Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question | |
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PeaceSeeker User ID: 1527668 United States 09/10/2011 02:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Stay in your vehicle in a Wal Mart parking lot considering your near one. If they let campers you shouldn't pose a problem until you can sell your stuff to rent a place. Rent one of those motel type rooms but overall I hear they are more costly than renting a studio. Best of luck! |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I've been staying up here in Newport Beach so that I had a safe place to be alone while I detox off of the prescription pain medication I've been taking since I had back surgery in 2009 following a bad car accident in late 2008. I knew I was not going to be able to afford those Rx anymore after I lost my insurance coverage so I was forced to go off them "cold turkey", also I refuse to go on medicaid or any other welfare program. I'm 29, white, former medical student (1st semester), 100% bilingual Spanish speaking. I left all my stuff in Tijuana, Mexico where my wife and I had been living while I attended med school before she left me and took my kids. I have been looking but was not able to find a job in San Diego due to EVERYBODY being bilingual and a fucking minority in San Diego. No jobs for bilingual white boys I guess. Thinking of heading back east maybe? I might be able to apply for financial aid and take a few classes online, should give me enough cash to move somewhere but that student loan stuff takes weeks to come in. "Rocky... Road?" |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question The thought actually crossed my mind a few times this week as I suffered through the pain med withdrawal symptoms... But I'm a pussy and would only do it with a gun, and my guns are at my parents place in another city and state. But thanks for your input anyway... "Rocky... Road?" |
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Neon.Pope User ID: 1542949 Canada 09/10/2011 02:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Hmm that really sucks... Try investing $5-$10 into a random homeless person you find and ask for advice on the hardships they have endured by buying them lunch and have a simple conversation... You would be amazed at what you can learn... Another simple tip since it seems you have a vehicle... This one comes from experience... A cheap 50 watt power inverter for your cigarette lighter and a small 1 quart rice cooker... Rice saved my life for two months... A 10 Kilo bag lasted me that long, rationing it out to a 1/2 cup per meal... Was the best $10 dollar investment I made... *another tip within a tip* Crushed up Doritos chips on top of the rice, damn that was really some good flavor after 2 months of solid rice. And of course, learn something from this, appreciate the things you have, the things you take for granted every day... Like running water and electricity... Good luck my friend, if you need more tips please let me know... I have many to share. Lived from my car for over 6 months.... |
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Evanight User ID: 1178513 United States 09/10/2011 02:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Do you have computer or internet access? If so....... [link to www.athomemoms.com] No bullshit. Bars are always needing bar-backs, doesn't pay shit, but will help. A typical vice of American politics is the avoidance of saying anything real on real issues. Theodore Roosevelt |
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BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Do you have computer or internet access? If so....... [link to www.athomemoms.com] Quoting: Evanight No bullshit. Bars are always needing bar-backs, doesn't pay shit, but will help. Thanks I'll check it out. I've got internet access for the next 3 days while I'm here at the summer house. "Rocky... Road?" |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I'm thinking of selling my Trailblazer on Craigslist, maybe squeeze like $7,000 or $8,000 if I dump it at CarMax. I'm legally obligate to give half that to my wife. The divorce isnt finalized yet but I dont want to run into any shit down the road. I could buy some junker car maybe and that way still be mobile. I'm mostly worried about the next 4 weeks or so people. "Rocky... Road?" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1543013 United States 09/10/2011 02:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Hmm that really sucks... Quoting: Neon.Pope Try investing $5-$10 into a random homeless person you find and ask for advice on the hardships they have endured by buying them lunch and have a simple conversation... You would be amazed at what you can learn... Another simple tip since it seems you have a vehicle... This one comes from experience... A cheap 50 watt power inverter for your cigarette lighter and a small 1 quart rice cooker... Rice saved my life for two months... A 10 Kilo bag lasted me that long, rationing it out to a 1/2 cup per meal... Was the best $10 dollar investment I made... *another tip within a tip* Crushed up Doritos chips on top of the rice, damn that was really some good flavor after 2 months of solid rice. And of course, learn something from this, appreciate the things you have, the things you take for granted every day... Like running water and electricity... Good luck my friend, if you need more tips please let me know... I have many to share. Lived from my car for over 6 months.... My local big box hardware store has a 100 watt power inverter with USB port on sale this week for 10 dollars. It is a good thing to have, good tip on the rice cooker too. I'll pray for you OP. |
