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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 37240373  Canada04/02/2013 11:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1447583  United States04/02/2013 11:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know people say attraction is an important part of a relationship, but that's BS. I've been married almost ten years, do you think I wake up every day "attracted" to my husband? He could look like Ryan Gosling and within TEN YEARS there are going to be times where I just can't stand him, that's the way it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34505392 If a person's appearance changing will make you not love them, then don't get married. That's NOT true love. Easy, right? Marriage is supposed to be through the thick and the thin, sickness and health, whatever comes, WHATEVER COMES, this is your partner, for life. If you married someone and are mad about who you married then you have no one to blame but yourself. No one forced you to get married at gunpoint. If you were single or just had a girlfriend you could just easily go find another one. Life happens. A person could get into a car accident and lose limbs, a person could get burns on their body from a fire, a person could get cancer, a person could gain weight, a person's hair could fall out, a person could turn into an asshole, a person could go insane. Can't deal with these things? MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T GET MARRIED. Marrige is supposed to be for life no matter what the fuck. Marriage is supposed to be serious. Fuck you for being a moron and not taking it seriously. My husband and I are beyond fucking, attraction, lust, friends, best friends, acquaintances, buddies, soul mates, partners. We are family. FAMILY. I feel the same about him as I do about my mother or brother. We cling to one another as safe harbor in this horrible world. I'd love him if he was homeless and dickless and he'd love me if I gained 500 lbs and cut my tits off. If you can't say that then DON'T GET MARRIED. Dumbasses... You sound fat. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 34505392 United States04/02/2013 11:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know people say attraction is an important part of a relationship, but that's BS. I've been married almost ten years, do you think I wake up every day "attracted" to my husband? He could look like Ryan Gosling and within TEN YEARS there are going to be times where I just can't stand him, that's the way it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34505392 If a person's appearance changing will make you not love them, then don't get married. That's NOT true love. Easy, right? Marriage is supposed to be through the thick and the thin, sickness and health, whatever comes, WHATEVER COMES, this is your partner, for life. If you married someone and are mad about who you married then you have no one to blame but yourself. No one forced you to get married at gunpoint. If you were single or just had a girlfriend you could just easily go find another one. Life happens. A person could get into a car accident and lose limbs, a person could get burns on their body from a fire, a person could get cancer, a person could gain weight, a person's hair could fall out, a person could turn into an asshole, a person could go insane. Can't deal with these things? MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T GET MARRIED. Marrige is supposed to be for life no matter what the fuck. Marriage is supposed to be serious. Fuck you for being a moron and not taking it seriously. My husband and I are beyond fucking, attraction, lust, friends, best friends, acquaintances, buddies, soul mates, partners. We are family. FAMILY. I feel the same about him as I do about my mother or brother. We cling to one another as safe harbor in this horrible world. I'd love him if he was homeless and dickless and he'd love me if I gained 500 lbs and cut my tits off. If you can't say that then DON'T GET MARRIED. Dumbasses... You sound fat. You sound like a dumbass that would marry someone and expect them never to change or encounter misfortune of any type. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 37306040 United States04/02/2013 11:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know people say attraction is an important part of a relationship, but that's BS. I've been married almost ten years, do you think I wake up every day "attracted" to my husband? He could look like Ryan Gosling and within TEN YEARS there are going to be times where I just can't stand him, that's the way it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34505392 If a person's appearance changing will make you not love them, then don't get married. That's NOT true love. Easy, right? Marriage is supposed to be through the thick and the thin, sickness and health, whatever comes, WHATEVER COMES, this is your partner, for life. If you married someone and are mad about who you married then you have no one to blame but yourself. No one forced you to get married at gunpoint. If you were single or just had a girlfriend you could just easily go find another one. Life happens. A person could get into a car accident and lose limbs, a person could get burns on their body from a fire, a person could get cancer, a person could gain weight, a person's hair could fall out, a person could turn into an asshole, a person could go insane. Can't deal with these things? MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T GET MARRIED. Marrige is supposed to be for life no matter what the fuck. Marriage is supposed to be serious. Fuck you for being a moron and not taking it seriously. My husband and I are beyond fucking, attraction, lust, friends, best friends, acquaintances, buddies, soul mates, partners. We are family. FAMILY. I feel the same about him as I do about my mother or brother. We cling to one another as safe harbor in this horrible world. I'd love him if he was homeless and dickless and he'd love me if I gained 500 lbs and cut my tits off. If you can't say that then DON'T GET MARRIED. Dumbasses... Wooo... I've been married for almost 50 years (in August, it will be 50), and I have to say neither of us would have stayed married with the attitude you describe. 500 pounds...there's no excuse for that. People need to be considerate of their spouse (maybe you and your spouse are considerate,) but turning into a slob is not acceptable. My husband and I do NOT love or feel the same about each other like a brother or mother. We are husband and wife. COMMITTMENT is what you are trying to get across....but committment means being so caring and so affectionate and loving of your spouse that you want to look nice for them, you want to continue being affectionate and have "sugar time" every day...that means taking care of yourself. Sickness and health...sure....sticking with a spouse through life's problems is part of committment, but both should always continue trying to look their best and be considerate and not "change" for the worse....we want to be constantly improving and doing our best....that should be a big part of the committment of which you are referring to. Yes, marriage should be for life, and both should have a committment to staying fit and healthy and pleasant as much as they possibly can. It's part of respecting your own body and that of your spouse. My husband and I have always tried to maintain respect, honor and caring for one another, and that includes taking care of your own body. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 31586437 United States04/02/2013 11:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 37255712 United States04/02/2013 11:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is the scam of this century... most of pretty hot girls doing lot of gimn to be slim mysteriously become fat monsters just few weeks after the marriage... is it a virus? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36991966 Actually it equate quite accurately to her state of happiness. She thinks she is marrying a REAL MAN, and "Poof right after marriage she gets a whiney little mama's boy with delusions of grandeur that does not know his ass from a hole in the ground. So no, no virus, she just is angry she took the bait. Real men care about the women they marry, and based on these comments, we have some SERIOUS OEDIPUS issues going on! WOW. By the way, I am thin, size 6, and I am not gay either. So before any more fat jokes, limp di"ks, check yourselves. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 37139276 United States04/02/2013 12:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know people say attraction is an important part of a relationship, but that's BS. I've been married almost ten years, do you think I wake up every day "attracted" to my husband? He could look like Ryan Gosling and within TEN YEARS there are going to be times where I just can't stand him, that's the way it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 34505392 If a person's appearance changing will make you not love them, then don't get married. That's NOT true love. Easy, right? Marriage is supposed to be through the thick and the thin, sickness and health, whatever comes, WHATEVER COMES, this is your partner, for life. If you married someone and are mad about who you married then you have no one to blame but yourself. No one forced you to get married at gunpoint. If you were single or just had a girlfriend you could just easily go find another one. Life happens. A person could get into a car accident and lose limbs, a person could get burns on their body from a fire, a person could get cancer, a person could gain weight, a person's hair could fall out, a person could turn into an asshole, a person could go insane. Can't deal with these things? MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T GET MARRIED. Marrige is supposed to be for life no matter what the fuck. Marriage is supposed to be serious. Fuck you for being a moron and not taking it seriously. My husband and I are beyond fucking, attraction, lust, friends, best friends, acquaintances, buddies, soul mates, partners. We are family. FAMILY. I feel the same about him as I do about my mother or brother. We cling to one another as safe harbor in this horrible world. I'd love him if he was homeless and dickless and he'd love me if I gained 500 lbs and cut my tits off. If you can't say that then DON'T GET MARRIED. Dumbasses... Thank you for that post...it seems very "real" for lack of better words. There are days I can't stand my husband either, but he will always be my best friend. If he is depressed and needs me I am there for him. When your married long enough to the point that you really KNOW each other, whining about imperfections without actually helping your spouse is unacceptable. If your spouse is going through a hard time- HELP THEM for crying out loud.... that is what marriage is about. You can't ignore it- you have to tend to it like you would a garden, otherwise don't bother getting married. |
wireman24  User ID: 37311856 United States04/02/2013 12:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | WOW there sure are allot of idiots on here. Who cares if a women is larger then what the media says they should be. I love a natural woman with curves and for some reason I find a belly on a woman sexy. Stop being sheep and listening to the media and your peers. I think if more guys looked inside them selves they would realize that larger women are very sexy. I don't think it's natural how thin women want to be for christ sake some of them have the body of 12 your old boy I say yukk to that, bring on the real women with curves. There is nothing better than a woman in her 40s or 50s that is when they are in their prime if you ask me. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 31128946 United States04/02/2013 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  One of the most basic rules of making your spouse feel loved/valued, is to never make fun of them, and especially in public/ to other people. She's probably gained weight from having YOUR children. It takes 9 months to gain all that weight. Do you think it will come off in an instant? I'd like to see you try! Even if there are no kids, it doesn't matter. You're not perfect either...but I'll bet she loves you, and doesn't judge you when you gain a pound or two. What you did was cruel and thoughtless. True love is not conditional to someone's weight, or the color of their hair. True love means that you love them no matter what ( the vow you took when you married her). There are ways to go about things like this, but you have not handled it correctly. The right way would be to say you want to be healthy. You could say that you want to work out/diet, and offer to do it with her as a couple. You could make it fun...like a date. Tell her that you both would be healthier, and feel more confident. Compliment even the smallest accomplishment, and build her up. People respond better to positive reinforcement than negative. Most of all,it's important that she knows you love her, no matter what her weight. |
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| Alien Technologist User ID: 31988140 United States04/02/2013 01:17 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | More of her to love. No one has ever seen a perfect circle, nor a perfectly straight line, yet everyone knows what a circle and a straight line are. Perceived circles or lines are not exactly circular or straight, and true circles and lines could never be detected since by definition they are sets of infinitely small points. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 37306040 United States04/02/2013 01:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Same here........and don't care who doesn't like it. Happily married and couldn't give 2 craps what others think. They see me rollin, they hatin.  "they really don't care"... no hatin. I would think it would be extremely difficult though, for a fit spouse to have a fat partner.....very hard on the relationship..... I suspect that most of the guys here who are complaining about a fat woman are either very young (still slim and have high metabolic rate)....or they are fat men. The physically fit spouse of a fat spouse undoubtedly has a very hard life emotionally. |
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| BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States04/02/2013 01:33 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The math is simple. Quoting: Super Bowl Dave If you're a fatso, I will not be in a relationship with you or have sex with you. There are exceptions, but they tend to be rare: a) If a girl is under the age of 25, being 20 or 30lbs overweight can lend itself to some hot, sexy curves. b) There is the occasional, rare BBW who is hot. 95% of the time, however, women turn 30 years old and turn into frumpboxes, they lose their curves, lose their indelible sexiness, and more often than not, they end up looking like hideous trolls because they are fat. BBW, Big Black Woman? I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked.  |
