My GFs male friend is driving two hours to 'visit', says its not a big deal

Oh boy, we got a tough guy over here.

In other words, you don't trust your gf and you're insecure. She should have told the guy that she'd ask you first to see if it was OK with you. Not a "permission" kind of thing, just out of respect. Imo.

Hire a hot asian escort to be you old high school friend for a night. See what she thinks of that. Fire with fire.

If she plans on alone time with this guy, you are screwed. If you are invited along on outings, should be ok. If hes sleeping at your hoise and theres a chance she and he will be alone while your at work, shes taking some cock guaranteed. If all else fails, and they get alome time, it is absolutely imperative thqt you abstain from sex with her for six months, if shes preggers in that time, pack up and leave.

All is fair at this stage unless you put a ring on it. The dude is just trying you can't blame him for that. You need to be the better man.

Guys dont have just "girl friends". They have fuck buddies or girls that are friends that they want to fuck. If i was driving two hrs for a h.s gf, id be expecting at minimal, a hand job.

You're the type of dude that gets cheated on because women can sense your insecurity and overprotective, needy nature.

Dudes that don't get too attached to their gf's/wives are always the ones being waited on hand and foot by their bitches because their bitches crave their attention. You on the other hand...

Wait you said no and she said told him to come anyway...not only is your girl gonna go total PSE on this dude...I mean COF, The works...you'll be lucky If they don't throw u out...lol

The second she said but and whatever her lame accuse is I would have smiled and walked over to the door and walked ight the fuck out with the shirt on my back and pride in my fully intact sack of balls...

Sounds like a great opportunity for a Menage a trois. The three of you could have a great sexual adventure. I say go for it if you are man enough. I bet you really secretly want it.

This very scenario happened to me. It wasnt that i didnt trust my gf, i didnt trust the guy. And you never should. You are not a guy so you have no idea the male psyche. They want to plant their seed as many times with as many girls as possible. And some girls are just whores who put out that non whorey exterior but deep down they will take any cock they can balls deep and still carry on with the bf like nothing is wrong, and they do that but current bf is usually financially secure. They dont want to fuck that up. And therfor will lie cheat and steal to keep that atm bf completely oblivious to any indiscrections.

Wait until he gets that pig on all fours and then you are going to see him REALLY drive for two hours.....

Depends on the situation. I have lots of female friends that I would never try to get with, that I am merely just friend with. But not all guys are like this.

It could be either way OP, impossible for us to know.

His ballsack must be pretty full to drive that distance for some pussy!

Oh shit!

So if that's the case, no man should ever be trusted since all they want to do is "plant their seed as many times with as many girls as possible"? Why have gfs/wives then? If that's how you are, since you're a guy, why did you have a gf?

And yep, some women are trashy, just like some men. It goes both ways.

Why are so many GLP men with women who can't support themselves financially? This isn't 1950.

He is going to bone her.

Well you shouldn't have anything to worry about if the man in question is not extremely attractive to women. He doesn't have options so he will stick to one. Women instead are always attractive to some man, even the ugly ones! because men will fuck anything. So they have much more choice to cheat than most average men.

Last Edited by Manu-K on 06/24/2013 11:34 PM

Sounds about right...except the COF...she strikes me more as a CIM...and I know - I was married to one. But I did the right thing...I didn't play the pussy insecure card. When that shit appears (amongst so many other signs) and if you have tried to fix it to no avail by being a good partner, it is best to sack up and gtfo...with the good kind of pride intact. There is no fixing this type of chick and she will always pick a person who she thinks will be a doormat - by sacking up you might actually help her in the long term.

put his ass in the camel clutch and make him talk!!

He might be gay. If not, he's fucking her.

This is not 1980. We have DNA tests.

OP: I've been that guy.

He wants to bang her, no matter what either of them say. She may be naive about it, but he wants to for sure. Don't let them be alone, at all.

Pretty sure that one is not GLP related, nor related to any point in time. I am almost 60 and have seen that so many times in many decades and not just in my experiences. Many women want security *and* everything else with anyone else, no matter how manly, good, confident, whatever the male partner happens to be. Some guys do the same things too but in the past 40 years the tables have totally turned - call it the pussification of the male (which is not really the female's fault).

If you are a white dude nowadays, your best best is single and fucking until something changes your mind or society changes. Perfect status and you can load the dishwasher however you like.

beat the shit out of both of them and tell the filthy whore to run along..

My elephant dong is going to get you ausie.. And you're thinking about it..

She may consider him "just a friend", but he wants more. Guys can't help but think about "it", and especially with girls they're willing to drive four hours to see. Put a stop to it. If she argues with you, leave her. It's better than being cheated on.

Just see where she is and what she is doing

Here is a free cell phone GPS tracker.

Just put in her number


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Is that site legit?

Actually, I had another thought after posting that. If things are so "innocent", then you should be able to see everything that goes on. Say that you want to hang out with them ,and all go out to lunch or something. See how she reacts. That will tell you a lot. If she says they need to be alone. then obviously we know what's going on. But, if she's cool with including you, then she has nothing to hide.