...I could come off that way, never looked at it like that.
Quoting: notta Well, I'm not a normal guy when it comes to choosing a woman..I want a good mother - so if she has kids I get a peek into that want easily.
No need to be sad.
It just means timing wasn't right to find what you're looking for.
When you tell men you have kids - do you feel like you're keeping a secret?
I mean, the best thing I see is when women rub them in my face.
Hey, I have two kids I love to death and you must accept that to be with me - kind of mentality.
Not the old "I like him, do I tell him I have kids? what if he doesn't like me after?!"
Fuck that, they're YOUR KIDS!!
Love them more than any man!
Oh no, i show my kids off! there beautiful and i am proud, Im not sad its just a journey trying to find love, but im not looking anymore, im waiting for one to come to me :) I take pride in mine and where there names tatted on my body. i am proud. the sad part is not being lonely because im not, its just like a jealous feeling when i see happy couples, i want one! a real one, A man who has kids himself and looking for a mother figure for them, i love kids and done dating men that dont have any.
You see how you're beginning your hunt with requirements?
You can't fall in love with a man without kids?!
...Come on.
Imagine your prince heard you say that, he'd walk away and you'd never know what could have been.
While I understand that past dictates present, you need to remain open to all types of people sharing love.
...Even if it doesn't end up being the person you share a life with, sharing love is a great thing that shouldn't be stopped.
Either way, things happen as they need to happen.
I totally understand the jealousy of seeing happy couples and wanting that - but that's skin deep, you never know what happens behind closed doors.
Take me - I recently met a woman I fell in love with 3 months ago.
2 months ago she was diagnosed with a pretty bad brain tumor requiring a lot of chemo and doctors.
...Most people would run from that!
Me? I think that I met this person for a reason - whether we stay together or not she's in my life for a reason and I intend to stay to find out what it is.
...Too many wusses in the world who run at the first sign of trouble.
