Here's how I see it: you can be doing God's work in big ways and small ways. Neither is more important than the other, so an evangelist who inspires and heals thousands (through the power of the Holy Spirit) is no more or less doing God's work than someone who prays, does right by his or her family and acts in a Christian manner in all the little things.

But it is surely true that God does not want anything, including televised healings, to interfere with your holy relationship with your spouse.

So, put the ministry on hold and attend to your family. God can use someone else to reach the masses while you're busy repairing your marriage. That's how I see it.

If Bentley can't see that, then the ministry is more about "him" than "God."