Do you regret getting married?

Your wife just sucked my dick.

No, I don't regret getting married. What I regret is staying married too long when I should have gotten a divorce. No one deserves to be abused.

I do. Mainly because I miss when I was single and free fun life that I had. I think the biggest mistake a man can commit is to get married. Marriage is really a boring thing.
Now I just can't divorce my wife because of many circumstances.

Marriage is worse than going to jail. At least when you go to jail you have hope to get out someday.

Who else regrets getting married for these or other reasons?

ha ha ha.

Maybe. But in a lot of ways. I GOT IT MADE.......
I just have to ground her from the bank accounts and credit cards for a while so can play make money and catch up. But damn, she does buy some nice clothes and looks really good in them...
And If I want to grab some beer and take the boat out on the ocean. She is fine with it. She pretty much lets me do what I want.

Doesn't really sound like you have too much to complain about.

some days. I cant stand my wife. The way she rolls her eyes at me. Running up debt, bouncing checks. Making me broke. And I make more money than most people I know. And IM ALWAYS FREAKN BROKE. Her wise azz comments. The fact she don't work. HER family drives me nuts. The way she is always in a good mood like life is just grand. Her always socializing and on the phone. The way whatever goes wrong she says "well you are the man you are responsible for it" or she does something wrong and she says "well you are the man, you are responsible for me" SHE JUST DRIVES ME FREAKN NUTS. So on some days. yes.
But then again.. she is a great cook. I do almost no housework. She runs my errands. She kisses me soon as I walk in the house every day. She snuggles with me if I sit down. She calls me if im gone just to say hi. I always get laid, whenever I want it. She is a great decorator, far as the house. She is crafty, makes crafts, I think is kind of neat. Not my thing but interesting. She plays a great piano. She makes great impressions on others and makes me look good. She is very pretty. If I say "sweetie come here" she jumps right up and comes over. I never have to worry about dating again, or wondering if I am going to get laid. I almost never have to wonder where she is, she calls and tells me or is following me around somewhere. DATING, you always wondered where they were. it is much better being introduced as "mr. and mrs. xxxx" I think you gain some respect in general from people when you get married. If I don't want to do something, I can often sucker her into doing it. Don't have to worry about having kids, she gave me some and watches them for me. She will usually ask me before doing something. NO worries there. She makes me a birthday cake every birthday. If I tell her not to do something. She wont do it. She lOVES being married. Which sure helps as she is always happy about it and giving. If I say "hey sweetie can you make xxxxx for dinner tonight" she will make it. She does a lot of volunteer work, which doesn't directly pertain to me but it makes me look good. LOL. if I want to lay on the couch with someone and watch a movie, I know I can. It is one less thing in life to concern myself with, as I don't need to find a wife I have one. In a lot of ways it makes it easier. My purpose is to just go make money and pay bills. Near everything else, she worries about. So if Im home, and don't feel like doing much. I don't have too. I get time with my kids, because I don't have a lot else to do because she does most errands and home things.. The years go by, and it seems we have a lot of memories together. irreplaceable. I met her when I was in my early twenties and she just graduate highschool.

And the biggest thing, is when she dresses up. WE go out somewhere. And she looks AMAZING. I just cant help but look at her and stare. Even fifteen years together. Even though, many a day. SHE DRIVES ME TOTALLY NUTS. Because I cant believe. when the nights over, I get to bring her home. ANd she will notice me staring at her. and she will GLOW. And just nudge a little closer to me and give me a kiss.
so over all....... I hate her many a day. But no, I don't regret getting married AT ALL. I wouldn't dream of having it any other way.

HEY OP. you are looking at this all the wrong way. women can suck. No doubt. My wife has her moments when as I said, SHE DRIVES ME NUTS.
But it isn't a prison. Remind yourself, TO ENJOY YOUR WIFE. Time with her, sexually, what she brings to your life. Enjoy your wife. you can have fun, WITH HER. It isn't that you are STUCK. It is that now there is TWO of you. If you aren't taking the time to enjoy your wife. That is probably a lot of your problem. You see the negative. But you aren't getting the enjoyment. And most women, are pretty much followers of their husbands. So if you want to lead the relationship a different way. A HAPPIER WAY for you. Just do it. Give her a little attention, and she will follow right along to wherever you want the marriage to go. That is how it works. Well unless you want to bring her skydiving, she may hesitate on that. But you aren't trapped. Most women, will follow along right behind you if you are nice about it. They thrive for attention from their husbands.

