keep your money and your shit darlin', I pay my own way.
I agree that marriage is a bum deal..but for BOTH parties.
It is a trap for the woman..the one you bitch about having a man help with housework, um..maybe cause she was told to get out in the workforce?

Traditionally, it seemed ideal that woman and man complimented each other..nurtured and provided for each other. Now you have a bunch of whiny men who are all about 'mine! mine! mine!' with money earned by both parties, then want to come home and sit on the couch and watch tv with a beer in hand, whining cause their wife who just got home from work and picking up kids doesn't have a 1950's style dinner from scratch on the table and ready as well as 4 loads of laundry done.

seriously?

maybe feminism ruined it..by fooling women into thinking it was 'equal' rights for them to become provider and nurturer both

sadly love and consideration for fellow humans seems to have gone by the wayside, and now it is all about 'what can I get out of it?', instead of 'what can I bring to this relationship to help us both grow as individuals?'

so long as you are looking at it as a war over resources, you do not deserve to find love.