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the Dark night User ID: 1537873 United States 09/10/2011 02:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question And you had how many cars??? Try living in your means maybe Step 1. You're homeless, so you will be bouncing around a lot. Get rid of anything you wont need to be finding work. Step 2. Find a relative or friend who will let you stay with them LONG TERM while you try to get back on your feet. Move there and dont start any shit with anyone. Maybe try to stay at the beach house if your parents let you pay rent? Step 3. Get a job. And then find out what you are gonna be paying in bills to your ex. Step 4. Get your own place and go back to school and become a Dr or what ever. Step 5. Rather than getting 3 cars, make sure you always have money for a secure place to live, and worry about cars later. there ya go |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Hmm that really sucks... Quoting: Neon.Pope Try investing $5-$10 into a random homeless person you find and ask for advice on the hardships they have endured by buying them lunch and have a simple conversation... You would be amazed at what you can learn... Another simple tip since it seems you have a vehicle... This one comes from experience... A cheap 50 watt power inverter for your cigarette lighter and a small 1 quart rice cooker... Rice saved my life for two months... A 10 Kilo bag lasted me that long, rationing it out to a 1/2 cup per meal... Was the best $10 dollar investment I made... *another tip within a tip* Crushed up Doritos chips on top of the rice, damn that was really some good flavor after 2 months of solid rice. And of course, learn something from this, appreciate the things you have, the things you take for granted every day... Like running water and electricity... Good luck my friend, if you need more tips please let me know... I have many to share. Lived from my car for over 6 months.... Thats the best damn advice so far! Luckily one of the things I saved from throwing out is a 750 Watt inverter! Hadnt even thought about it until now! "Rocky... Road?" |
Glósóli User ID: 1519688 United States 09/10/2011 02:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I'm thinking of selling my Trailblazer on Craigslist, maybe squeeze like $7,000 or $8,000 if I dump it at CarMax. I'm legally obligate to give half that to my wife. The divorce isnt finalized yet but I dont want to run into any shit down the road. I could buy some junker car maybe and that way still be mobile. I'm mostly worried about the next 4 weeks or so people. Quoting: BeginAgain Fuck that - don't give her shit. YOU ARE HOMELESS! You need that cash to get your life going again. Last Edited by Glósóli on 09/10/2011 02:37 AM |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question You have no money? Quoting: the Dark night 1537873 And you had how many cars??? Try living in your means maybe Step 1. You're homeless, so you will be bouncing around a lot. Get rid of anything you wont need to be finding work. Step 2. Find a relative or friend who will let you stay with them LONG TERM while you try to get back on your feet. Move there and dont start any shit with anyone. Maybe try to stay at the beach house if your parents let you pay rent? Step 3. Get a job. And then find out what you are gonna be paying in bills to your ex. Step 4. Get your own place and go back to school and become a Dr or what ever. Step 5. Rather than getting 3 cars, make sure you always have money for a secure place to live, and worry about cars later. there ya go Hey dude chill out, one was a 1987 mercedes benz station wagon I gave to my wife and the other was a 1988 ford f-350 in the shop with a seized engine. Dont assume everyone is a fucking yuppie with a Prius. Last Edited by BeginAgain on 09/10/2011 02:38 AM "Rocky... Road?" |
