I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 11208970 United States 05/12/2012 04:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. |
Mad Pole (OP) User ID: 1423464 United States 05/12/2012 04:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Women who don't breast feed are guilty of child neglect. No formula can provide the specific nutrient that breastfeeding does. Infact kids who are breastfed live much longer lives. They are less apt to disease and cancer. The list goes on and on and on. Formula robs them and hurts them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10780690 Remember that pharmacuetical companies make the formula. If you think they have your baby's best interests in mind then you should sterilize yourself now and save the world from you spreading more stupidity. You are wholly ignorant. Provide proof of your claims - links, statistics, etc. PROVE that people who are breast-fed live longer and don't get diseases. You CANNOT PROVE your claims. Women who breastfeed nowadays are exposed to innumerable toxins from various sources and anyone who says breast milk is guaranteed to be healthy and safe has no idea what they are talking about. Long-term Health Benefits for Breastfed Babies Less childhood obesity Reduced risk of some chronic diseases that develop during childhood including: Juvenile diabetes Childhood cancers Allergic disease/asthma Enhanced neurological development that may result in higher IQs and better eyesight Suckling at the breast promotes good jaw development and encourages the growth of straight, healthy teeth [link to public.health.oregon.gov] Imbecile provides a link from the GOVERNMENT. LOL LOL LOL I can say the same trusting powdered government regulated formula formula vs natural and organic. Mommas youngest getting paper like the oldest one.. We living better guess God felt he owed us one. ------------------- i was born a sweet lil babi but them staven streets raized me up crazy -------------------- I always give 100% at work: 13% Monday 22% Tuesday 26% Wednesday 35% Thursday 4% Friday |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15950887 United States 05/12/2012 04:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. That picture was done in a vile, crass & tacky manner It actually took away the sincerity of breastfeeding And, of course, a white woman was used by the destructive media. That's what people don't like about the picture, Stupid |
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Mad Pole (OP) User ID: 1423464 United States 05/12/2012 04:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Women who don't breast feed are guilty of child neglect. No formula can provide the specific nutrient that breastfeeding does. In fact kids who are breastfed live much longer lives. They are less apt to disease and cancer. The list goes on and on and on. Formula robs them and hurts them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10780690 Remember that pharmacuetical companies make the formula. If you think they have your baby's best interests in mind then you should sterilize yourself now and save the world from you spreading more stupidity. Knock, knock, anyone home? Right asshole. what about those of us who were on chemo? I guess it would have been better to pass on all those lovely drugs to our babies. My baby would have died if I had breastfed her. BTW, your facts are skewered-surprise. My grandparents who died in their 90s were bottle fed. Maybe read on sites other than those biased to your way of thinking. Open your mind, you might even find more than 2 brain cells. I have epilepsy and refuse to even father a child from fear of passing it to my children. Boggles my mind that someone doesnt understand that breastfeeding should be done by a healthy mother not a chemical ladden mother. Think! Mommas youngest getting paper like the oldest one.. We living better guess God felt he owed us one. ------------------- i was born a sweet lil babi but them staven streets raized me up crazy -------------------- I always give 100% at work: 13% Monday 22% Tuesday 26% Wednesday 35% Thursday 4% Friday |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 11208970 United States 05/12/2012 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Women who don't breast feed are guilty of child neglect. No formula can provide the specific nutrient that breastfeeding does. In fact kids who are breastfed live much longer lives. They are less apt to disease and cancer. The list goes on and on and on. Formula robs them and hurts them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10780690 Remember that pharmacuetical companies make the formula. If you think they have your baby's best interests in mind then you should sterilize yourself now and save the world from you spreading more stupidity. Knock, knock, anyone home? Right asshole. what about those of us who were on chemo? I guess it would have been better to pass on all those lovely drugs to our babies. My baby would have died if I had breastfed her. BTW, your facts are skewered-surprise. My grandparents who died in their 90s were bottle fed. Maybe read on sites other than those biased to your way of thinking. Open your mind, you might even find more than 2 brain cells. I have epilepsy and refuse to even father a child from fear of passing it to my children. Boggles my mind that someone doesnt understand that breastfeeding should be done by a healthy mother not a chemical ladden mother. Think! Ohhhh youre a male. Then your opinion doesnt even count on this topic. Also if Time is that desperate for attention, they must change their name to, "Ill suck your d*#k for a dollar". |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9079482 United States 05/12/2012 04:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 I think that was the intent! The picture appears to be trying to project a sense of perversion upon the natural act of BF. Everyone knows that BF babies develope a very strong immune system, while fostering a lifetime bond between mother and child. The drive behind the "shock" of this picture is to further degrade the bonding of mother/child, generate additional profits for baby formula manufactures, and to destroy the long term health of the child. One wonders if the baby formula makers and the drug companies are sleeping together. From cradle to grave, they own us. Men must remember those teets belong to the baby first, then they are for our pleasure. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 11208970 United States 05/12/2012 04:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 I think that was the intent! The picture appears to be trying to project a sense of perversion upon the natural act of BF. Everyone knows that BF babies develope a very strong immune system, while fostering a lifetime bond between mother and child. The drive behind the "shock" of this picture is to further degrade the bonding of mother/child, generate additional profits for baby formula manufactures, and to destroy the long term health of the child. One wonders if the baby formula makers and the drug companies are sleeping together. From cradle to grave, they own us. Men must remember those teets belong to the baby first, then they are for our pleasure. No, it has more to do with the ongoing extinction event being experienced by print journalism. It was for shock value to get publicity and increase circulation of TIME. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15445947 United States 05/12/2012 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Women who don't breast feed are guilty of child neglect. No formula can provide the specific nutrient that breastfeeding does. Infact kids who are breastfed live much longer lives. They are less apt to disease and cancer. The list goes on and on and on. Formula robs them and hurts them. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10780690 Remember that pharmacuetical companies make the formula. If you think they have your baby's best interests in mind then you should sterilize yourself now and save the world from you spreading more stupidity. [link to www.canada.com] Flame-retardants found in many household products, electronics and cars make their way into breast milk, according to a new Canadian study. [link to www.nrdc.org] [link to www.ewg.org] Study Finds Record High Levels of Toxic Fire Retardants in Breast Milk from American Mothers Child neglect-get real. Its a personal choice as to breastfeed or not. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9711437 United States 05/12/2012 04:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. I breastfed my babies for a year and never once did I think of it as sexual. What makes it different for a 4 yr old? Where do you draw the line and what is your justification for that, because you like your nipples played with? So do I, but when they were for my babies, it was not sexual at all. How can someone even see that pic and think dirty thoughts? Says a lot about yourown filthy mind. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8806956 OMG. You actually ASKED THAT QUESTION?! Perhaps you should seek counseling for your own OBVIOUS problems, as you seem not understand boundaries. BREASTS ARE FIRST AND FOREMOST FOR FEEDING AND COMFORT PURPOSES FOR A WOMAN'S CHILDREN, NOT HER HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/PLAYBOY MAGAZINE/ONLINE PORN, GOT IT? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8806956 Oh, really? How about the cover and pages of TIME magazine? How about the breastfeeding fanatics who evidently take great pride and pleasure in posting photos of themselves online, allowing themselves to be photographed for magazines, and exposing themselves IN PUBLIC? There is absolutely NO justification for a woman breastfeeding to do so in front of a camera or the public. These women really do have psychological problems - otherwise, they would have the self-respect and decency to feed their children AT HOME or in a totally private place - and they would have no need for attention. I think that YOU have that psychological problem.Pull that stick out of your ass. I am a woman and just like a cow I have the udder to feed my offspring.why don't you have your breasts amputated cuz according to you they have no purpose! Womanas breasts are there for feeding their young - and we can't stop mens lust for them... the only problem I have is that its on the cover of TIME mag. WTF.. women have breasts to feed their babies.....oh and you guys ---we don't have breasts for you...THEY ARE FOR OUR BABIES!!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 15445947 United States 05/12/2012 04:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Not reading all these comments. At 14 months I gave my child 4 months to ween. All 3 of my children weened themselves when it was time, 18 months was my goal but they were all ready before 18 months. I breastfed for 4.5 years of my life, when you child can ask for your boob, THEY ARE TOO OLD!! This is a mothering issue, not being able to let go of the baby. Nothing at all to do with the well being of the child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5100558 +1000000 EXACTLY!!