Anyone else having trouble forgetting their 1st love?

id say that's fairly normal.

im my case it was the 2nd one. lol

Last Edited by OVRANALYZE on 04/07/2012 09:04 PM

You should be more fluid.

you will always remember it.

Last Edited by OVRANALYZE on 04/07/2012 09:06 PM

I have been married for 16 years, but have never forgotten the 1st person I fell in love with. I actually still lover her. Is this normal?

Same here. My buddy feels the same way about his gal. It's just such a fond memory that never looses it's appeal. Especially considering what the hell we all have been through since then.

Pure innocence

I was in touch with my first love after a high school reunion. After that, I wondered what I saw in him in the first place. He put down all our friends, and could not understand why his wife didn't trust him. Then he asked me if we could get together because he was still in love with me.

WTF?

Forget her and move on...if she has. Life is too short.

Married 16 years as well. I've loved three girls in my life... married of one of them and still friends with the other two. That's kinda cool.

Mutual breakups are the best of both worlds. You let go as a lover and yet gain a useful and wise friend that knows you very well.

Yes, in fact I dreamed about him last night. Met 32 years ago in fact.

I'm not actually trying to forget though, rather trying to remember more detail, not less.

Oh! 32 is on my avatar stamp, just thought of that!

Must be influencing me more than I realize, still.

I am still in love with my first love as well. I don't want to forget her though, it's some of my best memories.

Yes. I dream about him often. I keep in touch every now and again. When my relationship is going through a ruff time I think about him. I wish I could have made more memories with him. The memories I do have, I cherish dearly. I sometimes think about revisiting "us" to get my flame going again. I don't think this will ever fade. It has already been maybe 8 years. "If I could turn back time. If I could find a way."

YES

It's quite bothersome too.

yeah, i feel pretty pathetic about it sometimes actually...like just how hung up on him i still am :/

No.

Nope, rootie poo

He always lingers in the shadows. Gone but not forgotten.

Same...

Problem? No, my friend, those are some of my fondest memories. It's been 50 years since I last saw her, but I will forever love her.

Cherish those moments in the years to come.

Last Edited by Tholidor on 04/07/2012 09:41 PM

How can I possibly ever forget my first love when she is attatched to my right wrist as a constant reminder.........

I need to forget about the one I'm in love with right now.

No. I don't feel love for humans. Sympathy, at times, and pity, but not love. I don't know what happened, but that emotion has gone away from me, and I am kinda happy that it did.

Not troubling at all. She occasionally stops by while I'm dreaming. Nothing sexual, just there in some sort of capacity. Haven't actually seen her in close to 20 years now.

Your first love....is your watch?

It's nostalgia, sometimes things seem better in retrospect.

The only good thing about my first lover was the sex. It was fantastic. But she just loved sex too much, & ended up cheating on me when she left for college. it was never going to work anyways.

My second lover was a great friend, but she was a poor lover. She had a fantastic body but just didn't like sex enough. In the end we mutually split up because neither of us where getting what we wanted apparently. I tried to stay friends with her but she believed it was inappropriate for her to stay in contact with me whilst she was with someone else.

My current love is the love of my life. It's a typical goldilocks story, she is the right amount of personality, awesomeness, sex, & affection, & we're now having a child. I am a very lucky man to have the woman I have, & I'll treat her like a queen for as long as she'll let me.

Confusing animal lust and attraction for love is a common mistake. Almost everyone makes that mistake.

Normal? Shoot, they went and wrote a country song about it!







Well, I guess you can take some comfort in the fact that when you breath your last, you'll finally be over her and move on.



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