THanks for the Reply -

But oddly enough - he got so mad at me for looking in his phone - he told me that I was in the WRONG and he BLEW up and left on his own.

Telling me he is not married....
Telling me he doesn't have to deal with me...
telling me i am the one with issues & i need help....
Telling me that all of our fights stem from the fact that i have NO TRUST ....

So he is not here for me to kick to the curb - he blew up and left on his own.