Kindness v Good looks

Why can't there be both? Why have to choose between physically repulsive but a great guy and the handsome jerks?

Just a pipe dream I guess.

That's why I'll always be alone.

BS, if some guy is ugly as ass, but yet had a great sense of humor, and an intelligence beyond intelligence, none of you woman would even give this hypothetical individual a chance.



This is the harsh truth. Women are so full of shit. At least be honest for once.



So you had no problem finding plenty of women I assume. Did you ever marry? Is/was the woman sweet and caring? Pretty? Just curious what an alpha male looks for.

BS, if some guy is ugly as ass, but yet had a great sense of humor, and an intelligence beyond intelligence, none of you woman would even give this hypothetical individual a chance.



This is the harsh truth. Women are so full of shit. At least be honest for once.



So you had no problem finding plenty of women I assume. Did you ever marry? Is/was the woman sweet and caring? Pretty? Just curious what an alpha male looks for.



Did I touch a nerve?

BS, if some guy is ugly as ass, but yet had a great sense of humor, and an intelligence beyond intelligence, none of you woman would even give this hypothetical individual a chance.



This is the harsh truth. Women are so full of shit. At least be honest for once.



So you had no problem finding plenty of women I assume. Did you ever marry? Is/was the woman sweet and caring? Pretty? Just curious what an alpha male looks for.



Did I touch a nerve?



LOL, yeah that's what happened alright. No, I thought this was I would ask what alpha men looked for. Perhaps I was the one that hit a nerve.

No matter how many times I read my post I don't see wher I wrote as if a nerve had been touched on my part. You said women are full of shit. I asked what you look for in a woman.

BS, if some guy is ugly as ass, but yet had a great sense of humor, and an intelligence beyond intelligence, none of you woman would even give this hypothetical individual a chance.



This is the harsh truth. Women are so full of shit. At least be honest for once.



So you had no problem finding plenty of women I assume. Did you ever marry? Is/was the woman sweet and caring? Pretty? Just curious what an alpha male looks for.



Did I touch a nerve?



LOL, yeah that's what happened alright. No, I thought this was I would ask what alpha men looked for. Perhaps I was the one that hit a nerve.

No matter how many times I read my post I don't see wher I wrote as if a nerve had been touched on my part. You said women are full of shit. I asked what you look for in a woman.


And you facetiously deduced that I was an "alpha male". I think I struck the "I'm really a materialistic manipulator" nerve.

It's OK, it's nature. What sucks is that you deny it as though you're mother gaia or some shit.

kindness is attractive and good looks are kind to the eyes.

I guess I am lost. I thought you said alpha males were not kind. Then you said women are full of shit. That was not a kind thing to say, so I assumed you were an alpha male. I don't even know where a materialistic manipulator comes into play. A man, I assume asked what women look for. That was the OP. I answered, and later asked a man what they look for.

kindness is attractive and good looks are kind to the eyes.

I guess I am lost. I thought you said alpha males were not kind. Then you said women are full of shit. That was not a kind thing to say, so I assumed you were an alpha male. I don't even know where a materialistic manipulator comes into play. A man, I assume asked what women look for. That was the OP. I answered, and later asked a man what they look for.


The truth is often perceived as unkind when it is in fact intended to be the opposite.

Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.

Looks are actually pretty low on my list.

Kindness, sense of humor, intelligence all rank higher.

Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.

Looks are actually pretty low on my list.

Kindness, sense of humor, intelligence all rank higher.


Agree, same here....

I believe: "Kindness is the most powerful word of all. It is the action of love. With out it love would be but a word"...TVZ

Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.


Kindness isn't difficult to maintain, no matter what ails befall you.

How determined are you to be kind?

Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.


Kindness isn't difficult to maintain, no matter what ails befall you.
How determined are you to be kind?

Doesn't have to be one over another... there can be both.

Someone mentioned that good looks fade. Well, I'd like to add to that - the kindness trait isn't always guaranteed to be lasting either.


Kindness isn't difficult to maintain, no matter what ails befall you.

How determined are you to be kind?



But it can fade. People change. Age, medical issues, mental illnesses CAN happen. But I think you marry the person as they are when you marry them. You cannot go on what ifs.

kindness is attractive and good looks are kind to the eyes.



I understand the beauty of your sentiment, bed. It's lovely.

kindness is attractive and good looks are kind to the eyes.



I understand the beauty of your sentiment, bed. It's lovely.


You have kind eyes.

There is are circumstances which call for kindness and circumstances which call for being an asshole. I like a man who knows the difference and acts appropriately.

Kindness is the stink of death. Girls don't really care much for looks, as long as you're a good enough ashole. They are into cocky, arrogant guys. guys that are in control. Not a supplicating wimp.

Chicks dig assholes and won't even notice your kind ass!


Wow how sad to be that cynical.
Smart girls stay clear of assholes no matter how good looking they are. We can pick them from 5 miles.
For some it takes awhile to wise up

By the way i have met plenty of nice men who are in relationships with complete bitches

Kindness anytime wins over looks Storm is absolutly right in her opinion


Well, hot chicks always go for the bad boys. The nice guys they know are just there for when they need a shoulder to cry on, and to dump all her emotional garbage on him. She'll never have sex with him because she sees him as asexual. Kinda like a gay friend. Girls like drama! When they talk about their problems, they are not really looking for advice on fixing the issue, They just want somebody to share it with; and since she's dumping it all on the kind nice guy, she'll never sleep with him.

How many times do you hear a woman complain about how much of a jerk her ex was and blah blah? Next thing you know, she's back with him, or somebody else exactly the same...

Yeah, it may take a while for some to wise up. Problem is, when they do wise up, they are already old and shrivled up! Not only that, those tend to carry emotional baggage from their past relationships and maintain a bitter "guys a are all alike" mentality... and guess what? They'll dump it all on you!

I guess I'm just a pussy, which is the OPPOSITE of a badboy!

I agree. I can attest to this because I'm both kind and good looking, yet I have a very difficult time meeting girls. The guys I know who are total jerks have a lot of success with women. They are not all good looking. I just don't have have that "edge" or "rebel" look/personality that girls find attractive. I guess I don't ooze confidence that cocky/badboy guys expel, which girls like. People can smell my "niceness" from a mile away. They say "oh, you're so nice", which I view as a backhanded compliment. Those are words you don't want to hear. I'm kinda shy and quiet, but that's not the reason. If I had just a bit of badboy blood, things would be different, But I'm not like that.

I guess I'm just a pussy, which is the OPPOSITE of a badboy!