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El Samyaza User ID: 1072087 United States 12/22/2010 08:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ....lol Trolling? |
ajk User ID: 1114631 United States 12/22/2010 08:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Much as you may not want to, you need to be honest with him. Your conscience will eat at you the longer you hold this in, and the longer you wait to tell him the harder it will make it all. Good luck, I know this a tough situation for you, I hope you can come out stronger for it in the end the both of you. Last Edited by ajk on 12/22/2010 08:14 AM No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1203492 United States 12/22/2010 08:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203123We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last night. I travel a lot for my work and I have had more than one tempting situation, I am extremely good looking so men constantly try to approach me. Yet I stayed strong, until last night. I am living in a foreign country for a few months and have not seen him for three months. Understand, I am not using this as an excuse, I know that cheating is unacceptable and disgusting and I cannot believe I stooped down this low. I would be prepared to accept any consequence my husband would think is fit, even breaking up, even though he is the only guy I could ever love. I just don't want to hurt my husband's feelings. My hookup was a one night stand, I was drunk (but again no excuse), and the guy is also in a relationship, so my husband will never find out about this. And I had safe sex and am going to the hospital later today to get tested for STDs. It's killing me to lie, and killing me to tell him I broke his trust. I know I would never do this again--though the sex was great and the guy was wonderful I felt like vomiting afterwards and could not sleep all night. Should I tell him? And when, right now over the phone when he comes to spend Christmas holidays with me? you have now passed the final requirement for the tramp stamp on your ass. go ahead and pick out a good one and surprise your ex-husband. |
C21H30O2 User ID: 1187046 United States 12/22/2010 08:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203123We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last night. I travel a lot for my work and I have had more than one tempting situation, I am extremely good looking so men constantly try to approach me. Yet I stayed strong, until last night. I am living in a foreign country for a few months and have not seen him for three months. Understand, I am not using this as an excuse, I know that cheating is unacceptable and disgusting and I cannot believe I stooped down this low. I would be prepared to accept any consequence my husband would think is fit, even breaking up, even though he is the only guy I could ever love. I just don't want to hurt my husband's feelings. My hookup was a one night stand, I was drunk (but again no excuse), and the guy is also in a relationship, so my husband will never find out about this. And I had safe sex and am going to the hospital later today to get tested for STDs. It's killing me to lie, and killing me to tell him I broke his trust. I know I would never do this again--though the sex was great and the guy was wonderful I felt like vomiting afterwards and could not sleep all night. Should I tell him? And when, right now over the phone when he comes to spend Christmas holidays with me? Well, its a *little* too late for that now, ya dumb bimbo... And "he'll never find out about it"? Sounds like you DONT want him to know. ...Ya dumb bimbo. "And as I fell apart, nobody paid much attention" |
Just Speak User ID: 1008727 United States 12/22/2010 08:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No offense, but you're not very bright if you think that's a great idea. Why the hell would you do that to him? You've already damaged your marriage.. why fuck up his Christmas and New Year's? It's hard for me not to judge people that do this to their partners. I've seen first hand what adultery does to a family. Not fun. You should tell him, though. I think you owe him at least that much, don't you? |
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flyingfish User ID: 1111367 United States 12/22/2010 08:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Last Edited by flyingfish on 12/22/2010 08:22 AM |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1203123 United States 12/22/2010 08:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you love your husband tell him but I don't wnat to miss lead you in anyway or you could just live with this if you think nothing will become of it but if you go to the doctor and have a std you will have to tell him. Quoting: flyingfishThanks! I'm gonna talk to him again about it today. |
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BRIEF AND TO THE POINT User ID: 381742 United States 12/22/2010 08:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be sure to include every little detail OP...Like how hard his cock was, and the volume of semen he shot inside you...things like that... Poor people do poor people things, and rich people do rich people things. You cannot legislate the poor into prosperity by legislating the wealthy out of prosperity. What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving. The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else. When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that my dear friend, is the beginning of the end of any nation. You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it! when you rob Paul to give to Peter ... ... ... you will always get Peters support! :Brieffromnativea: |
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flyingfish User ID: 1111367 United States 12/22/2010 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you love your husband tell him but I don't want to miss lead you in anyway or you could just live with this if you think nothing will become of it but if you go to the doctor and have a std you will have to tell him. Quoting: flyingfishJust tell him the truth it will set you free and go to the doctor and if it happens again seek help could be a bad problem or get another job where you don't have to stay away from your husband. If you realy love your husband you would not have done this to start with love is a bond between two people everlasting don't break it for when it is broken it can not be fixed. Last Edited by flyingfish on 12/22/2010 08:19 AM |
