Who here still love the ex wifes or husbands

That's because they don't 'love' anyone anyway, except maybe their offspring and themselves. And many times, the offspring are in doubt.

They can conjure up a tear, a phony orgasm, a laugh, but there's no telling what is genuine and what is an act.

Face it, for true love and companionship you're better off to get a small dog.
Keep some bimbos on speed dial for satiddy nights.

We talked years later and one of the first things she asked me was how much I made a year. lol. It amazing how much people change between the ages of 16-21. Whats funny is the woman I married moved into a crappy apartment with me. We only stayed there 6 months and a house, well below market value fell into our lap. I make good money now and have even become an accomplished commercial artist outside of my career. Becoming artists was one thing me and my old girlfriend use to dreamed of and went to school for. I dropped out because I saw college art degrees for what they were, BS. I've been really lucky financially and has allowed me to spend time on art. Sometimes I wonder if she ever googles me and sees how ive accomplished things career wise and now as a paid commercial artist as well and just maybe regrets giving up. I still love her and wouldn't want her to regret her life, but sometimes my mind goes there. Whats funny is without that pain Im not sure I could have accomplished what i did. Man this is a fucked up existence.

Yeah the first cut is the deepest then after crawling out of the pits of hell unless you are a retard you will learn your lesson and never put ur self in the same position next time.........

I'll love my ex until the day I die -we were together for 18 years.

We grew apart, though - we were too young when we got together, didn't know who we'd become. We never lacked love, we lacked compatibility.

I wish him the best on his journey, and I'll always be thankful for the time we got to spend together.

We were childhood loves, each other's firsts.

We always thought we'd end up toughing it out to forever, but it just didn't happen.

what a depressing thread

You've got to be shittin'! My divorce wasn't bad, but I would never trust that bitch again. No fighting, she just said "I don't know what I want, but it isn't you". Now the kids are all grown up, and I never have to see her again!

eleven years together and he cheated on my the whole time, I left him and moved away. Its been 15 years of not seeing him and I started dreaming of him 6 months ago, don't know why I was miserable with him

Because he cheated on you the whole time?

I did love him that's why I stayed with him but when he didn't bother coming home till 6 in the mornings I finally got my belly full.Its miserable to love someone that don't care about you

I dreamed about me ex while ago and felt so real and I was asking her questions about her new husband she answered all my questions....... I asked her if she loved him she answered no then she said that was with him just for the money which is not far from the truth Lol ........... Sometimes dreams can be messages.......

I dream about my ex all the time, very real dreams that seem like our souls are meeting up in some alternate reality. We were together 14 years, married 11. I dreamed about him for about 4 years before I met him and the first time I saw him it was, "Whoa! He is Real!" because I thought it was just some random person I dreamed of. Things were perfect for about 6 years but then he got in with some bad friends and started smoking crack ... which led to screwing nasty women and lying to me. I gave him several chances because I just loved him so much, but finally had to go, moved to another state. It's been 7 years, he has a new woman but not married, I've dated but can't find the kind of relationship we had together when things were good.