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so i kinda have a problem....

 
luckyophelia
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so i kinda have a problem....
im moving in with my boyfriend tomorrow. my psycho room mate has borderline personality disorder and has driven me to near insanity but thats another story all in itself.

My main point, is that my boyfriend is a Christian, and I am also, however, we have different values in ways that I'm not sure are compatible so I'm asking You GLP....

my bf wants to wait until marriage to have sex. He's about 10 years older than me (im 22 hes 33)and when we make out or whatever he seems really into it...but wanting to wait? i cant stand it. is that terrible of me?

i told him i was okay with it at first...then he said hed do "other things" but just not sex, however, none of that has happened at all. hes just not all that passionate but at the same time i think maybe i might make him feel that way because im standoffish because he hasnt taken charge.

I have to be the one to hold his hand, kiss him, touch him.... Every now and then he'll 'get it', but for the most part, he's kind of a wimp. Sorry to rant GLP but uhh....any advice?
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08/04/2012 02:06 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
He's a 'mo
luckyophelia  (OP)

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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
He's a 'mo
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9520353


whats a mo?
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08/04/2012 02:12 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
I am a 50 year old woman...many many boyfriends over the years, One marriage and one defacto relationship..

Problems that you have before marriage become tenfold after marriage

Dont go there until you really know whats going on.

Is he impotent
..a selfish lover
..a closet homosexual
..asexual
..drugs , alcohol

all these things he will have hidden from you if they exist, so dont discount them to quickly.
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08/04/2012 02:13 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
1. This is the stupidest shit I've ever read.


2. Run, don't walk, AWAY from this 33 year old virgin who probably has mind issues you couldn't even comprehend.


3. You don't even sound mature enough to be moving in with someone... not to mentioned that you actually had to ask GLP about this matter and the truth isn't obvious to you, just wow.
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08/04/2012 02:14 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
im moving in with my boyfriend tomorrow. my psycho room mate has borderline personality disorder and has driven me to near insanity but thats another story all in itself.

My main point, is that my boyfriend is a Christian, and I am also, however, we have different values in ways that I'm not sure are compatible so I'm asking You GLP....

my bf wants to wait until marriage to have sex. He's about 10 years older than me (im 22 hes 33)and when we make out or whatever he seems really into it...but wanting to wait? i cant stand it. is that terrible of me?

i told him i was okay with it at first...then he said hed do "other things" but just not sex, however, none of that has happened at all. hes just not all that passionate but at the same time i think maybe i might make him feel that way because im standoffish because he hasnt taken charge.

I have to be the one to hold his hand, kiss him, touch him.... Every now and then he'll 'get it', but for the most part, he's kind of a wimp. Sorry to rant GLP but uhh....any advice?
 Quoting: luckyophelia


You must have swamp pussy.
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08/04/2012 02:16 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Does he always wear an "I'm with Stupid" tshirt when hes with you?
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08/04/2012 02:20 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Can we ask you a question OP?
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08/04/2012 02:22 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
I am a 50 year old woman...many many boyfriends over the years, One marriage and one defacto relationship..

Problems that you have before marriage become tenfold after marriage

Dont go there until you really know whats going on.

Is he impotent
..a selfish lover
..a closet homosexual
..asexual
..drugs , alcohol

all these things he will have hidden from you if they exist, so dont discount them to quickly.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16207474


^this!
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08/04/2012 02:23 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Get one of your other male friends to proposition him on the sly. Don't marry a closeted 'mo.
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08/04/2012 02:26 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
He's a 'mo
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9520353


whats a mo?
 Quoting: luckyophelia


DOES HE "EAT AT CHICK FIL A"???
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08/04/2012 02:30 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
GET THEE TO A NUNNERY!
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08/04/2012 02:34 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
try before you buy... period
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08/04/2012 03:08 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
once you are married, he will want it and you won't...
so that's even things out a bit.
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08/04/2012 03:29 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Does it involve the improper use of the word "so" at the beginning of your sentence? ;-)
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
im moving in with my boyfriend tomorrow. my psycho room mate has borderline personality disorder and has driven me to near insanity but thats another story all in itself.

My main point, is that my boyfriend is a Christian, and I am also, however, we have different values in ways that I'm not sure are compatible so I'm asking You GLP....

my bf wants to wait until marriage to have sex. He's about 10 years older than me (im 22 hes 33)and when we make out or whatever he seems really into it...but wanting to wait? i cant stand it. is that terrible of me?

i told him i was okay with it at first...then he said hed do "other things" but just not sex, however, none of that has happened at all. hes just not all that passionate but at the same time i think maybe i might make him feel that way because im standoffish because he hasnt taken charge.

I have to be the one to hold his hand, kiss him, touch him.... Every now and then he'll 'get it', but for the most part, he's kind of a wimp. Sorry to rant GLP but uhh....any advice?
 Quoting: luckyophelia


Does he beat the bishop to tranny porn?
Apollo astronauts couldn't have passed through Van Allen's Belt. Van Allen wore suspenders.
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08/04/2012 03:33 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
1. This is the stupidest shit I've ever read.


2. Run, don't walk, AWAY from this 33 year old virgin who probably has mind issues you couldn't even comprehend.


3. You don't even sound mature enough to be moving in with someone... not to mentioned that you actually had to ask GLP about this matter and the truth isn't obvious to you, just wow.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious




this...
I agree...


the only thing I see you and your bf really have in common is christian brain-washing...
luckyophelia  (OP)

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08/04/2012 04:47 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
1. This is the stupidest shit I've ever read.


2. Run, don't walk, AWAY from this 33 year old virgin who probably has mind issues you couldn't even comprehend.


3. You don't even sound mature enough to be moving in with someone... not to mentioned that you actually had to ask GLP about this matter and the truth isn't obvious to you, just wow.
 Quoting: Mister Obvious




this...
I agree...


the only thing I see you and your bf really have in common is christian brain-washing...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21211342


we're really great together, we are. i was just asking an opinion and i guess i received some...im trying to figure these things out that people have mentioned, however i believe he truly wants to wait until marriage to have sex.

sorry i asked GLP about this matter, maybe its just late and im tired...btw ive lived on my own since i was 17 and ive made it just fine thank you.

whats not mature is posting something rude when all i wanted was advice, not degrading wannabe pep talk
luckyophelia  (OP)

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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Can we ask you a question OP?
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what question would that be?
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
Can we ask you a question OP?
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what question would that be?
 Quoting: luckyophelia



Don't you realize this is something you should be posting on Facebook rather than here?
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08/04/2012 04:51 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
sounds a lil impotent to me, or hes hiding something, like he lost his penis to a dog bite or something.
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luckyophelia  (OP)

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08/04/2012 05:01 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
well i dont know if hes impotent or not but i dont post on facebook LOL

all im asking is would you rather live with a crazy borderline personality disorder chick or someone you've been with for a while that youve had conflicting issues with...but nothing near as bad as where you are now.

its pretty much my fault for being in this situation though in the first place, i get it.
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08/04/2012 05:19 AM
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Re: so i kinda have a problem....
well i dont know if hes impotent or not but i dont post on facebook LOL

all im asking is would you rather live with a crazy borderline personality disorder chick or someone you've been with for a while that youve had conflicting issues with...but nothing near as bad as where you are now.

its pretty much my fault for being in this situation though in the first place, i get it.
 Quoting: luckyophelia


why don't you get your own place?

you have to learn how to get along with yourself before you consider figuring out how to live with some fuck up. (that goes for border-line AND virgy-mc-virgin)
--"In this era of great big brains anything that can happen will. So hunker down." -- Kurt Vonnegut, JR. -- Galapagos.





GLP