I have Peter Pan Syndrom...... Will anybody ever love me the way I am?? | |
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stillhere User ID: 16315970 United States 10/06/2012 09:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound depressed. Improve your health, diet, exercise more, do what you love, spend time in Nature. You need to love yourself, others will respond in kind. If you want to see an entertaining movie about relationships-- Steve Harvey's "Act Like A Woman, Think like A Man", very funny movie with down to earth very practical advice for men and women--full of truth. You are perfect as you are--you are loveable because you are not for what you do, but you must find what you love, be what you love, appreciate yourself-- Visualize what you want, make a plan, work on it. Success breeds confidence--every small step in the direction you want to go is a positive one which will help the next. Make small goals and stick to them. Are you happy with your appearance? Make it the best you can and enjoy your youth, it is fleeting. At a certain age there is not much you can do--being "hot" is a limited time offer. It expires for everyone eventually. Don't let yours slip by. Be a father to yourself, pretend you are your father --give yourself advice and take it. Pretend you are a father yourself--what kind of Dad do you want to be for your kids? Some people don't want to go this route--and that is fine, but you sound like you are not happy with how things are now for you. Start small and encourage yourself. Take the time to reflect--you have fear of growing up--why? Ask the questions, the answers will come. You know, you just have to face it. There is someone for everyone--if you are willing to compromise. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25096589 United States 10/06/2012 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im.not.a.man. I am a girl. I like being innocent. I like loving animals and babies. I love being outside. I still do gymnastics. I love glitter. I want people to be happy I dony like perverts. I dont like drunk dudes. I still eat like a kid. I fuckin watch Victorious for the outfits. I believe in.God ghpsts slender man fairies elves and all spirit beings. I love my gardian angel, I love how God teaches me through experience but I wish I could identify with a grown ass man who understands I just like being the happy kid Ive always been. |
stillhere User ID: 16315970 United States 10/07/2012 12:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im.not.a.man. I am a girl. I like being innocent. I like loving animals and babies. I love being outside. I still do gymnastics. I love glitter. I want people to be happy I dony like perverts. I dont like drunk dudes. I still eat like a kid. I fuckin watch Victorious for the outfits. I believe in.God ghpsts slender man fairies elves and all spirit beings. I love my gardian angel, I love how God teaches me through experience but I wish I could identify with a grown ass man who understands I just like being the happy kid Ive always been. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25096589 Be true to yourself, don't settle for a man who does not value who you are. Men are different, you won't want one just like you, find someone who can allow you to be yourself and you do the same for them--agree to disagree, and find someone who had the main qualities you require-- Someone with character-- Honest, hard working, kind, faithful, someone who can put others first-- I think Men like a girl who is a "girlie girl", expect to guide them a bit spiritually, and you need to require them to be what you need. If not, move on. 29 is still pretty young--I didn't get married till I was 32, after 29 I was more serious about looking for a Keeper. Don't waste your time on someone you wouldn't keep. don't accept anything less than someone being crazy in love with you--actively look and believe you will be successful. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24868786 Australia 10/07/2012 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im.not.a.man. I am a girl. I like being innocent. I like loving animals and babies. I love being outside. I still do gymnastics. I love glitter. I want people to be happy I dony like perverts. I dont like drunk dudes. I still eat like a kid. I fuckin watch Victorious for the outfits. I believe in.God ghpsts slender man fairies elves and all spirit beings. I love my gardian angel, I love how God teaches me through experience but I wish I could identify with a grown ass man who understands I just like being the happy kid Ive always been. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25096589 You just need a good rogering. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25105187 United States 10/07/2012 02:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 29, is young for a man. Quoting: stillhere You sound depressed. Improve your health, diet, exercise more, do what you love, spend time in Nature. You need to love yourself, others will respond in kind. If you want to see an entertaining movie about relationships-- Steve Harvey's "Act Like A Woman, Think like A Man", very funny movie with down to earth very practical advice for men and women--full of truth. You are perfect as you are--you are loveable because you are not for what you do, but you must find what you love, be what you love, appreciate yourself-- Visualize what you want, make a plan, work on it. Success breeds confidence--every small step in the direction you want to go is a positive one which will help the next. Make small goals and stick to them. Are you happy with your appearance? Make it the best you can and enjoy your youth, it is fleeting. At a certain age there is not much you can do--being "hot" is a limited time offer. It expires for everyone eventually. Don't let yours slip by. Be a father to yourself, pretend you are your father --give yourself advice and take it. Pretend you are a father yourself--what kind of Dad do you want to be for your kids? Some people don't want to go this route--and that is fine, but you sound like you are not happy with how things are now for you. Start small and encourage yourself. Take the time to reflect--you have fear of growing up--why? Ask the questions, the answers will come. You know, you just have to face it. There is someone for everyone--if you are willing to compromise. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25107801 United States 10/07/2012 02:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So, are you saying you have no intention of growing up? Sure they will, but probably not for very long at a time. Three divorces later, you might decide that you were doing something wrong after-all, and want a woman to really share your life. You'll probably be about 50 by then, bald & pot-bellied. lol, good luck finding that special someone at that age OP. The older you get, the slimmer pickins it gets. |
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