is there really such a thing as true love "the one"???

Nope, I find my one every night on a porn site and a bottle of Lubriderm.

you screwed up. you had a chance to be happy, now you have to live a lie for your entire life.

while it sounds romantic, i dont buy 'the one'. how many people on this planet and u are only allowed one to be a mate? its more about a person you like and have some common interests. my wife and i have some extreme differences, but enough in common that our lives have stayed interesting for the 13 yrs of our relationship. if you are happy, you made the right chice. even if you had jumped ship to the one, she may have turned out to be a terrible choice.

Love the one you're with....

I'm not saying I'm unhappy, just that why is it we connect with some people more than others...and I'm talking about that instant connection you have before you even talk to or get to know the person. You just KNOW you want to get to know this other person. The same way certain friendships get born. I've had that happen before too.

Maybe

Yes. I am with Her.

Yes terdays!

I used to believe in this malarkey, but not anymore.
After careful intensive thought I've come to realize that there really is only "the right time and the right place" for two very compatible people that can come together. There is no soul mates.
There is only seemingly "soul mates" but only at a certain timing.
It's all about timing and nothing more...
So if you loved someone intently, and lost, then its only because you missed that ' window of time' that would have made you compatible to the point where its mislabeled as being "soul mates"

I can see your point. So what if the timing was wrong when they first met but the person was the right one for a latter time? I always loved hearing stories of young lovers separated by circumstances only to years later find one another again

No ;-(

Then that would be destiny.

Aww....I kinda like that. DESTINY :) The inevitable or necessary fate to which a person or thing is destined. A course of events beyond human control.

Yeah but no!

It's timing!
Why do you suppose so many people get divorced after 25 years of marriage or so. Usually they boast how "they knew that that was the one"
then comes divorce.
If they were "the one" then why the divorce.
It's nonsense.
Your better off forgetting about her and move on.
If it Didnt happen then it ain't gonna be right 10 years later.
If you missed the window then you missed out.
Hoping and wishing will eventually lead you to the bottle.
Forget about her now!

So on the flip side, is it destined for some to always be alone...and not necessarily by choice??? :/

The One exploited me in horrific fashion over a 7-year period. During that time, all advancements The One made towards me seemed business like and forced. At one point there was an actual a proposal where The One wanted me to sire two children for a marriage between The One and Another, so they could have the appearance of heterosexual marriage.

Words do not describe how awful that was, because The One knew I wanted children and I wanted my children to have access to their parents. I did not get to grow-up around one of my parents. The other used me for child support; But it gets much-much worst.

After the September 2001 attacks The One sought me out, lied to me, and sexually assaulted me. Seemingly to force me into a relationship to escape a realtionship that would make The One paranoid in the face of new legislation. Being it seems to have ended with pregnancy, The One came back and proposed marriage in a sabotaging methodology.

I gladly accepted. Excited at the idea of marriage and children with The One; But, we needed to talk because of what happened for all those years. It seems The One really had no intention of marrying me. The One seems to have only asked in a sabotaging methodology for three basic reasons:

One, for The One's own desire, vanity, greed, ego, hubris for knowing if I would accept the idea of marriage with The One.
Two, to transfer all guilt and blame onto me for The One's preemptive decisions to likely sell the baby/babies (twins).
Three, to further traumatize me in further IPR fashion.

There is so much more, but it does not get better. Non-the-less The One seems to be actively and heavily engaged in massive efforts to assassinate me to cover-up The One's horrific crimes against humanity, our children, my entire family, and I.

But do not discourage The One is real, for just because That One really sold-out the Unified Field of Consciousness does not ......... Be wary of The One.

Last Edited by TastyThoughts on 01/29/2014 11:35 PM

Ok that sounds like THE WRONG ONE, somewhere in your gut you knew this. Surely?

I'm starting to think that way.

I've not had a real relationship for 7 years now and I'm 32. It aint that I haven't tried it's the whole we start talking and it seems like it may flourish into to something better,then I get the cold shoulder.

I have a decent job,I stay in shape,I practice Wing Chun and I treat people with respect,so I'm at odds as to why I've been single for so long.

No.

37 glands in the body release chemicals that create feelings.

And that proves that true loves doesn't exist, how?

Nope.

People come, people go. Some grow young, some grow cold.

I like to think we all have that special someone waiting to find us. Some people may just have to do more spiritual house cleaning then others to get there.

ha, that's usually what you say to married people

it exists, its just not this holy divine thing you've been (and we've all been) convinced it is.

culture has displaced our love of god with our love of man

What about if God unites two people? Makes them find each other and blesses the relationship?

Yeah then the winter Olympics happen and the nuclear event kills all love.

Swwwweeeeeeet.

then right on
but imo if you love woman more than god it will keep you out of touch with spirit

love is a type of devotion and worship
its always a bad idea to pray to a human

Last Edited by teslafire on 01/30/2014 03:50 AM

YES! 37 years! I love her so much! It can happen!