Okay, I understand what you are going through is a very primal thing. Your woman does not look like she did when she was not pregnant, fine. Just like the rest of us, you will need to use logic to get yourself over this issue. Quite frankly, you are not getting any younger either. This is a part of growing up. The nice thing about females is that they, for the most part if you are lucky, keep up with themselves. They spend their whole lives practically making sure that the aging process is slowed as much as possible while males look chewed up and spit out when they hit 50 years old. I see way more hot 50 year old women then men. When the time comes and she no longer wants sex as often, she will go through this as well and we will find her post on this site saying, "My old husband's bald head and fat belly grosses me out...".

As for the folks jumping down your throat, I don't think they understand that you came onto this website to talk about your feelings. There is no need to ridicule you for being honest. Now, if you posted something along the lines of, "I left my preggo wife for have a gross belly..." then I would call you shmuck.

One last tip, God gave you an imagination for a reason. I need not say more.
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