Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.


Kindness isn't difficult to maintain, no matter what ails befall you.

How determined are you to be kind?



But it can fade. People change. Age, medical issues, mental illnesses CAN happen. But I think you marry the person as they are when you marry them. You cannot go on what ifs.