It's not a story it's a fact. How can someone toy with a persons mind by putting boundaries out there? That's normal. If I said I was busy with work I was seeing other men or playing mind games. That's not normal and this behavior didn't surface until later. He thinks he can just take over someones life, tell lies about their friends, lie about what he does, lie about almost everything. I used to get calls at all hours whilst we were friends and now I am sure it was him because they mysteriously stopped when things were ok between us but I never put 2 and 2 together.

How is saying to someone that you really like them but don't want to rush into anything playing with their mind?he said he didn't want a relationship anyway. No way am I responsible for his weirdness. He has a string of failed relationships that were apparently down to the women being horrible to HIM? I believed him but the more I got to know him the weirder he got.