Actually she should look at this as a good thing, you only ruined and wasted 5 years of her life, leave her and let her move on. you were wrong to fuck with her mind like that, not only does that make you an assshole it makes you cruel as well.

if you have Children with her, you need to devote 100 percent of your time to making sure they will be ok, when I say 100 percent you need to put them on top of your priorities or you will screw their little minds up. always put them first.



but the good thing is now she can move on and find someone worthy of her love and time.