j.a. d. refers to walk in`s and i have never asked about that
if i understood j.a.d. correctly

my question would be
how could you not notice
and upon noticing what kind of arrangement is it
one must be material dimension with non material personality like us
the other must be non material personality
i can`t imagine getting on enough with another anything to consider that
but
i suppose if you were both in love

musing only