Listen to some Elvis and watch old Groucho Marx movies for inspiration on your act. Then somehow get him alone. Do something so gorgeous and hilarious neither of you will ever forget it so then maybe just maybe he'll make a move for you before he's married and it's too late.
Are you adults? Yes?
Why not ask him pretty please for JUST ONE SECRET NIGHT !!
Open your heart to him - TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM!!
He's a man!
do you have any loyalty to/love for his fiancee?
no? of course not?
then WHAT are you waiting for?
THE MAN IS NOT MARRIED YET, CORRECT???
clock's ticking, time marches on.
GO get yourself a gorgeous new outfit, makeup & a new do.
then have a shot of dutch courage & put on your thinking cap.
HELLO?! knock knock. tick tock. Is anybody home?
hey, you never know.
at least... if you try... you'll feel much better.
Win/Win is how to transform a longtime of pining wondering and kicking yourself into (at least) Just A Memory & maybe more.
Good Luck, and Happy New Year.