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9711437 United States 05/12/2012 04:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. No adult should remember sucking on mom's tits. Ween them before two and you're good to go. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10780690 If you want or need them to have the nutrients then simply pump the tit and put it in a bottle. Tits are for dad too. They ARE a sexual organ after all. Early breast feeding helps return a vagina to it's original state after child birth. And i know when i suck on a girls tits the vagina gets ready to make a baby. Its all connected in a perfect way. I just had an orgasim reading your post. Thank you! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9718093 United States 05/12/2012 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 Sexual? I see nothing sexual, just a woman breastfeeding as God intended. You don't think he's a little to old to be doing that? He should be out playing in the mud & with frogs and lizards at about that age. Americans are turning into lil sissy boys. Must be Liberals. Creating the ultimate momma's boys. That boy should be pouring his own drink into a cup. Poor thing. I don't care how enraged the self-righteous breast feeders get, it is wrong to judge parenting skills by how mothers choose to feed their children. I was bottle fed and, at 50, I'm as healthy as anyone and way more so than many. My kids were bottle fed and they're all fine and well adjusted and were on all their baby food by 3 months -- a REAL doctor's feeding schedule. Not one of these "food will kill humans under the age of 1" freaks. How you feed your child doesn't not make you any better or worse at parenting than anyone who chooses another way. My daughter-in-law tried nursing and it didn't work out. My grandkids are healthy and happy thank you very much and their mother is a great parent. Get over yourselves. There is no perfect parent. And when the next parenting bandwagon fad comes along that woman in that picture will be labeled a weirdo. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9711437 United States 05/12/2012 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Not reading all these comments. At 14 months I gave my child 4 months to ween. All 3 of my children weened themselves when it was time, 18 months was my goal but they were all ready before 18 months. I breastfed for 4.5 years of my life, when you child can ask for your boob, THEY ARE TOO OLD!! This is a mothering issue, not being able to let go of the baby. Nothing at all to do with the well being of the child. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5100558 I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I breastfed my 2 children 12 mos. with time to ween (14 mos) I weened before they asked for the breast.... Altho I wonder why men are obseced with breasts and women are not... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1306067 United States 05/12/2012 05:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. You all are too busy plopping your own children in front of the x-box, ps3, or television and spending to much of your own time in your own selfish deeds. Quoting: Mad Pole Why the hate over someone that is focusing on her child, spending time with her child, nuturing her child in the way that she chooses. Simply because you fail (failed) your own children and feel guilty because of it. It is too easy to throw stones.... Your entire line of thought and reasoning sounds EXACTLY the same as a homo when they are trying to justify their disgusting lifestyle. You have a not shred of wisdom in your post. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14449236 United States 05/12/2012 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. Hey it's all cool. Like the woman aka mother in a thrust forward pose and in skinny clothes that emphasize her model-like body. She wants to be seen this way by billions of people, and it will keep her doing talk show rounds and probably land her a book contract with a ghost writer. She will love giving live demonstrations. So what's with her male child on the mounting block? Is the symbology there that when he is old enough to stand mouth level with her tit, then he will be old enough to stop sucking on it and go to solid food? Won't his lunch box just be entertaining in the school cafeteria. What will happen when he wants to trade his lunch for another kid's ham & cheese? I am quite certain this magazine issue will fly off the shelves and deep into the backpacks of millions of middle school boys. Maybe they will be able to guilt trip their moms into repatriating to them their just dues. No doubt a whole pile of men who lacked sufficient breast feeding will get off on it too. And then there are the women who...oh never mind.... I had a friend who breast fed her boy until he was six. Yeah, we'd all be sitting on the sofa, chatting drinking whatever, and her boy would come into the group, take her lap, or stand/sit/kneel - depending on his age at the time - and start fondling a very large breast, then pull her shirt down/up/open and dig in. Frankly there was a sensual payoff for her, too (if you think that is bogus, then you aren't fessing up or haven't bothered to research). On one occasion when he was five, he actually grabbed my breast and started to pull my top out of his way. Bear in mind I had a child - a child who had been on solid food for quite a long time. I grabbed his arm, thrust it away and asked what he thought he was doing. He said he was going to eat. I told him to go find his mother and not try that with me again. He so fast snaked his