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Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?

 
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01/18/2024 05:32 AM
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Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
If a beautiful girl that you idolized asked you out or even blatantly stated she liked you but you felt inadequate, felt like she deserved better, or were worried about possibly disappointing her, would your insecurities lead you to reject her?

The reason I ask is I typically like guys who aren’t necessarily the coolest, buffest, etc. They don’t usually fit into what society says a male should be. They’re typically geeky/dweeby, very skinny, shy, etc. I find these things attractive but most of these guys are teased and have faced a fair amount of rejection from other girls and maybe even the general public. Unfortunately, I do fit stereotypical socially acceptable female profile. My friends, coworkers, family all ask me why I like these guys because I could do so much "better". However, I don’t think their definition of better is actually better. I like theses guys's personalities and that they are usually more genuine and sincere.

I can appreciate that a guy may be too insecure to approach a girl that he thinks is out of his league. BUT if she approached you, asked you out, or even stated she liked you would you reject her because she is “too good” for you? Because you think you may disappoint her? Because you are too shy? Inexperienced with relationships?

If so, what would/did you tell her, what excuse would/did you use? That you weren’t interested? That you were too busy to date? That you were already seeing someone?

Did/Would you ever change your mind and admit to her that you wanted to date her?

I guess this question could also apply to girls who've rejected a guy for the same reason. As I’ve rejected guys I thought were out of my league over my own insecurities.
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
Give the chatbot a rest.you arent fooling anybody.
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
Juan.

Also, tldr.
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01/18/2024 06:01 AM
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
Doomed from the start.
She will hear from ALL of her friends
and family,

"WTF ARE YOU THINKING?"

Morning noon and night.

First time you fuck up, it will be,
"I guess they were all right".

(Don't axe me how I know this)
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01/18/2024 06:08 AM
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
Modern western women are a disease on humanity. I'm not dating any of you anymore. If I wanted to run a sperm bank l'd get a business license.
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
If a beautiful girl that you idolized asked you out or even blatantly stated she liked you but you felt inadequate, felt like she deserved better, or were worried about possibly disappointing her, would your insecurities lead you to reject her?

The reason I ask is I typically like guys who aren’t necessarily the coolest, buffest, etc. They don’t usually fit into what society says a male should be. They’re typically geeky/dweeby, very skinny, shy, etc. I find these things attractive but most of these guys are teased and have faced a fair amount of rejection from other girls and maybe even the general public. Unfortunately, I do fit stereotypical socially acceptable female profile. My friends, coworkers, family all ask me why I like these guys because I could do so much "better". However, I don’t think their definition of better is actually better. I like theses guys's personalities and that they are usually more genuine and sincere.

I can appreciate that a guy may be too insecure to approach a girl that he thinks is out of his league. BUT if she approached you, asked you out, or even stated she liked you would you reject her because she is “too good” for you? Because you think you may disappoint her? Because you are too shy? Inexperienced with relationships?

If so, what would/did you tell her, what excuse would/did you use? That you weren’t interested? That you were too busy to date? That you were already seeing someone?

Did/Would you ever change your mind and admit to her that you wanted to date her?

I guess this question could also apply to girls who've rejected a guy for the same reason. As I’ve rejected guys I thought were out of my league over my own insecurities.
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Yes I would reject a girl who I know is out of my league. I wouldn't allow her to choose me. I would always feel I would be holding her back from what she could have.
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
I was a 140 pound pretty boy, an 7 or 9 for my type. So I never had that problem. It was just a matter of whether a girl liked my type or not. I actually tended to punch down because I was attracted to girls who were what the French call jolie laide. Pretty ugly, loosely translated. They didn't look like every other girl out there. They were different.

That said, I think you stick to your race, your age group, your religion, your economic class. You choose dates that are like you. And yeah, you probably stay in your weight class as well, though I had my reasons for not doing it.
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Re: Guys: Would you reject a girl you liked because she was "out of your league"?
As long as she's a submissive virgin with no tats, no debt and BMI under 24% she has potential to be mother of my childrenchuckle
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