I found my Twin Flame, but he is married to someone else!

I'm sure his wife thinks he is her twin flame too!

OP there is a huge difference between a soul mate and we can find many in our soul group and twin flames.

Twin flames are extremely rare and can be so powerful they explode because their energy is so powerful when combined. Liz Taylor and Richard Burton were perfect examples of twin flames. In their case they could not live with each other and they could not live without each other.

Twin flames can come in many shapes and forms and they're not always meant to be in a love relationship. Sometimes it is friends and other times it can be business or just being on the same planet at the same time is enough for the their power to manifest for the good of all creation.

Seven years is an interesting number because biblically it is a karmic number. So for instance if a person loans some money e..g. deficit it must be written off after seven years. If a person goes astray then they walk down this path for seven years. From what you have written it sounds like your seven years have been fun and now the cycle is over because reality has set in.

Relationships are wonderful and many get confused between a relationship blessed in Church and a relationship blessed by God. So a karmic cycle can be a good one as well as a less good one.

My view is that if a man REALLY loves you wild horses won't keep him away and if you are truly meant to be together then it will be made so. However, also bear in mind that we do come across rare situations where no words are necessary because we just know what is right.

Lotus

Last Edited by Lotus Feet on 07/31/2009 01:01 PM

A most interesting view.The explosion I have not understood but have seen. Flames do burn after all.And one can be burned by them. And others around them. You know what they say: don't play with fire.

The 7 year cycle--Some call it the 7 year itch. let it go.

If a man REALLY loves you he will do what it takes to be with you lock stock and barrell. If he hasn't had the b***
and made the move after 7 years then he won't. Maybe he is afraid his wife will be happy without him. Mabe you are nothing more than his on the side.

Remember,you and he are in a secret affair,he will probably be willing to do the same to you.

Burn babay Burn

So true.....

I can honestly say I have been blessed to meet two twin flames on a physical level this lifetime. The first exploded within a very short space of time all meant to be; the second chose a different road but we know that the words that we shared and our hearts remain with humanity not ourselves.

I was blessed to marry a soul mate but soul mates don't stay forever if you have a different soul journey.

Lotus

The most powerful force in on Earth is when you combine attraction and obstacles.

Loss of all judgement ensues. Used to be called "affairs of the heart"

So true.....

I can honestly say I have been blessed to meet two twin flames on a physical level this lifetime. The first exploded within a very short space of time all meant to be; the second chose a different road but we know that the words that we shared and our hearts remain with humanity not ourselves.

I was blessed to marry a soul mate but soul mates don't stay forever if you have a different soul journey.

Lotus


With such a beautiful name may I inquire?
Are you a female?

Affairs of the heart are still affairs.

x2

BLESSINGS!

I am the OP.

Thank you all for your time and effort trying to help me out with my situation, I trust all of you giving me the advice with good intention. I was watching the replies all the way, and was going to wait a little longer to reply some of your posts when I was ready, but I decide to reply a couple of them now, and surely will reply more a little later...

You asked me "Did you two "do" it?

No, as I said, we had a platonic, non-sexual friendship ever since we met each other, and we have never even touched each other's hands, and never even hugged or kissed each other like how other "normal friends" would do...

We saw each other for professional reasons, so we got the chance to talk with each other quite a lot. Now I have decided to stop seeing him and contacting him, and I can do so within my authority at work, not easy, but I will manage.

Hope this helps to answer your question.

If there's a lot of obstacles in your way, it screams to me that the timing is off. You can't force it because the universe has a way of letting you know when to move and when not to move.

I speak from experience.

If this is your twin flame, you'll get there, you just have to be patient.

Good luck to you.

If it is felt emotionally,spiritually,physically and intellectually it would be wrong to stay apart.

Don't snuff out the fire in your life.

Now isn't that interesting? Because to me, as a female, it seems that 99% of the whores I've known are men.

Thanks for your reply. Yes, I am female.

OP

I gathered that you are.

Lotus???
Are you a female?

there is a child involved.

Lmao.

I didn't bring gender into the equation. Why did you? Don't get me started.

Commitments should be honored regardless.

Seems to me some people may use this idea as reason to dodge prior commitments.

What ever happened to taking a vow and honoring it?

Couldn't agree with all of this more. Cant stand when people use children as an excuse to stay in a miserible mariage.

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True but there are commitments and vows and feelings and honor and character and right and wrong.So lets all dump our commitments because its not fun anymore? Sign me up.

I understand that, but sometimes things happen that are planed. Isnt it only the fair that the other person finds someone who truly loves THEM instead of someone else too?

You know what's weird? I have thought my cousin was my twin flame, try handling that one.

+1

Oh great, Lotus the self-proclaimed spirit of God is blessing destroying a marriage & family.

'If a relationship has to be kept secret, then you shouldn't be in it'.

OP good for you for doing the right thing despite it being painful. Right isn't always easy.

Twin Flame love will never break up another relationship. If the relationship is out of reach, it merely means the energy is tantalizing you, but far enough away for safety (usually because of some fear you are harboring.) It means you are not allowing the manifestation of your Twin Flame. Never allow ego to use its games to justify any action that is out of integrity with love and life, for a relationship begun at the expense of pain to another with someone who has not completed the lessons where they are, cannot ever be the basis for the true Twin Flame reunion or Sacred Sexuality.

Calling forth your Twin Flame means you have said “Yes” to love, that you know and own your own sovereignty and willingly surrender and give all the love you have to your beloved. Pouring this forth ceaselessly forms a magnetic attraction from a vibrational level that cannot be resisted and as it is returned magnetically to you, it is increased tenfold from your complementary pattern. If you give forth this love without limit, if your current partner cannot contain the energy, they will harmoniously leave your field.


WHAT IS THE GOAL OR PURPOSE FOR RE-UNION AND SACRED SEXUALITY AT THIS TIME? The goal of Twin Flame union is to reconnect to the NOW MOMENT OF CREATION through the conscious and balanced union of sacred sexuality, and re-qualify the vibration of light of the electron, then deliver this “amped up” love to all creation (including all New Creation brought forth through the Twin Flame union.) It changes, illumines, raises in vibration, everything to which it is delivered!

The Twin Flame dispensation is the most important thing that has happened for humanity since the coming of Jesus and his accomplishment for humankind, for through their union they tap into this all-inclusive Love and generate more Love through the Twin Flame heart. Then as they give forth this Love, which is the substance of what they are, the very essence of life, this Love, will then draw unto them its reflection as abundance, as beauty, as integrity of alignment, as everything that reflects Love and life in the symbols of the world.

Why would you want to do this and how can this possibly serve the whole?

Light equals actively moving love. It is originally transmitted from the higher sources with purity and intensity, but is re-qualified by everything to which it is delivered. One of the greatest services Twin Flames can provide is to draw atoms of light which have been reduced in their vibrational quality (from any condition, person, place or thing) into their Twin Flame heart as it connects to the ONGOING MOMENT OF CREATION, to be “refilled OR recharged,” then amplify them and send them forth to do their work again.

Energy cannot be destroyed. The only thing that can be done with an existing pattern or form is to transmute it into a different form.

This combined with the conscious use among the LightWorkers of the Violet Transmuting Flame, can shatter these old energy forms that no longer serve the consciousness of mankind and literally recycle the energy back into its highest frequency. This eliminates the emotional charge associated with the energy form and therefore the electromagnetic attraction, yet, it still allows for the wisdom garnered from the experience to be retained. The New energy is then ready to be qualified by mankind in a constructive fashion with reverence and honor toward all life – ALL THAT IS.

It has negative effects on the children too.
They become more likely to repeat the same cycle of abuse when they grow up.