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BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question And I thought I already mentioned I was in my 1st semester of MEDICAL SCHOOL so that = I was not working. My student loans had not even arrived yet. My wife left and went to her parents place with my kids. She emptied our bank account. I had insurance through her job. I am an emotional wreck and absolutely cannot/do not want to continue medical school at this time. Probably not ever after all this shit. I'm not putting in 4-5 years of school just to be able to hand over a shitload of money to her. Fuck that. She can fucking work or have her new boyfriend and parents support her. I know my kids are going to be alright for now. I'm just reeling from having my world turned upside down in the past few months. "Rocky... Road?" |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1331394 United States 09/10/2011 02:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question Will they let me if I am detoxing off of a few prescriptions I can no longer afford? That stuff stays in your blood a while. Depends on what scripts you've been taking. Google to find a site in your area & call them up & ask. It's worth a shot to make some quick cash. All they can say is no. And I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. Starting over is tough, I've been there. |
Abs User ID: 1373595 United States 09/10/2011 02:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I'm about to live in a fuckin' tent out of necesity as soon as my parents find out I've been staying in their beach house this past week, unemployed and homeless... I'm 29 and this divorce has kind of got me all loony. Last week I packed up as much of my stuff into a 6x12 u-haul trailer and my Trailblazer and abandoned 2 other cars and i'd say about 80% of my possessions at the house I was renting. Don't know what the hell to do now because I can't afford another month for my storage unit (I got a $35 move in special but 2nd month is going to be $225) I can sell most of the shit in my storage unit for cash but the problem is I'm 100 miles up the coast staying at my parent's summer home. I've got less than $200 TO MY NAME. Anyone got any ideas? Quoting: BeginAgain Obviously... The task at hand is to find a way to sell all my stuff in San Diego and get in to a shared room or studio apartment and find a job, even though the only place I currently have to sleep at night is 100 miles away in Orange County... I can't stay here for more than another few days, each round trip to San Diego would cost me around $40-$50 in gas and as I mentioned before, I only have $200 to my name. Realize stuff can be replaced. Drive to San Diego but before you do, put ads on Craigslist and PennySaver with the address of the storage unit, the time you'll be there and what you can remember you have and a low price for what you remember. Drive down to SD, spend the night at a rest stop or Walmart parking lot. You actually could probably not sleep for one night. After you sell everything possible, you have some cash. Live like you don't have any. Do you have friends? Perhaps you could do some shit around their houses for some food and floor space, not to be more than 3 days, though. You may need to come back later. You need to talk to your folks, too. They may be hardass but if you can paint or do something in their beachhouse, they may see you are actually trying to do something to get out of a bad situation. It will not hurt to try. Any time you aren't looking for work or sleeping, start collecting those cans. You definitely need to drop that pride shit and apply for food stamps at least. You also might find help at homeless shelter. I'm not sure if I would sell my car. Yes, it eats gas but it is large enough to sleep in and carry shit. Knocking on doors, seeing if anyone has junk they want carried away can be $40-60 a day. You are young. This might be the best lesson you'll ever have in life. If you get through this, you'll be able to get through most anything, Good Luck! As above, so below. |
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Neon.Pope User ID: 1542949 Canada 09/10/2011 02:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question omg dude, this is like reading my life. im 29 and i just lost my job and home to. im not kidding!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1508802 Where are you located? I'm currently in Newport Beach, California. But not for long... Well I lived in Manitoba Canada for 6 months through the winter in a 1984 Chrysler new yorker... -40 -50 C weather and damn that inverter kept me safe and warm... Get a laptop, *will help with job searches and such* and use free wifi from places like starbucks / mcdonalds / libraries... If you can get a library card, do it! many libraries have dvd rentals too, which will help you keep your sanity on those long cold nights. You can watch all those people live the life and think for yourself... "damn it! why not me!?!" Trust me, spend allot of time thinking about it... What got you to your current situation, what can get you out of it, and where you want to be... California eh? Lots of hurricane damaged boats there I imagine, for nice and cheap too... Ever think about living aboard a boat? Very little or no rent.... If you set it up right, no utilities either... and you can really entertain people too. *its a unique lifestyle, yet to be adapted by modern urban dwellers.