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Are men afraid of intelligent,smart,well educated,good looking and Independent women? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 48330045  United States02/15/2014 12:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 48330045 Well I agree with you about not mixing it up with people here. If by "brains" you mean "highly educated", quite a few women are like that, and I'm not usually intimidated by such women. It's more the women whom take on male characteristics like aggression that turn me around. Now women (and men) with wisdom? That something that's tough to find these days. i'm not a fan of women who take on male characteristics in the workplace or outside the workplace - that said i'm no fucking doormat and if i'm working outside the house and you want a sammich, you can make it yourself, especially if i commute and work outside of the house while you have some cush job working from home barely a full day, if at all. ya dig? many men these days seem to want things both ways.....a woman who does everything around the house and who bring in a six figure income, too.....or whatever kind of income. i knew i would never have kids with my ex, (for many reasons, one of which) bc he would never be a "partner" in the child rearing process... bc he was not even a partner in anything else....he was a child playing with toys, trapped in a man's body.... a manboy. there's a biblical verse about putting away childish things once you are grown. not saying you can't have fun, but when that's all you want to do and are not a responsible / accountable man, well GTFO. i'm not referring to brains as "highly educated," bc i hv known highly educated people to be actually not very smart or intelligent and who cannot work creatively and some who don't even have the english language grasped at a minimum....i'm taking "brains" as in being smart, being able to solve problems, being a SME, etc......and yes, i guess wisdom would be in there as well. People who cherry pick bible verses to suit their agenda make me laugh, especially when they ignore what they don't like. who's ignoring? btw - i only really count what G-d said / commanded bc the rest is human filler / opinion. You mean what he said with the instructions manual that floated down with the angels? The one that was heavily edited by a corrupt government body at Nicea? Good luck in ridding yourself of the brainwash, smart woman.  |
JesseDart  User ID: 53905673 United States02/15/2014 12:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 48330045 Well I agree with you about not mixing it up with people here. If by "brains" you mean "highly educated", quite a few women are like that, and I'm not usually intimidated by such women. It's more the women whom take on male characteristics like aggression that turn me around. Now women (and men) with wisdom? That something that's tough to find these days. i'm not a fan of women who take on male characteristics in the workplace or outside the workplace - that said i'm no fucking doormat and if i'm working outside the house and you want a sammich, you can make it yourself, especially if i commute and work outside of the house while you have some cush job working from home barely a full day, if at all. ya dig? many men these days seem to want things both ways.....a woman who does everything around the house and who bring in a six figure income, too.....or whatever kind of income. i knew i would never have kids with my ex, (for many reasons, one of which) bc he would never be a "partner" in the child rearing process... bc he was not even a partner in anything else....he was a child playing with toys, trapped in a man's body.... a manboy. there's a biblical verse about putting away childish things once you are grown. not saying you can't have fun, but when that's all you want to do and are not a responsible / accountable man, well GTFO. i'm not referring to brains as "highly educated," bc i hv known highly educated people to be actually not very smart or intelligent and who cannot work creatively and some who don't even have the english language grasped at a minimum....i'm taking "brains" as in being smart, being able to solve problems, being a SME, etc......and yes, i guess wisdom would be in there as well. People who cherry pick bible verses to suit their agenda make me laugh, especially when they ignore what they don't like. who's ignoring? btw - i only really count what G-d said / commanded bc the rest is human filler / opinion. So when you say that you only care about the word of the man himself vs human filler, are you making this distinction based off of old testament vs. new? Just wanting to get on the same page here. