went fucking ballistic on him . Threw him to the curb 3 Mondays ago and told him to DIE a terrible death ! ROFL .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84906173


you have to stop caring so much what he "wants" and focus more on what's for the good of the family. he sounds manipulative and that your wife has bought into it. you can't let that part continue because every decision will be based on if the old man needs or wants this or that. you have to make decisions and stick to them regardless if the people you are taking care of love every aspect of them. when he complains just straight up tell him. this is the best we are going to do and I dont have the energy for arguments, if you continue to complain you will have to find somewhere else to live, and stick to it.
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Yeah, OP's job is to protect HIS family. That isn't happening.
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Re: Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !
Well shit lol.

My mother-in-law was pretty good at frustrating me when she moved in with my ex-wife and I but nothing in comparison. Her husband drank himself to death ala "Leaving Las Vegas" and I probably would have done the same though.

After a decade of not even going on a date after my ex-wife divorced me and married some truck driver before the ink was dry I decided to give it a shot again. I lucked out and met a wonderful woman, her husband ran off with his mistress, the mistress left him and he lives in a real shithole neighborhood alone now. Funny how that works, my ex-wife is alone too now and has ballooned to well over 200 pounds like her mother.

We live in a big city and my wife's mother lives on the family farm with a couple of her brothers. Of 11 siblings 10 live out in and around the small town my mother-in-law lives in so I won't have to go through that again. My father is a good guy but he'd drive me insane living with us, but he lives in the US and doesn't have a passport so I don't think that will ever happen.

Best wishes brother, I know it can be extremely frustrating and difficult but there's light at the end of the tunnel.

Last Edited by Monger of Many Things on 10/15/2023 05:34 PM
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