* My current goal after working 9-5 job for x years doing x crappy job is a boat, I can sail away and never have to pay to exist again... the ocean is my food, my energy, my life... the world is my entertainment, fuck work, as humans, we were meant to live! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1541705 United States 09/10/2011 02:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I'm about to live in a fuckin' tent out of necesity as soon as my parents find out I've been staying in their beach house this past week, unemployed and homeless... I'm 29 and this divorce has kind of got me all loony. Last week I packed up as much of my stuff into a 6x12 u-haul trailer and my Trailblazer and abandoned 2 other cars and i'd say about 80% of my possessions at the house I was renting. Don't know what the hell to do now because I can't afford another month for my storage unit (I got a $35 move in special but 2nd month is going to be $225) I can sell most of the shit in my storage unit for cash but the problem is I'm 100 miles up the coast staying at my parent's summer home. I've got less than $200 TO MY NAME. Anyone got any ideas? Quoting: BeginAgain Obviously... The task at hand is to find a way to sell all my stuff in San Diego and get in to a shared room or studio apartment and find a job, even though the only place I currently have to sleep at night is 100 miles away in Orange County... I can't stay here for more than another few days, each round trip to San Diego would cost me around $40-$50 in gas and as I mentioned before, I only have $200 to my name. Can you go home to your parents and stay with them for awhile while you look for work? |
BeginAgain (OP) User ID: 1540781 United States 09/10/2011 02:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Just Tossed Almost All My Possessions, 72 Hours From Being Homeless & Unemployed... Ask Me A Question I'm about to live in a fuckin' tent out of necesity as soon as my parents find out I've been staying in their beach house this past week, unemployed and homeless... I'm 29 and this divorce has kind of got me all loony. Last week I packed up as much of my stuff into a 6x12 u-haul trailer and my Trailblazer and abandoned 2 other cars and i'd say about 80% of my possessions at the house I was renting. Don't know what the hell to do now because I can't afford another month for my storage unit (I got a $35 move in special but 2nd month is going to be $225) I can sell most of the shit in my storage unit for cash but the problem is I'm 100 miles up the coast staying at my parent's summer home. I've got less than $200 TO MY NAME. Anyone got any ideas? Quoting: BeginAgain Obviously... The task at hand is to find a way to sell all my stuff in San Diego and get in to a shared room or studio apartment and find a job, even though the only place I currently have to sleep at night is 100 miles away in Orange County... I can't stay here for more than another few days, each round trip to San Diego would cost me around $40-$50 in gas and as I mentioned before, I only have $200 to my name. Realize stuff can be replaced. Drive to San Diego but before you do, put ads on Craigslist and PennySaver with the address of the storage unit, the time you'll be there and what you can remember you have and a low price for what you remember. Drive down to SD, spend the night at a rest stop or Walmart parking lot. You actually could probably not sleep for one night. After you sell everything possible, you have some cash. Live like you don't have any. Do you have friends? Perhaps you could do some shit around their houses for some food and floor space, not to be more than 3 days, though. You may need to come back later. You need to talk to your folks, too. They may be hardass but if you can paint or do something in their beachhouse, they may see you are actually trying to do something to get out of a bad situation. It will not hurt to try. Any time you aren't looking for work or sleeping, start collecting those cans. You definitely need to drop that pride shit and apply for food stamps at least. You also might find help at homeless shelter. I'm not sure if I would sell my car. Yes, it eats gas but it is large enough to sleep in and carry shit. Knocking on doors, seeing if anyone has junk they want carried away can be $40-60 a day. You are young. This might be the best lesson you'll ever have in life. If you get through this, you'll be able to get through most anything, Good Luck! Thanks man, advice well taken. Except the food stamp part, fuck that haha. Seriously though, its not pride, its dignity. I dont want to get hooked on handouts. And no, I dont have any friends in San Diego, I grew up in Vegas and moved to Mexico with my wife/kids to start med school. Never crossed the border much as there was no need. So I never met anyone. My rent in Mexico was about $500 a month. I'm not going back to Mexico though, out of the question. "Rocky... Road?" |