Do hot girls ever hit on average looking nice guys?

I have to admit, in this day and age, if I was single, I would not get serious with anyone without knowing their credit history, especially if they were divorced and had responsibilities like kids. I've got stellar credit practically no debt and pay credit card off each month and have a savings - not many people my age can say this because they live way beyond their means to impress others. To think of getting involved with someone that could destroy that is not worth the aggravation. No good looking guy is worth losing your credit worthiness that you worked so hard to establish.

same goes for women, if she spends a lot, you had better have a good paying job to keep up her shopping needs if you marry her. otherwise, she'll get bored and move onto a guy that can afford her. women are simple creatures, really.

im not a particularly attractive guy, but ive had my share of beautiful woman. never really had any luck in the first encounter scenario tho (bars,clubs etc.) but the ones i have landed, eventuated after spending some time with them. im a nice guy, know how to laugh make people laugh, am passionate about music/life, fun to hang out with. It just took some persevering till i found someone i was attracted to, who enjoyed my company & felt some attraction after hanging out with me a bit. im 34 now, have had 3 big relationships. all around 3 years long. unfortunately I havnt managed to make anything stick long term...fuck knows why? the relationships just faded in all 3 cases. seemed pointless to continue them. but I have known some really awesome females...and am great full to have been able to enjoy the opposite sex so much!

i now have 2 yr old daughter so my priorities have changed somewhat. not really trying to meet woman like i used to. and at 34, i dont give as much as a fuck.

in short: im not attractive & not rich but some chicks found the attraction for them started after getting to know me. there's a lot to be said for having FUN & making her smile, treating her right & not being a selfious prick who just wants someone to polish his knob.

Not all of us have that personality -- just thinking about the kind of guy you are, and I can sort of envision it, it's a LOT of work for someone like me, who is an introvert.

Guys who are naturally friendly and gregarious and don't reek of desperation will definitely have luck, even if they are not good looking.

I'd say I'm above average, but to be honest? My personality, well, it sucks. It's appealing to a small handful of chicks who in my past seemed to at least find me mysterious or something.

For the past seven years, out of school, I never meet girls. Ever.

Being introverted -- really introveted -- is not fun when it comes to finding love. You really are doomed.

And this, my friend, is the root of my depression and anxiety.

I don't think my personality is all that bad when you get to know me, but I feel as though I can't connect with people male or female. Small talk is impossible for me. If I'm not around them regularly then I almost involuntarily go mute and my mind goes blank. Then amidst the awkward silence I can't shake the thoughts racing through my mind that they want nothing to do with me or think I'm stupid, I mean "who wants to hang out with weird quiet guy?".

I have never had a girlfriend, or been kissed. I'm 19, out of school, looking for a job (dread interviews, first was a disaster), and a combination of my introversion, shyness, and anxiety has made my life a living hell. I hate seeing people talking up a storm with people they've never even met at the check-out line when my last experience ended in less than 30 seconds when I had nothing else to say and just stopped talking. I'm happy for couples but deep down I hate that I can't have that what they have. I'm angry at myself; unless I drastically change I'll never find someone for me.

dude you need to team up with what is called a "wingman". Stop worrying about meeting girls and meet some new guy friends. I'm not the most outgoing person in the world at all...in fact my biggest fear is approaching a woman but once the conversation is started, I'm fine. Just have to use the right combination of teasing/flirting while being somewhat nice and showing you're somewhat interested and without overdoing it. It really isn't too hard...and you might find there isn't really an attraction there so then you move on.

Last weekend I randomly, by myself, albeit after a few beers, walked into a restaurant, sat at the bar, met two dudes that were cool and very similar to me and ending up hanging out with them the rest of the night and met a lot of people...and yes girls. I'm NOT a hook-up artist and unlike most guys I know do not do one night stands...so you don't have to be player. You just gotta stop worrying about meeting a girl and just focus on being more social in general.