When we donate to a charity, or any charitable cause, we have no real way of knowing exactly what is done with the money. Ever seen one of those air-conditioned rock star cruise liner buses the Red Cross show's up in to a disaster? Wonder how many didn't realize that their much needed contribution was paying for such an eyesore.

I doubt many of you who give ever demand to know exactly where your donation went and how it was dispersed. When we give to charity or tithe to our churches we really have to trust that some good will be done.

America is a very charitable nation. If you choose to give you can if you don't want to then don't.

OP was just trying to do a good thing.