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54226913 United States02/15/2014 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54226913 i'm not a fan of women who take on male characteristics in the workplace or outside the workplace - that said i'm no fucking doormat and if i'm working outside the house and you want a sammich, you can make it yourself, especially if i commute and work outside of the house while you have some cush job working from home barely a full day, if at all. ya dig? many men these days seem to want things both ways.....a woman who does everything around the house and who bring in a six figure income, too.....or whatever kind of income. i knew i would never have kids with my ex, (for many reasons, one of which) bc he would never be a "partner" in the child rearing process... bc he was not even a partner in anything else....he was a child playing with toys, trapped in a man's body.... a manboy. there's a biblical verse about putting away childish things once you are grown. not saying you can't have fun, but when that's all you want to do and are not a responsible / accountable man, well GTFO. i'm not referring to brains as "highly educated," bc i hv known highly educated people to be actually not very smart or intelligent and who cannot work creatively and some who don't even have the english language grasped at a minimum....i'm taking "brains" as in being smart, being able to solve problems, being a SME, etc......and yes, i guess wisdom would be in there as well. People who cherry pick bible verses to suit their agenda make me laugh, especially when they ignore what they don't like. who's ignoring? btw - i only really count what G-d said / commanded bc the rest is human filler / opinion. So when you say that you only care about the word of the man himself vs human filler, are you making this distinction based off of old testament vs. new? Just wanting to get on the same page here. pretty much, but i do find some things in the NT which resonate with me...and seem to be from G-d. jmho. i am no scholar, i am just trying to follow what i believe G-d puts into my heart and shows me with my eyes. the last several years have been very interesting to say the least....i have realized the fallacy of straying from my parent's teachings (they were not church goers, but strong believers of G-d) and by not listening to my intuition / conscience ... which imho comes from G-d as a part of His guidance, the same way external signs do. e.g., while i do not like Salt as a mod or agree with her anti-jewish views, i think she is right to not see this man after her prayer to G-d and then the dude's car breaking down. jmho. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1141627  Netherlands02/15/2014 01:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | do the brig inferiority complex in men? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1440075Not in the least. As a matter of fact it is the opposite, I welcome it and encourage it. Your broad statement is unfounded. It is founded upon truth. You did not realize people on GLP are sort of the elite when it comes to reason and intelligence. Many men are immature gorillas and have their ego's crushed, that is actually only their fantasy grandeur of themselves. Go after your own kind, do not mingle with animals if you are not an animal... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26269723 United States02/15/2014 02:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i have been told men are intimidated by me, once even by a guy who i had previously dated - who told me years later i was just "too far above him, that i intimidated him intellectually, sexually, physically, etc." .... whatever....if someone's self-esteem won't allow them to be with someone that is their issue. frankly, i was not that interested in that guy anyway, so that situation worked out well. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54226913 it can be annoying though when you only get attention from men who are barely out of HS (or older guys who think women are materialistic freaks and bc they hv money they are "it") and the men in your own age group are apparently "intimidated," as others have said to me. *rolls eyes* not out to "hook up" or have a sugar daddy, so not going down either of those roads. My wife (sunsign Aries) is like that. But then she met a wall - Me (sunsign Taurus). She has even gladly worn the pants and brought home the bacon so to speak at times when I became the stay at home dad due to circumstances and friends have taunted me - saying that I was a "kept" man. Her friends at work in a fortune 10 company were the feminazis who gradually started to get to her. Needless to say, sanity prevailed and she finally opted to quit the job than try to change me. She even quit getting on top of me sexually when I once told her that her aggressiveness was painful (literally). Long and short is that we both are pretty aggressive and have had our share of ups and downs - almost reached finalizing divorce twice and the only outcome was making a few attorneys richer. But did I make her docile???? NO. Did she prefer to let me handle things for her like a lady should be treated???? YES. REAL LOVE and RESPECT is something lacking very much in both sexes of today's "money can buy anything" materialistic world. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53158374  United Kingdom02/15/2014 02:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are men afraid of intelligent,smart,well educated,good looking and Independent women? Nope, but they're not something that men look for when selecting a partner so you if you're using this as your main selling point, you're the female equivalent of a fat jobless man who lives in his mom's basement. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7145489 United States02/15/2014 02:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Only men who are castrated pussies like them. That way these bitches can bring home the bacon while these lazy ass men sit at home on their asses. Can't believe it only took one generation for these womens lib bitches to bring men to their knees. (I am a woman.) