Hey Im new. I hoping to get male scorpio views on my situation with one I've been with for over 6 years. Sorry this is bit long, I'm trying to give a clearer idea of the issue.

We broke up for the first time recently allegedly to a combination of things, the main with me is him feeling somewhat neglected to my career as well as a situation he said where I hurt him many years ago, one in which I never knew I did. Anyhow I understand that he wants to be alone, it's more so about him dealing with a lot in his life right now.

I sincerely apologized and poured my heart because although he says I'm cold (I'm generally not emotional like that) I have no shame in expressing how I feel because I am very passionate. He previously blocked me out but let me back.

He says he loves me and can't replace me, no one will ever fill that space, he knows this. He says he is not in love due to those things I allegedly did. He sees us back together in the future. He began communicating more and I demanded a fair 2nd chance. He kept this inside when I'm very open, he could have told me he felt that way. He later agreed I was right. He said will have a 2nd chance because I'm am right fair is fair and I deserve that. He just need to get over it, I guess for now.

This is where the confusion comes. I try to give space but he contacts by email asking for things like documents etc. ok. When I contact him sometimes he says he feels like I'm not giving him the space he needs and wants. It makes him resistant.

This confuses me because we practically see each other everyday and contact daily for all these year and I've surely stopped it to maybe 1 time a week and contact ever so often. I think his emotions are possibly messing with his logic? Also, I am trying to heal as well from things he did to me by acting out of being hurt. I'm very resilient and this is another issue, when he gets upset it doesn't bother me like that.

So I'm not contacting him anymore. His bday coming and I'm pretty big on that and he knows this but i decided I'm not bringing the gift I put great thought into to give him either because he says I'm not giving him space. He not cooperating with trying to resolve the old wounds and stuff and take time to get to know each other needs again to work towards trying again, although he said he will give me a 2nd chance. I suppose it's a invisible power struggle because he sees it as I'm decided when that will be when in my head I'm not. I'm just doing what obviously needs to be done to try again later when he is ready. Although I'm not looking for us to jump back in right now, he keeps concluding I'm trying to make him go into a relationship when he said he doesn't want one.

This is very confusing. How else will we get the 2nd time to be golden if we don't work on the issues now? Only thing passing is time. Am I misunderstanding something? I do feel misunderstood. I know he still loves me but all the years we've been together he was never cold to me like this except in the very beginning. He actually isn't being as bad as he can be because it hurts him to hurt me. He thinks I don't understand that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and he has a lot to deal with aside the relationship, yet I really do. I helped him a lot in always solving the problem, always being there. I get that he wants to show independence and remove me so he can handle things by himself. I don't think he understands that in trying to heal the problems for the 2nd try whenever he ready to try again, hopefully sooner than later but it's not my call and I'm not making it my call. Possibly since I am a strong force in my wants and views he thinks I'm trying to make him when that's not the case. Scorp guys?