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My first grandbaby was Stillborn - We are devastated | |
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| Abi ~ User ID: 45756105 United States04/21/2015 11:43 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation |  I am so sorry for your loss. Heartbreaking :(Last Edited by Abi ~ on 04/21/2015 11:43 PM You accept the love you think you deserve~~~ Love cannot live where there is no trust~~~ Truth has no temperature~~~ Love like it's never gonna hurt~~~ Have no regrets~~~ |
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| I'm Not Even Here User ID: 68933897 United States04/21/2015 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know, I was scared and upset when my son told me he & his wife were pregnant...they are only 22 and I was worried about them being okay. But in the last 9 months I realized they really loved and wanted this, they both have good jobs, they were READY...I even went baby shopping and got all excited. Quoting: Bansheegrrl ~ ~ ~ Baby Spencer was due on May 2nd ...he was 11 days early, I guess. Today while on the way to her regular appointment, she started having back pain...the clinic sent her straight to the hospital and between two nurses, the doctor and an ultrasound, they just couldn't find a heartbeat. (the dr said there's no explanation...nothing he could find after his initial examination.) After an emergency c-section, we got to see him & say goodbye... It's just so WRONG to see a baby like that. Poor little love never even took a breath or opened his little eyes It's just Messed up...WTF!? I'm worried for my son, he's not going to be okay with this. I've got two tween kids who are confused and upset they don't get to be auntie & uncle....my daughter is 13 and totally devastated...my youngest son is trying to distract himself from crying... This family has never dealt with death or real grief before. Prayers accepted and welcomed. Bansheegrrl, there are no words to ease your pain. I'll pray for you and your family...I don't what else to say other than be strong... "May God give you... For every storm, a rainbow, For every tear, a smile, For every care, a promise, And a blessing in each trial. For every problem life sends, A faithful friend to share, For every sigh, a sweet song, And an answer for each prayer" "Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there... I do not sleep. I am the thousand winds that blow... I am the diamond glints on snow... I am the sunlight on ripened grain... I am the gentle autumn rain. When you waken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of gentle birds in circling flight... I am the soft star that shines at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry... I am not there... I did not die... I'll always be here but almost unseen. |
| lucifer99 User ID: 68714273 United States04/21/2015 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it is messed up. My first child lived 5 minutes and I watched as he struggled to live wish I never seen that. Though my first child had fetal hydropsy which is where fluid builds up between the bones and skin so he suffocated. The doctors tried to get a tube down his throat. Your son will hopefully learn to deal with it but you never really get over it it has been 16 years and sometimes still to this day it haunts me the images of him dying. I send comforting energies to all your family and hopefully all will learn to live with it and return to somewhat of a normal life. Be in healing and be in strength neither here nor there. In the spirit of brotherhood Please spin your tale of fate Let everything be understood To the celebration I might be late |
| Bansheegrrl (OP) User ID: 23253402 United States04/21/2015 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am grateful for your words of comfort. All I can do is try to hold some strength for my kids and the rest of the family... so many unanswered questions, and even if there were answers...would it make it better? "It's a metaphor, see: You put the killing thing right between your teeth, but you don't give it the power to do its killing." ~ Augstus Waters |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69002626 United States04/22/2015 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry, OP. I lost a grandson last year, but we got a replacement this year. The poor baby that didn't make it was a terrible episode, he had passed in mom's womb but nobody knew it for I don't know how long. We were all very upset. This only makes you appreciate the next one that much more. Our little one's name would have been Alexander. The Lord took him. He'll be fine and we'll all get together by and by.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69002178 Canada04/22/2015 12:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This happened to my niece two years ago. It was so sad. My heart is with you and your family. My niece went on to carry a boy to full term and just had a baby girl. Two kids now. She was brave in getting pregnant again so quickly. I pray the Lord gets you through this and that you will go on to have more grandchildren. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 67505784 Australia04/22/2015 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for the prayers, and mods please delete the rude replies.. Quoting: Bansheegrrl I am grateful for your words of comfort. All I can do is try to hold some strength for my kids and the rest of the family... so many unanswered questions, and even if there were answers...would it make it better? The Divine will be with you OP. Take some rest. |
| I'm Not Even Here User ID: 68933897 United States04/22/2015 12:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for the prayers, and mods please delete the rude replies.. Quoting: Bansheegrrl I am grateful for your words of comfort. All I can do is try to hold some strength for my kids and the rest of the family... so many unanswered questions, and even if there were answers...would it make it better? No.. because you will not find an answer . Don't question anything that has no answer. Not everything is adjudicatable to humans. I'll always be here but almost unseen. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 40047240 Canada04/22/2015 12:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for the prayers, and mods please delete the rude replies.. Quoting: Bansheegrrl I am grateful for your words of comfort. All I can do is try to hold some strength for my kids and the rest of the family... so many unanswered questions, and even if there were answers...would it make it better? No.. because you will not find an answer . Don't question anything that has no answer. Not everything is adjudicatable to humans. There is no happiness without sadness... |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68327817 United States04/22/2015 12:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry for your families loss. I believe your grandchild will be waiting for you in heaven. He will never feel the pain of life, never see ww3 unfold, never have to grow up in a world that is spiraling into a global tyranny. He is with Jesus now in paradise. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 58826606 Canada04/22/2015 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you may or may not understand this. But, the childs spirit had agreed to re-incarnate at this time, then for some reason important (or not) to that "spirit" it choose to not incarnate. I know these words don't help with the pain, but perhaps with the "why" (((family))) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 68731713 United States04/22/2015 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry for you loss. My second grandchild was stillborn and I know how much it hurts. I have 4 grandchildren now, but I will always love him and wonder what could have been. I got to hold him and I'll always be grateful I had that opportunity. Prayers for you and your family. |
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