My mom talks to me like Im an idiot. | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21601264 United States 11/15/2012 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really dont. I think shes just using the disability I was diagnosed with as a kid (which I dont believe I have so Im not using that as an excuse) as a reason to talk down to me. And its gotten worse since Ive gotten older even though I am more mature now than I was when I was a teenager. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20193680 United States 11/15/2012 07:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It really is a weakness to not be able to respect another's point of view. But sometimes when you are older and you have seen a lot of life and people's mistakes and consequences, it is very difficult to watch your own not see what you do . Another thing is that mothers know all your vulnerabilities. Sometimes it is their way to toughen you up but sometimes it is just abusive and you have to object and probably realize there is limits to the relationship. |
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Giftedest User ID: 10743044 United States 11/15/2012 07:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know someone who talks to her son like he's a little kid... She's a coddler of the nth degree, it's her only child. If she fixes your meals, drives you places and does your laundry... you love it and asked for it. If you're not 'asking for it' by taking advantage of her wanting to 'mommy' you, then she's an idiot. Either way, good luck. Who does your thinking? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7570540 United States 11/15/2012 07:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How old are you? Do you still live at home? Do they pay for any of your living expenses? If so, she still does have a hold over you and you'll have to wean her gradually by acting more and more responsible for yourself. If you are totally on your own financially, you need to stand up for yourself and actually be a grown up. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25447468 United States 11/15/2012 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why do you keep telling us you're sorry? You do know what you're saying right? You don't need to put yourself down so much. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10372663 Why do you keep apologizing? Do you do that around her if so I can see why she talks down to you. Put himself down? That's called being polite.. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 10372663 United States 11/15/2012 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why do you keep telling us you're sorry? You do know what you're saying right? You don't need to put yourself down so much. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10372663 Why do you keep apologizing? Do you do that around her if so I can see why she talks down to you. Put himself down? That's called being polite.. NNNOOOO apologizing is, saying your sorry is just telling everybody you're a sorry individual. There is a difference. |
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eve incognito User ID: 27803051 Bosnia and Herzegovina 11/15/2012 09:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well just stop letting her get away with it. patiently, but firmly start calling her on it,every time she talks down on you. do that every time you see her, until she will either be rady to aknowlidge the fact that ur growing up now, and she should start treating u like aa grown up, or till ull just not visit respect her anymore, or listen to her mean words, coz why u need her disrespect and bad vibes. i assume ur a teenager or young adult, and its not good for a man to let his momma walk all over him like that, u cant find a nice gf if u are frustrated like that, coz ull develop aversion to women and what not...so save urself a lotta trouble and therapy, and start asserting yourself in ur mamas eyes. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27712435 United States 11/15/2012 09:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | show your momma some respect. she volunteered to have/keep you, she obviously fed/sheltered you enough to survive & made sure you have enough education to write/read this post. no doubt she wiped shit, piss, puke & cheerios off your snot nose. and kissed your boo-boo's recognize. |
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