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REPORT ABUSIVE REPLY
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Deciding NOT to have children....
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Having a hard time accepting that I probably won't have children.
Some days I think I want to, but I am terrified of giving birth. Also, this world is so messed up...is it fair to bring new life into an existence where day-to-dayn survival is so frickin' hard? I think not. Not to mention kids are so expensive.
But as soon as I finish listing the valid reasons above NOT to have kids, I wonder if I will regret not having an family once I'm on my death bed.
Can life still be happy and fulfilling without having children? Can old age still be secure and enriching without children and grandchildren?
I'm so conflicted.
Quoting: Conflicted 1457789 yes a life can still be fulfilling without kids but thats kind of a fake life and fake happiness ,how old r u? anything after 33 or so is harder on a woman to have kids,more risks of all the bad stuff u hear about...my gf is 28 just like me and our boy turned one year the other day,there is nothing like it nor would my life have any meaning if we didnt have him.
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