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54226913 United States02/15/2014 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i have been told men are intimidated by me, once even by a guy who i had previously dated - who told me years later i was just "too far above him, that i intimidated him intellectually, sexually, physically, etc." .... whatever....if someone's self-esteem won't allow them to be with someone that is their issue. frankly, i was not that interested in that guy anyway, so that situation worked out well. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 54226913 it can be annoying though when you only get attention from men who are barely out of HS (or older guys who think women are materialistic freaks and bc they hv money they are "it") and the men in your own age group are apparently "intimidated," as others have said to me. *rolls eyes* not out to "hook up" or have a sugar daddy, so not going down either of those roads. My wife (sunsign Aries) is like that. But then she met a wall - Me (sunsign Taurus). She has even gladly worn the pants and brought home the bacon so to speak at times when I became the stay at home dad due to circumstances and friends have taunted me - saying that I was a "kept" man. Her friends at work in a fortune 10 company were the feminazis who gradually started to get to her. Needless to say, sanity prevailed and she finally opted to quit the job than try to change me. She even quit getting on top of me sexually when I once told her that her aggressiveness was painful (literally). Long and short is that we both are pretty aggressive and have had our share of ups and downs - almost reached finalizing divorce twice and the only outcome was making a few attorneys richer. But did I make her docile???? NO. Did she prefer to let me handle things for her like a lady should be treated???? YES. REAL LOVE and RESPECT is something lacking very much in both sexes of today's "money can buy anything" materialistic world. sometimes there are circumstances where the wife will be the major / sole breadwinner.....this shld not be immasculating as shit happens....disabilities, industry changes, etc. the point is marriage shld be a partnership....you are in it together as a unit, ideally. also, whereas i think two strong personalities can make a great a marriage, they need to know and be able to compromise....it's not my way or the highway. jmho. happy you 2 were able to work it out together!!! ....there was nothing to work out in my marriage, it was over before it even began. made a huge ass mistake. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 16185977 United States02/17/2014 04:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't think the issue here is with men, I think it's with women. I mean if a woman is an aggressive, domineering woman, she can find a lot of good men out there that would fit her well if she wanted to. She could find a man who's more passive, laid back, more effeminate, there are a LOT Of men like this and it's not hard for a woman to get a man like that. These men would even follow her career around and become a stay-at-home-dad if she wanted it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 37310455 The problem is a lot of women are not sexually attracted to passive men like that. It's strange that a dominant woman often times seeks an even more domineering man, even though the relationship will hardly ever work unless the man keeps his game on for all the years they are together, which is hard. Then there's women who are happy with the reverse gender role relationship, but after a few months of hearing friends comments, and hearing from family that they have a weird relationship, they begin to start listening to other people and decide to bug out on the relationship and go for a relationship that's more traditional. Women are very much herd creatures so it really bothers them to the core when their friends and family don't approve.  You are absolutely correct. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30743660 United States02/17/2014 04:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously, don't advertise anything like that, because there are many just looking for some caretaking and they would like to sponge off any female they choose. Quoting: Sungaze_At_Dawn Stupid bitch. Women are the ones sponging men. Without men, most of you would starve to death within a month. no, but they would have to work. You really are out to lunch and a misogynst at that. Go kiss your hairy friend! Every woman I know, including myself has had to wade through the sponging dysfunctional men. I don't prefer to be around them because I know soul mate and Family are guiding us through life from the other side and am far too awake and remember home and why we're here. So there is no need for drama. Anyone that is well off, or even just a monthly check, and is somewhat attractive is game for men who behave like opportunists and pirates, especially if the woman is shy and has low self esteem. They look for caretakers and those who are soft. And women have forgotten how to be women. Its in your nature , part of your IDENTITY to be a caregiver and a nurturer. Men are actually attracted to softness and a woman who is confident in her femininity. Not to dominate her , but to enjoy her as she should enjoy him. The problem starts with the workforce. It has completely blurred the lines for a man to get out there and do what he is built/designed to do. In turn , the home is ruined. Stop trying to be a bad ass , know-it-all with NO FLAWS. It isnt attractive. