I can only speak for myself, and I'm a 41 year old woman.

I definitely would NOT be interested in dating someone in their 20's. I've got a 20 year old daughter, as well as a 14 and 13 yr old. I have been heavily invested in my children since their births, and do not care to take on another adult child, even if it would be for "fun".

It is my opinion that women (and men) who do find interest in the younger (often times MUCH younger) severely lack in self-discipline, self-esteem, security, and are fearing growing old. Myself, I am growing old gracefully and contently.

I find it very disturbing that someone much older would seek out someone much younger. If it happened solely by chance, without ANY intentions of it happening, that would be different, but purposeful seeking of a much younger mate is only another marker to detect where we are in our sick society (imho).