Go volunteer at a soup kitchen. You'll be surrounded by a ton of people truly grateful for what is in front of them and surrounding them. This is the first Thanksgiving since my mother died that I'm NOT spending it with a ton of relatives, and while it's sad, in a way, I can't wait to not have to listen to this one complaining about this, that one complaining about that... I'd rather be at the soup kitchen. Maybe I will... Chin up, OP.