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30743660 United States02/17/2014 04:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men in general are shallow and uninteresting and they just want sex, above all else. Best thing that could happen is for women to start rejecting men altogether, STOP the incessant breeding, and let this fucked up species completely die off . . . Mother Nature and the universe would no doubt be very grateful. This |
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| R.P. McMurphy User ID: 17078589 United States02/17/2014 04:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No. Not in this one, they don't. "Moral of the story is I chose a half measure when I should have gone all the way. I'll never make that mistake again. ==== ESTJ-a (Executive) 93% Extroverted, 82% Observant, 83% Thinking, 82% Judging,72% Assertive ==== |
| justice4all User ID: 54449671 United States02/17/2014 08:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Gali User ID: 8295442 United States02/17/2014 09:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | May I suggest that, for a man-woman relationship to survive and be permanent, there must be a near match in each of three components, mind (intelligence, soul), spirit (qualities of character) and physical (similar body types, same energy level, both like sex). A mismatch in intelligence, the most important category) spells doom. An intelligent man does not want to be married to a dummy, and a woman who is married to a dummy cannot possibly respect him. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 8304554 United States03/31/2014 01:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Are men afraid of intelligent,smart,well educated,good looking and Independent women? ....do the brig inferiority complex in men? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1440075 No, it's just that women who are "all that", usually have such stratospheric expectations of men, that no actual man is "good enough" for them. Women have an impulse called "hypergamy" -- the desire to marry "UP" -- so if a woman is at the top herself, she may not see ANY men as worthy. Men soon learn that these women, however highly desireable they may be, are just plain out of reach, and give up on them. Also... let it be said -- a lot of supposedly smart women, really aren't. If the college degree is anything other tham math, physics, chemistry, or engineering, she probably severely overestimates how smart she actually is. |
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| rod777 User ID: 46916034 United States03/31/2014 02:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some of my favorite quotes: Bessie Braddock: “Sir, you are drunk.” Churchill: “Madam, you are ugly. In the morning, I shall be sober.” Nancy Astor: “Sir, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.” Churchill: “If I were your husband I would take it.” |
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| video.catnip User ID: 54226913 United States03/31/2014 04:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: JesseDart People who cherry pick bible verses to suit their agenda make me laugh, especially when they ignore what they don't like. who's ignoring? btw - i only really count what G-d said / commanded bc the rest is human filler / opinion. So when you say that you only care about the word of the man himself vs human filler, are you making this distinction based off of old testament vs. new? Just wanting to get on the same page here. pretty much, but i do find some things in the NT which resonate with me...and seem to be from G-d. jmho. i am no scholar, i am just trying to follow what i believe G-d puts into my heart and shows me with my eyes. the last several years have been very interesting to say the least....i have realized the fallacy of straying from my parent's teachings (they were not church goers, but strong believers of G-d) and by not listening to my intuition / conscience ... which imho comes from G-d as a part of His guidance, the same way external signs do. e.g., while i do not like Salt as a mod or agree with her anti-jewish views, i think she is right to not see this man after her prayer to G-d and then the dude's car breaking down. jmho. yeah, thanks for reminding me of my words.....G-d, whomever.....warning signs today, too....easy to get pulled in sometimes. oh....the wishful thinking! there are no coincidences. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 55543697 Canada03/31/2014 07:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Intelligent, smart and good looking woman? It is a myth. No such thing exists. Woman can be either smart or good looking. Quoting: Username 1753683 Same for men then... So are you also this poster User ID: 54449671/Justice4all? Because you both typed the exact same message. And no, men aren't "afraid" of them. Any woman who thinks that, needs to get over herself. |
