QUESTION: AFTER AGE 50. COULD/WOULD YOU HAVE A NEW RELATIONSHIP?

I quit for real at 52. I'd get frustrated in my
30s and 40s, swear off women but at 52, I didn't
decide to quit, it just gradually happened. I
broke up with my gf in 2010, and my time and
interest just dwindled down to almost nothing
by end of 2011.

I wouldn't spend time or effort on it. If it
just happened and was easy, I might but I know
intellectually that it won't happen like that.

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I'd have a good relationship, might not be so new.

Why not? Who wants to die alone?

who wants annoyance, credit problems, in-laws, angry exes and adult chikdren for years
or decades before gratefully dying alone?

my focus is on how I live, not how I die.

I’m in my 30s and want to get rid of a narcissist who has always been so mean to me. I hope I find a soulmate in my 50s.

Relationships are for people that love...

Stress...

Drama...

Pain...

More drama...

Being broke all the time..

More stress...

And more drama...

And one day...

Beautiful peace...

As death finally has mercy on you and takes you from this anus hole of a life.

Relationship? No. Up for some no-strings-attached fun? Why not.

Thing is, if by that point you still got nobody to have your back when you're desperately sick, or on your deathbed; there's no reason to think a unicorn is going to magically fall into your lap now. That ship has already sailed.

Probably not.

I love my wife tons, but if she were to die I wouldn't bother looking for someone else.

The reason is women are too much drama even when they are a good woman and a woman ALWAYS comes with a long list of things she wants you to do and fix.

If she were to pass I would just work a part-time job once the kids get out of the house. I would sleep in when I wanted to and take a nap when I want to without the judgement, and if I want to stay up all night playing video games that's my business.

My dad is remarried and in his 70s. It sounds horrid. His mother in law moved in with them yet again and broke her hip last week. It's always drama. I don't give a shit about his wife or her daughter.

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90% of the time is great, 10% is lonely. Do you want to sacrifice the 90% of the time for the 10%?

That's the question.

MY grandfather found one late in life. I am more picky than him.

No OP, you've hit the wall

If God set it up, of course.

Why not. We are stronger partnered.

GOD? lets see



Specifically Proverbs 21:9 — 'Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. ' And Proverbs 21:19 — 'Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife

You flirt with anyone, so why not?

No. I am 53 and I am very happy by myself. I would not agree to spend time in a new relationship, because I am living nicely and I don't need troubles. I don't feel the loneliness probably because my son is still living in my house, I have a cat and I work at home, what I like. This kind of life makes me very satisfied, why should I change it?

I'm in a similar situation at 38 and I have no idea what I'm going to do. I was married for twelve years once and it had it's ups and downs but I wasn't ready back then. I'm still giving it serious thought.

Don't do it OP. Hit the gym.

This rings true to me. 53.

Now at age 52, I keep getting sweet young women "hitting on me", but are they really? I think I am old enough now that they simply see me as a daddy figure who isn't a threat to them. Maybe I'm wrong.

Exactly -and that’s not a marriage of God’s choosing is it ?

I say that because I wouldn't date my own age group ever again. Single or younger - no other way.

I was widowed at 55, have had absolutely no yearning for a new man


for me, memories are enough, but you do you - and no need to explain yourself to anyone

been there, done that.

they see you as cheap/free housing, especially if they have kids.

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Sure but get a girl no older than 32 with NO KIDS (good luck) and dont tell her your real name or take her home.

Do not give an old whore the time of day as most of them have focked many many guys. They bed hop for 30 years then hope a WHITE KNIGHT will come by and take care of their ass when they are getting ugly and fat; dont be a simp.

Most women have a semitruck full of baggage from the past,,,they are not worth the trouble.

No.
I gave my oath to my wife when we wed.
If something happened, I will just accomplish what I can as I wait til my time comes.

I got divorced at 55. Also BK, broke, and unemployed.

Bought a bankrupt company for zero.

Worked every day and lived ultra thrifty

Prayed every day that The Almighty would help me be a better man who would deserve a great woman. I did not date.

Eight years later I met her. Devout Christian woman who had survived a lot of trauma.

Three dates, proposed, and we got married the next week. I was 63.

Best 10 years of my life!

Pray for your own miracle.

All you need is one of us good women that will have your six and Yes! It will be worth it.

Yes, this is so true, but the challenge is filtering through the other 10,000.

Tptb have us scattered for a reason.