I've been with my man for 15 years, but he still wont set a date

leave him cus he wont marry you?


ha.

prolly would leave him ONCE you two got married.



enjoy what you've had for 15 years and stfu. here's to 15 more!!

why buy the cow ,when the milk is free

he's just not that into you

He's protecting what he worked hard for.

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If you genuinely love the man, then you wouldn't be worried about trapping him into a societal contract that threatens to destroy everything he has every worked for.

Instead of pushing him to get married, indicate plainly that you want children.

In the event the man has children, he is obviously obligated by the State to provide child support, but that is locked in to 18 years. By avoiding a marriage contract, the man is preventing himself from being exposed to alimony and spousal support should you just decide to change your mind [guarantee if this guy didn't have so much money you would have left YEARS ago].

He's scared you'll take advantage of him and has trust issues. I have bad trust issues I know I'll never get rid of no matter if someone's been nice to me forever (I don't even trust my imaginary friend), maybe he's the same.


Up to you on leaving.

You do realize marriage hinges on a piece of paper, right? It's my experience that it means NOTHING where the value of loving devotion are concerned.

The children thing: DO NOT force, manipulate, or trick a man into having a child...for the child's sake, just don't do it. If having children is more important than having a relationship with this man (if he's not wanting children), then head out.


And how are we supposed to know whether or not he thinks you're good enough to be his wife? You've been with him for 15 years and you don't even know. Sheesh.

depending on the state you mayallready be married common law. If this is the case show him and you will get married soon.