i just need a friend.

Don´t worry, things are gonna get better soon.

firstly define what you think a friend is exactly.

I do care that you live productively and are healthy and find happiness and purpose, but there are things you have to do in return.
Until you find a positive purpose for your life other than getting pissed and/or preying on the kindnesses of others, it isnt going to go away or get any better.
Consider if you are the problem or not, first and foremost

I'm in Michigan, and I would love a hug from a redhead.

Lots of love to you
As so many otgher here have stated, we are together in this
So hang on...
And let us hear from you, many of us here actually care

Oh the days when we could make friends this easy... But get well soon stranger. This Russian will be sending you warm thoughts.

Hi, I am so very sorry for the despair that you must have been feeling to want to kill yourself. You were not meant to die. Hopefully, you will not only physically be able to heal, but mentally and spiritually as well. Reaching out to people is the answer to finding what you need to make you happy with life. Forgive yourself for any wrong doing, realize that you are only human, and get on with life. Accept help from others. If you want to talk, you can send a private message, and you can bend my ear, if you like. We all need friends, and sometimes finding that special friend who will listen, not judge, and understand, is not easy. I will not judge, but I will listen. You will make it through the flight home, try and remember that. It will seem like a lifetime, but once you get there, it will be ok. I will be checking back in from time to time, so please don't hesitate to write. Hugs!

There is many people here who hope you the best

including me


IT GETS BETTER


hang in there !


PEACE

You are loved. Take heart!

Hey man if you need a friend or someone to talk to you can shoot me an email anytime (gimmiethatchedda@yahoo.com).

Also know that there is hope, and peace to be found. I used to suffer super badly from depression. If you are interested in some answers, hit me up, I think I can help.

Peace and keep your chin up man, it gets better.

Here's a big can of

WHYUSOSAD?

You've got a friend here as well...

Dude, thats not good :(

Ask and yea shall recieve. I'll be your buddy :)

Shame you going bavk to the states. We could have met up. Anyways, you take it easy and be strong to recover :)

That is so sad. What can I do to help?

Much love to you dear. Hugs and sharing a little of Bruce's philosophy.

I know from experience in a very dark place that the love and presence of Yeshua can help carry you through anything.
He knocks at the door of your heart but you must open it and let Him in. He loves you as no other OP.

Man off topic time

No one flame me for this because its my opinion.

I found God on drugs.. I hate how monks and other holy people spend their entire lives by being pure and I found God with drugs. Yes I took the easy way...

Anywho.

If you accept Jesus Christ right now.

When you die, you get a new body and all your depression will be a eternal joke compared too the glory that awaits you in the next life.

Were all going to die, no need to speed it up bro.

Think of it. Perfect body, not being held down by depression or sickness or other mortal weakness.

I'm in nor Cal. Anything u need bro

hang in there

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I thought this was about you needing some furniture moved.
About mid flight jump out of the plane. Even take a floatation device if you like.

Do you need less corruption of a bigger participation cut?

Last Edited by MHz on 12/12/2012 11:01 AM

I am sorry OP. 4 1/2 years ago I was married had a step daughter and a bay on the way. A year after the baby was born I found out that my wife had been cheating on me and via blood test found out the baby wasnt mine. I was devastated.

I began to go through divorce and at the time I was very close to my step daughter who I had a relationship with for 5 years and she called me dad. I actually had a better relationship to her than my wife. My wife then made me cut contact with my step daughter. I then lost contact with my baby since I wasnt the real babies father. I had raised her from birth and to me she was mine still.

I esentially lost my whole family and was completely crushed and never felt lower and more alone in my life.

I began to return to things that made me happy earlier in my life. I began to do things I was good at that I had fun doing, which helped restore my self esteem.

I am starting to go through therapy now and taking some medications that are helping to uplift me while I work through my issues.

I am feeling better now and starting to feel happy again.

The one thing I know and remind myself of is that life is full of ups and downs and I know that when I am on one of the downs I just have to remember that another peak will be on its way.

I hope my story helps you OP. I am sorry life has been so hard for you. I hope you will remember to look for that peak that will be coming for you.

Take Care

Well, if you are still here, much love is being sent your way! Open your heart and let it flow in. There is light after the dark when you get to the other side of this. Remember there are no bad days, just bad moments. I pray that your heavy heart is made lighter.

Now that you have asked this please accept some heart felt thoughts; you must accept yourself, your limitations and out of this a desire to live. Open yourself to prayer and relfect your need to have a friend by reaching out to anyone who comes into your 'space' and giving them a hello and a smile.

Smiling has amazing power. From people whom you are acquainted ask for a hug. It has amazing healing power. It works right away.

Step by step , you will get what you want.

To get a friend you have to BE one.

The hardest part is you have to learn that others are like you have been and those are the hardest to open as it is painful to face possible rejection.

Every deck of cards has four aces, the more rejection or misunderstanding gets you closer to them.

In life if we can count more than two real friends we have been abundantly blessed.

+1

OP, do you mean you need online company or do you need someone physically present? Or are our reactions here being "studied?"
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Could be all of the above :)

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