hand grabbed my shirt and pulled and then thrust his face you know where. At five, this kid said, while in the aforementioned moment, "It's what you're for. Your tits are mine and I am hungry." I really grabbed this kid, since this was all too like a sexual assault experienced long before, took him to his mom, told her we needed to talk and she needed to wean her kid. We ceased being friends. Turned out my kid had been coming to see me and witnessed this whole mess. Think I wasn't all kinds of offended and pissed? Think my kid didn't have something to deal with? You idiots want to talk "natural"? Natural is watching nature. Baby mammals are nursed only until they are capable of masticating/swallowing/digesting their own food. Nature tells the nursing mothers when to start kicking the kids off the teat. Human mothers who don't observe Nature's pattern are getting and giving an unnatural (as in misplaced) payoff. Can't even call this deal any kind of beastiality, because even beastss know better. Nope, this is some kind of perverted, twisted human thing. Perverted because it does not contribute to the survival of the offspring. Twisted because...well, figure it out for yourself. And just think of this image, message meme, signal now put in front of billions. What a tingle, huh? It's all cool, right? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 9711437 United States 05/12/2012 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. You ever hear of cutting the cord? This is just more freudian nonsense. Generations x and Y blaming mommy and daddy for everything, because they feel that everything bad that has ever happened to them is their parents fault. So now they are overcompensating for that belief with their own children. Its sick and Im ashamed to be from the same generation. More pseudo intellectual liberal nonsense. Quoting: Frangas non Flectes Ahhhhkkk,...I so hear what you're saying...ahhhh , and the next gen is going to blame us........go figure..lol |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 11208970 United States 05/12/2012 05:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. You ever hear of cutting the cord? This is just more freudian nonsense. Generations x and Y blaming mommy and daddy for everything, because they feel that everything bad that has ever happened to them is their parents fault. So now they are overcompensating for that belief with their own children. Its sick and Im ashamed to be from the same generation. More pseudo intellectual liberal nonsense. Quoting: Frangas non Flectes Ahhhhkkk,...I so hear what you're saying...ahhhh , and the next gen is going to blame us........go figure..lol Lets hope they have more brains than our generation ended up with. |
ceawaves User ID: 15150828 Germany 05/12/2012 09:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. In most parts of the world women breastfeed until the child is around 5. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15764427 That's BS.. something you've been told, with no fact at all.. the only time one may breast feed that old a child would be to keep it from starving to death in Africa, or some other 3rd world country. Last Edited by ceawaves on 05/12/2012 09:25 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1544142 United States 05/12/2012 09:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: I'll tell you why everyone is upset with the breastfeeding mom. It makes them feel guilty of their own failed parenting. I breatfed all my kids, so no guilt here. That picture is very sexual and extremely disturbing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 962952 Your comment is extremely disturbing. Don't try to shove down the throats of those of us who believe breastfeeding as long as the child wants/needs it for comfort your own twisted perception of what a perfectly natural act is. Breasts were made for feeding babies and small children. Deal with it. If you have a porn-rotted/media-rotted brain, keep your disturbed thoughts to yourself. I agree with the first poster too. Most parents find parenthood easy because they don't do it right or well. Making your child's free time revolve around technology is lazy parenting, and I have been guilty of that, but now that summer is here, no more excuses. I breastfed my babies for a year and never once did I think of it as sexual. What makes it different for a 4 yr old? Where do you draw the line and what is your justification for that, because you like your nipples played with? So do I, but when they were for my babies, it was not sexual at all. How can someone even see that pic and think dirty thoughts? Says a lot about yourown filthy mind. BREASTS ARE FIRST AND FOREMOST FOR FEEDING AND COMFORT PURPOSES FOR A WOMAN'S CHILDREN, NOT HER HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/PLAYBOY MAGAZINE/ONLINE PORN, GOT IT? +1 And I agree, those that view it as sexual are due to their filthy own minds. You ever hear of cutting the cord? This is just more freudian nonsense. Generations x and Y blaming mommy and daddy for everything, because they feel that everything bad that has ever happened to them is their parents fault. So now they are overcompensating for that belief with their own children. Its sick and Im ashamed to be from the same generation. More pseudo intellectual liberal nonsense. No shit! Lets go back to the 1950's when kids were raised correctly. Enough of this liberal bullshit. If you want to pull your tit out when your kid is old enough to ask for it, you really think you are helping that child? How do you feel when you see a 4 year old walking around with a pacifier? |