Anyone ever dated a bi polar girl?

Run or she will destroy you...
It seems that everybody on GLP has been with this kind of girl. There is definitely something really wrong happening with women during these last decades. Feminism must be a big part of it!

A bi polar person, be they male or female will make your life a living hell. I married one and suffered post traumatic stress syndrome for years after the divorce. I finally went to counseling and dealt with the wounds. I am now happily married for over 20 years but will always bear the scars. Run for your life.

You need to watch this. The Hot Crazy Matrix

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. By the grace of God I managed to escape the charges (after spending my first and only night ever in the slammer), but now I'm left paying child support to a psycho and I have to live with the fact that I gave my kids a nut for a mother. She could be sooooo sweet, and she really did want to change (wink, wink) but in the end they will screw you over more than you can imagine!

On September 7, 1900 Galveston Texas was a great place with just a little bit of rain coming in. Everybody was in a good mood.

On September 9, 1900 Galveston Texas no longer existed.

Have fun!!

Best analogy ever. There will be no warning. You will be consumed, overwhelmed, and pulled under.

I'm just here to lol at the related threads...

And I married one. She kept that secret well. I was on the watch for it in the beginning.

This thread should have been closed and locked after the first reply.

Their power is starting to wane as men wake up. Most would not touch one of these gold-digger psychos now. That is a good trend.

Agreed.dated 2 bipolar.one I met here.here.she was a modelmodel.run or suffer

That's so true. Also about their neediness and lonliness. I really don't recommend this girl, OP. She needs to be in therapy with a good therapist and she needs to be working on her trauma. You aren't going to be able to stop her trauma and most likely you have an incredible amount of baggage of your own. Maybe you like her because you are an asshole and you see someone who might be your victim for life. She might not be able to stand on her own and after you get done messing with her head, she might never again.

Why don't you just move on like a decent man and quit having sex with this girl. She is sick and at best, you are probably going to end up making her worse.

I mean look at the mess I'm in. I married a man who lied compulsively. He would pull out a lie to cover his ass anytime, anywhere. He never thought that he should be called on his bullshit either.

I was up at the store today. We closed it. Today is the first day that it's closed and he wouldn't put a sign up so that people would know that we have gone out of business. He worked today and I held down the fort and got my son and myself to the therapist and I tried to sell a fixture at the store. I was up there and you just wouldn't believe the mess. I also found unopened, unpaid bills. We have 4000 in tax refund coming and it's going to take every penny to close that store and get all the mess cleaned up. His dad is a hoarder and he is a hoarder. I've been working for 24 years on that. There is a mess going on that you wouldn't even believe and tonight, he runs off to the therapist who is his best friend.

How am I supposed to feel knowing that he's going to put off dealing with this mess and make an even bigger mess. But, I already know what's going to happen. I already know that we aren't going to be able to get that building cleaned out and handed back to the owners within a month's time. If it's going to be, I have to go clean the garage and have everything ready to go. He isn't going to have any time to do anything. Right this second, he thinks time is on his side, but to me, it's already ticking away.

He is also going to leave people that we owe money to hanging. That's what he does. I'm scared again. I was feeling better yesterday and thought we could do this, but I'm scared again now.

Time for another Xanax.

Run, asshole. Don't get married and quit having sex. It isn't worth it. They will destroy you and then they will convince everybody that they are the good and normal one and you are abusive. You won't be able to get people to believe you and you will end up way sicker than they are when they are done.

It was just 2 years ago that I was begging God to take my life.

I am married to a wonder, bi-polar woman. When she's normal, its' awesome. When she's not normal, life sucks like nothing you have ever experienced. Oh, drugs don't fix it.

How good are the blowjobs?

NICE...

I have not........I mean I have.

She was cray. I hope she be on the better now. She was so pretty.

OP here. I chose not to take GLPs advice and went ahead and dated her. Wound up getting an apartment together and THOUGHT we were happy. Everything was awesome. Till I found out she was cheating on me at the same time as begging me to marry her. I showed her a bunch of FB message history and said explain this. She grabbed the laptop, locked herself in the bathroom and deleted it all, then came out and said, show me this history your talking about? Im like really? She was dead serious.

When I called her on it, she grabbed a stake knife and tried to kill herself, which I stopped. Cops came. She was arrested and is not awaiting trial for domestic violence, which I hear she is going to plead not guilty for and try to turn it all around on me, which will probably work because she is female and Im male.


You were all right.



God damn she was beautiful.

Run

The sad thing is they could fix themselves with a little bit of googling.. Its been discussed here before that emotions are generated by the subconscious/limbic system... If you let yourself be ruled by your emotions you reinforce them. The key is calm acceptance... Observe the feelings without getting swept up in them when they occur... Also called mindfulness. Then change your focus on positive affirmations and visualization and over the course of months you will reprogram how your subconscious reacts.

Met her here.I think her handle was Jessie.very pretty at first.but the booze n drugs and electrical shock treatment.made here old.run

You can't fix anyone with emotional problems. No amount of logic will fix it unless they believe it and apply it.. They have to fix themselves and it takes incredible discipline and practice...

Too late.

Funny you say that because she told me every single one of her ex bf's abused, raped, and or tried to kill her. I have come to learn that it was probably the other way around.

She seemed so sweet...

Oh and after the police were called to our appt. and she was taken to the hopsital she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder on top of bi polar....


So Im guessing that combo means no matter how much treatment and "meds" she gets she will never be able to be a true, honest, faithful woman to anyone.

what's her sign?

Leo

If you feel she is a bit weird now? I assure you it will only get worse.

Well shes in therapy and on some fucked up meds.

When she takes them her pupils are damn near the size of her entire iris. Its scary.

"controlling impulses"
my last ex said that to me and she fucked my best friend after we broke up started dating him, neither of them ever told me, he ended up committing suicide and she told me like 2 years later they dated after me.

I want to say she's crazy but that's a blanket term that doesn't express any specific actions or emotions.

She will be depressed, possessive, jealous, insecure, selfish.
Then she will be angry, whiny, stupid, aggressive/loud, clingy, need to hear a million compliments from you and explain why you love her, you will need to explain like a hundred times in depth as to how and why you feel that way.

Run, or string her along on the side but definitely do not get an apartment with her, she will fuck your best friend or anyone in your life that seems like an upgrade.