Yes. They don't have the same concept of fear that we do and don't intentionally scare us, they just don't understand the raw emotion of terror that's elicited when awakened from a sound sleep in the safety of our own bed to something alien hovering over us.

Over a period of years I have "worked" with them, involving much prayer and meditation. I went through a long period where I was able to show them visually, through mental pictures, how terrifying it is to be treated that way. I also invoked the name of Jesus, saying "If you do not come in the name of Jesus, I demand that you leave" or "if you come in the Christ consciousness, I welcome you." There were 2 or 3 instances where they literally dissolved into thin air when I invoked the name of Jesus. I took to sleeping with a Bible under my pillow and wearing a cross, and setting the intention before sleep, that any entities who were not of the Christ consciousness were not welcome. It has evolved to the point where I "hear" my name being called as though from a distance a couple of hours before sleep that night, if they are planning to arrive that night so it takes the edge off of having them just show up anytime.

I liken the abduction experience to our researchers studying polar bears; the bears are dangerous and wild and unpredictable (like humanity) and must be sedated before being examined, weighed, measured, and returned home. That's what they do to us so we don't hurt them when thrashing about, because they are physically fragile.

FWIW no one in my real life has any idea that I believe this stuff. Even the husband thinks I just have bad dreams. I live a normal life. I could be your next door neighbor. I was not abused or molested as a child. This is a very real phenomenon.