Found out my MIL

What a b*tch.

Really, why can't they let the past be in the past? Ex's are past; unless children are involved, move on!!!

I don't think it's any of your business. Why would you care who his mother talks to? So she is friendly with one of his ex's. BFD. Nothing unChristian about that. Why are using her religion against her? It doesn't affect you - why do you care?

Last Edited by Boss Moss on 02/09/2015 09:22 PM

YOU SOUND MAD. ARE YOU GOING TO LET RUFUS DO YOUR TEETH BEHIND THE DUMPSTER AND GIVE HIM AIDS ?

No children.

My husband told me the old girlfriend was not into sex at all....

and he couldn't take it anymore after about 6 years of trying.

She had her chance.

you're a fucking idiot

If your MIL has been communicating with this woman for 15 years then I'd say the MIL's friendship with the woman is really none of your business.

There might be a connecting factor between the 2 that neither you nor your husband are even aware of.

:youreafag:

thanks!! for saying the obvious!!

you think the old girlfriend ate granmas pussy?

yeah..say g'day to your dad for me.

No wrong answer

I KNOW how good people behave and this is not it


The old girly friend is just trolling for info and the dumb MIL is willing to give it out

This is what I know


My family would have told her to fly off in a nice way long ago....

Right after he gets done bangin' your mom.

You are paranoid. Your hubby should dump you for his weird ex.

my mums a fat hairy toothless old bag.
she could do with some loving

Well she's getting her fill tonight.

well, that wouldn't make sense

the old hag didn't like sex in the first place

Now come up with another one that makes more sense or

get off this thread

Only want serious discussion

crazy wives ALWAYS come up with reasons to hate their mother in law.

I feel your MIL should really be grateful for the future she might have with you and not bring up the past EX, she should get with the future, wish the Ex all the best but her family comes first, if this hurts the family the MIL should really make an effort to move forward, the past can sometimes hurt innocent people and all for nothing, the EX probably has their own future and family to be concerned with

If it has no impact on your marriage, let it go. I suspect you've got more important things to occupy your time.

This will be whatever you let it be in your life. Keep it inconsequential.

The ex has a boy friend but I would imagine if she is ''cold sexually' like before;

the relationship is also rocky unless the boyfriend is not into sex as well...

Thanks for the nice honest comment.

I will never confront my MIL on this issue but I leaves me feeling bad

and like she is a sleasy person.

I keep it all to myself and would never cause problems but

I could not believe it when I heard she still writes to her a lot.

Thanks

I will keep it inconsequential

Just found out and wanted some direction

Got it

Right... it's the ex who is looking for info on you. Sounds the other way around. You are obsessed with her and a control freak.

Let me guess.... it's your hubby that told you she didn't like sex?

She's being a Christian. Maybe she too thought the girl was weird or maybe she sensed the girl had no sense of family and was dating your husband for that sense of family and not because she was madly in love with him. So, all these years your MIL has given the girl the sense of family that she wanted allowing her son to marry you, the girl of his dreams, without worrying about this other girl causing problems.

It's never good to assume anything. MIL's are not always the horrible people they are portrayed to be. Know plenty of people who become closer to their in laws than their own family.

She might be your blessing in disguise and you don't realize it and you are fit to be tied and about to have this whole thing blow up and make a mess of everything. Just keep quiet, ignore it and continue on as though you'd never heard it, it's the smart thing to do.

I really understand why this is upsetting, your MIL must be nosy like you think cause there really is no other reason to keep in touch unless there was a real honest connection and the EX needed some sort of moral support at one time and turned to your MIL for advice, maybe you should really try to explore the reason they STARTED to write. Try to relax cause your life is moving on and hopefully you will get your well deserved answer very soon and you will see it was never going to hurt you but your MIL really has to understand it didn't benefit anyone, even the EX to keep in touch.

The ex had 4 children

they were late teens when she dated my husband

she is close to her family

What you say is BS

the ex is nosey and MIL is dumb

Ex sounds like she has a good sense of family.

Can't say the same about you based on how you describe your mother in law.