BRIEF AND TO THE POINT User ID: 381742 United States 12/22/2010 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suck one cock and you're a cock sucker for life. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1197256eating's not cheating Poor people do poor people things, and rich people do rich people things. You cannot legislate the poor into prosperity by legislating the wealthy out of prosperity. What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving. The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else. When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that my dear friend, is the beginning of the end of any nation. You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it! when you rob Paul to give to Peter ... ... ... you will always get Peters support! :Brieffromnativea: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1203498 United States 12/22/2010 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's better off not knowing. You will have to endure the knowledge; don't force the grief on him. It hurts. Been there, in your husbands shoes, and I'd rather be ignorant since it was just a bad choice on my wifes part similar to yours and won't be repeated. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1142550 Israel 12/22/2010 08:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203123We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last night. I travel a lot for my work and I have had more than one tempting situation, I am extremely good looking so men constantly try to approach me. Yet I stayed strong, until last night. I am living in a foreign country for a few months and have not seen him for three months. Understand, I am not using this as an excuse, I know that cheating is unacceptable and disgusting and I cannot believe I stooped down this low. I would be prepared to accept any consequence my husband would think is fit, even breaking up, even though he is the only guy I could ever love. I just don't want to hurt my husband's feelings. My hookup was a one night stand, I was drunk (but again no excuse), and the guy is also in a relationship, so my husband will never find out about this. And I had safe sex and am going to the hospital later today to get tested for STDs. It's killing me to lie, and killing me to tell him I broke his trust. I know I would never do this again--though the sex was great and the guy was wonderful I felt like vomiting afterwards and could not sleep all night. Should I tell him? And when, right now over the phone when he comes to spend Christmas holidays with me? Consult with a marriage counselor and arrange a meeting for the both of you with the advise of the counselor on when and how to say what happened. |
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FreedomStands User ID: 1199019 United States 12/22/2010 08:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203123We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last night. I travel a lot for my work and I have had more than one tempting situation, I am extremely good looking so men constantly try to approach me. Yet I stayed strong, until last night. I am living in a foreign country for a few months and have not seen him for three months. Understand, I am not using this as an excuse, I know that cheating is unacceptable and disgusting and I cannot believe I stooped down this low. I would be prepared to accept any consequence my husband would think is fit, even breaking up, even though he is the only guy I could ever love. I just don't want to hurt my husband's feelings. My hookup was a one night stand, I was drunk (but again no excuse), and the guy is also in a relationship, so my husband will never find out about this. And I had safe sex and am going to the hospital later today to get tested for STDs. It's killing me to lie, and killing me to tell him I broke his trust. I know I would never do this again--though the sex was great and the guy was wonderful I felt like vomiting afterwards and could not sleep all night. Should I tell him? And when, right now over the phone when he comes to spend Christmas holidays with me? I can't believe you did this to me! How could you? I trusted you! The Library of GLP! Please post a list of all the articles you've ever made on GLP here: Thread: (OFFICIAL) GLP THREAD LIST Please copy paste 1199019 to the advanced search area while setting an earlier date to view a list of my other articles. |
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C21H30O2 User ID: 1187046 United States 12/22/2010 08:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's better off not knowing. You will have to endure the knowledge; don't force the grief on him. It hurts. Been there, in your husbands shoes, and I'd rather be ignorant since it was just a bad choice on my wifes part similar to yours and won't be repeated. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203498"And as I fell apart, nobody paid much attention" |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1052454 United States 12/22/2010 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203123We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even really kissed, until last night. I travel a lot for my work and I have had more than one tempting situation, I am extremely good looking so men constantly try to approach me. Yet I stayed strong, until last night. I am living in a foreign country for a few months and have not seen him for three months. Understand, I am not using this as an excuse, I know that cheating is unacceptable and disgusting and I cannot believe I stooped down this low. I would be prepared to accept any consequence my husband would think is fit, even breaking up, even though he is the only guy I could ever love. I just don't want to hurt my husband's feelings. My hookup was a one night stand, I was drunk (but again no excuse), and the guy is also in a relationship, so my husband will never find out about this. And I had safe sex and am going to the hospital later today to get tested for STDs. It's killing me to lie, and killing me to tell him I broke his trust. I know I would never do this again--though the sex was great and the guy was wonderful I felt like vomiting afterwards and could not sleep all night. Should I tell him? And when, right now over the phone when he comes to spend Christmas holidays with me? You should be stone. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1203497 Serbia 12/22/2010 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's better off not knowing. You will have to endure the knowledge; don't force the grief on him. It hurts. Been there, in your husbands shoes, and I'd rather be ignorant since it was just a bad choice on my wifes part similar to yours and won't be repeated. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1203498Exactly. Do the math. Make up your mind, and stick to it. |