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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32852547 Canada 01/28/2013 01:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Looks help, but they are not everything. It is all about having self trust and believing that you are enough for the girl. Seriously I know some guys who are average/not good looking and they get girls all the time because of they have that feel that they are entitled to the girl, that they are enough and that they are doing the girl a favor for sleeping with them. You can change your self, it just takes hard work and will power. I used to be shitty with women, I am not amazing, but I pull now more than ever. We are all born with this knowledge in us, we just have to find a way now to access it because our modern social conditioning has surpressed it for control purposes with all the media/portraying men to be bumbling idiots. Your a man, and that's enough for any women. Be the best man you can be. All the best OP thats my two cents. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 17552394 United States 01/28/2013 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe my problem is that Im not necessarily looking to "hit ass." I want to find someone.. Not just someone Im into, because that happens a lot for me and unless it's mutual it just hurts.. Maybe you're right though.. Perhaps I should go out and just pull some tail and never call em back.. Shit, who am I kidding.. LOL Thanks for the advice.. Confidence is key, just hard to get it back after a crushing blow to the ego from mis reading someone who I "thought" was interested.. Such as life.. Its always about timing I suppose.. Gotta catch em when they like you.. Or, make em like you first? Id dunno.. Im very rusty at the "game." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32852547 Canada 01/28/2013 01:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is the general rule of 1/3,1/3,1/3. 1/3 of women will hate you, the other will really be into you and the last third will think your a cool guy but for w/e reason wont sleep with you(sexual chemistry not there). Your job is to figure out the ones who want you. Your right, some of it is timing. However, alot of it is simply talking and interacting with as many girls as possible and being comfortable doing so. That comes with experience. And you don't get experience by sitting around and doing nothing about it. The fact of the matter is. No one gives a crap if you are shitty with women or are successful with them. You are the only one who should give a shit. Right? Its just like in life...aside from you mom/dad...no one gives a shit about your success in life. You need to do it all. Its a great feeling once you start seeing your own success. |