or finally let go of attempting it.

for me, the key is *cooperation*: team work.
all things in their proper measure: at the correct dose.

for me, when i let go of trying to *create* or master my destiny is when all the best stuff happens...and believ me, aether, i have done some stuff. i have never lived as a sheep, nor ever been interested in being the wolf either... forging my own path even before my parents 'allowed' me to. i have made and implemented *so* many plans some solo, some in group, some as luetenent, some as capitain.

and in all my wanderings and attemtings, the most amazing results and adventures happenned as a complete surprise and could never have been planned by me or any other human: sinconicity does come about thru a master plan.

there IS no plan.

even God is making it us She goes along.

this truth is deeply unsettling to most, but ALL of my experience, in work, play, projects, and adventures, says that it is nevertheless: truth.

nobody is in control here folks. the future is unkown.

deal with it

we return to mastery of our own destiny in cooperation with our environment (universe)