some days. I cant stand my wife. The way she rolls her eyes at me. Running up debt, bouncing checks. Making me broke. And I make more money than most people I know. And IM ALWAYS FREAKN BROKE. Her wise azz comments. The fact she don't work. HER family drives me nuts. The way she is always in a good mood like life is just grand. Her always socializing and on the phone. The way whatever goes wrong she says "well you are the man you are responsible for it" or she does something wrong and she says "well you are the man, you are responsible for me" SHE JUST DRIVES ME FREAKN NUTS. So on some days. yes.
But then again.. she is a great cook. I do almost no housework. She runs my errands. She kisses me soon as I walk in the house every day. She snuggles with me if I sit down. She calls me if im gone just to say hi. I always get laid, whenever I want it. She is a great decorator, far as the house. She is crafty, makes crafts, I think is kind of neat. Not my thing but interesting. She plays a great piano. She makes great impressions on others and makes me look good. She is very pretty. If I say "sweetie come here" she jumps right up and comes over. I never have to worry about dating again, or wondering if I am going to get laid. I almost never have to wonder where she is, she calls and tells me or is following me around somewhere. DATING, you always wondered where they were. it is much better being introduced as "mr. and mrs. xxxx" I think you gain some respect in general from people when you get married. If I don't want to do something, I can often sucker her into doing it. Don't have to worry about having kids, she gave me some and watches them for me. She will usually ask me before doing something. NO worries there. She makes me a birthday cake every birthday. If I tell her not to do something. She wont do it. She lOVES being married. Which sure helps as she is always happy about it and giving. If I say "hey sweetie can you make xxxxx for dinner tonight" she will make it. She does a lot of volunteer work, which doesn't directly pertain to me but it makes me look good. LOL. if I want to lay on the couch with someone and watch a movie, I know I can. It is one less thing in life to concern myself with, as I don't need to find a wife I have one. In a lot of ways it makes it easier. My purpose is to just go make money and pay bills. Near everything else, she worries about. So if Im home, and don't feel like doing much. I don't have too. I get time with my kids, because I don't have a lot else to do because she does most errands and home things.. The years go by, and it seems we have a lot of memories together. irreplaceable. I met her when I was in my early twenties and she just graduate highschool.

And the biggest thing, is when she dresses up. WE go out somewhere. And she looks AMAZING. I just cant help but look at her and stare. Even fifteen years together. Even though, many a day. SHE DRIVES ME TOTALLY NUTS. Because I cant believe. when the nights over, I get to bring her home. ANd she will notice me staring at her. and she will GLOW. And just nudge a little closer to me and give me a kiss.
so over all....... I hate her many a day. But no, I don't regret getting married AT ALL. I wouldn't dream of having it any other way.

HEY OP. you are looking at this all the wrong way. women can suck. No doubt. My wife has her moments when as I said, SHE DRIVES ME NUTS.
But it isn't a prison. Remind yourself, TO ENJOY YOUR WIFE. Time with her, sexually, what she brings to your life. Enjoy your wife. you can have fun, WITH HER. It isn't that you are STUCK. It is that now there is TWO of you. If you aren't taking the time to enjoy your wife. That is probably a lot of your problem. You see the negative. But you aren't getting the enjoyment. And most women, are pretty much followers of their husbands. So if you want to lead the relationship a different way. A HAPPIER WAY for you. Just do it. Give her a little attention, and she will follow right along to wherever you want the marriage to go. That is how it works. Well unless you want to bring her skydiving, she may hesitate on that. But you aren't trapped. Most women, will follow along right behind you if you are nice about it. They thrive for attention from their husbands.

Yeah, I tried that. Didn't work. Wife is a lazy blob that won't get off the sofa or Facebook long enough to clean the fucking mess up in the kitchen. This is the same reason I left my last wife... so she's on thin ice right now.

This is the gayest stupidest thing Ive ever read in my life.
You are just deluded. No woman on earth is worth it. No fucking boring marriage is better than being single and enjoying life. Kick this bitch out of your life and you are going to see that you can be better without her.

I do. Mainly because I miss when I was single and free fun life that I had. I think the biggest mistake a man can commit is to get married. Marriage is really a boring thing.
Now I just can't divorce my wife because of many circumstances.

Marriage is worse than going to jail. At least when you go to jail you have hope to get out someday.

Who else regrets getting married for these or other reasons?

I do. Mainly because I miss when I was single and free fun life that I had. I think the biggest mistake a man can commit is to get married. Marriage is really a boring thing.
Now I just can't divorce my wife because of many circumstances.

Marriage is worse than going to jail. At least when you go to jail you have hope to get out someday.

Who else regrets getting married for these or other reasons?

Yes. I waited 45 years to get married as I was career focused. I own and run a multi state corporation that feeds many people.

The regret is mine because of me. I am not marriage material.

I cannot be what my husband needs. He needs someone who worships him. I do not. I love him, but am not the person who brings out his best self.

The fault is mine.

I regret getting married (Ten years ago). It lasted 3 years from a total of a 5 year relationship. I was with the wrong person. She sucked the life right out of me. Since our divorce in 2010, I've diarrhead at the thought of getting married again. I've lived the life of bachelorhood to it's fullest and regret none of it.

Last year (Almost a year to date) I started dating this woman who I couldn't imagine living without. I was highly skeptical at first but a few months after we started dating, she moved in with me, a few months later, I started realizing that this was actually working out really good.

The two of us are like two peas to the pod. She isn't draining my bank account, she doesn't put any demands on me, we like the same things, do the same things..it's working out pretty well.

We pretty much have acknowledged that we're going to end up getting married to each other one day but there is no rush. We know it'll happen but it'll happen when it does. No timelines, no deadlines..

I think I just found the right person.

My first marriage was a disaster. She hated my family, she hated me succeeding in anything, I went bankrupt, she sabotaged my career. It was a complete and total nightmare.

When I became single again, I literally only had the clothes on my back. I re-established myself from the ground up. I stayed single for a few years before I even thought about dating. I got my own place, called my own shots, did what I had to do.

When I started dating again, because of my past, I was able to make wiser choices. When the red flags would go up, I would stop dating the person I was with. Immediately.

Now with this girl I'm with now. We just click. It just works and it works well.

I don't care what anyone says, you are never 'Stuck' in a relationship. There's always an 'Out'. Life is too short man.

Yes! My wife has lost her mind and turned into a lazy slob. She refuses to keep a job and uses fibromyalgia as a scapegoat. We haven't been intimate in years. Our kids are socially retarded. The oldest is developing anxiety and depression issues. I basically spend all my time alone in my basement office.